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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!

Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield

They may be lactose intolerant

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By *trangeleftyMan  over a year ago

London


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??"

Girls have a lot to choose from... if a single guy stands them up once then they think all single guys will do that

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"They may be lactose intolerant "

But I got "milk" lol x

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??

Girls have a lot to choose from... if a single guy stands them up once then they think all single guys will do that"

And I tell them...prove me a lie..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Too much hiding of the goods, what else do you have to hide

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??"
Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married?

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Too much hiding of the goods, what else do you have to hide "

The only way to see the "goods" will be in person x

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married? "

Yep...but discression means more than that...I run a guest house...so in evenings...shhhhh familys...that's all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your status sounds like you don't care who relieves your loneliness and you are expecting more than a polite "goodnight" once your, paid for by you, night out ends

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Your status sounds like you don't care who relieves your loneliness and you are expecting more than a polite "goodnight" once your, paid for by you, night out ends "

Well I cant fit all that in a status box lol... this is a sex site after all..so should go without saying... I'd put social up if not...or am I being thick?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??"

You’ve been on 2wks , that’s no time at all on here, that profile is long and I gave up after about the 3rd or 4th line, I’m not sure how many would make it all the way down?

The pics aren’t the best, but take a look at some other guys pics and see if you can take any inspiration from them

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??

You’ve been on 2wks , that’s no time at all on here, that profile is long and I gave up after about the 3rd or 4th line, I’m not sure how many would make it all the way down?

The pics aren’t the best, but take a look at some other guys pics and see if you can take any inspiration from them "

I'm doing the best I know how to lol..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your status sounds like you don't care who relieves your loneliness and you are expecting more than a polite "goodnight" once your, paid for by you, night out ends

Well I cant fit all that in a status box lol... this is a sex site after all..so should go without saying... I'd put social up if not...or am I being thick?"

It is a little creepy and some women would feel like they were being bought... And just to stop you from being lonely... Oh, and it is a swingers site... Not just a sex site

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Your status sounds like you don't care who relieves your loneliness and you are expecting more than a polite "goodnight" once your, paid for by you, night out ends

Well I cant fit all that in a status box lol... this is a sex site after all..so should go without saying... I'd put social up if not...or am I being thick?

It is a little creepy and some women would feel like they were being bought... And just to stop you from being lonely... Oh, and it is a swingers site... Not just a sex site"

Well I'm very chatty and have talked to alot of people from my area. Most of it very positive. It's just bridging that chat / meet gap x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married?

Yep...but discression means more than that...I run a guest house...so in evenings...shhhhh familys...that's all"

Well their ya go just put that on profile, I run a guesthouse in Yarmouth discounted rates for swingers, free for women who want me

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married?

Yep...but discression means more than that...I run a guest house...so in evenings...shhhhh familys...that's allWell their ya go just put that on profile, I run a guesthouse in Yarmouth discounted rates for swingers, free for women who want me "

Hahahaha I don't need that kind of attention lol it's a respectable house lol.... just run by a horny guy lol

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only

After seeing a few comments on the length of your profile I had to look, saw how long it was & gave up, I imagine after reading it to the end one would either be asleep or there wouldn't be anything to talk about should you meet.

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"After seeing a few comments on the length of your profile I had to look, saw how long it was & gave up, I imagine after reading it to the end one would either be asleep or there wouldn't be anything to talk about should you meet. "

Yeah...I just cant edit it any further..

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"After seeing a few comments on the length of your profile I had to look, saw how long it was & gave up, I imagine after reading it to the end one would either be asleep or there wouldn't be anything to talk about should you meet. "

It also helps keep nutters and not so reputable women away...x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Profile is way too long and rambling. Insulting saying the second lady was terrible as well. I hope she's not reading this. 420? Instant turn off. We dont need to read your life story, just a summary of what you can offer and what you are looking for. Good luck.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"After seeing a few comments on the length of your profile I had to look, saw how long it was & gave up, I imagine after reading it to the end one would either be asleep or there wouldn't be anything to talk about should you meet.

It also helps keep nutters and not so reputable women away...x "

I'm not sure which of those I am

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Profile is way too long and rambling. Insulting saying the second lady was terrible as well. I hope she's not reading this. 420? Instant turn off. We dont need to read your life story, just a summary of what you can offer and what you are looking for. Good luck. "

Ex wife.. ok I'll have to seriously reconcider

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out. "

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x"

Yes a night out and the expectation of sex after. You'd be better to maybe get an escort if you want guaranteed sex.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x"

But I don't want a night out paid for... I like to meet for a drink though but can pay for myself

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Offering things in exchange for meeting you is a turn off. I want to meet someone on their merits.

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x

Yes a night out and the expectation of sex after. You'd be better to maybe get an escort if you want guaranteed sex. "

The lady always has the choice.. ut like I said this is a sex/swing site.. so it should go without saying???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't fuck any man who offers to buy me drinks.

Fuck for a beer. No.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x

But I don't want a night out paid for... I like to meet for a drink though but can pay for myself "

fine with me..x I've offered social only..

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"I don't fuck any man who offers to buy me drinks.

Fuck for a beer. No."

Then go in piece and be happy x

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't. "

Maybe that's the problem...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way, status is a real turn off too, looks like you are expecting sex in exchange for a night out.

At least I'm offering a night out..

I'm never going to say "hey fancy a quick bollock unload in a ditch"? ...before you say anything... this is norfolk x

Yes a night out and the expectation of sex after. You'd be better to maybe get an escort if you want guaranteed sex.

The lady always has the choice.. ut like I said this is a sex/swing site.. so it should go without saying???"

Why does it?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There not hookers mate girls dont wanna be baught they wanna be impressed and aroused

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By *ittlesub4uWoman  over a year ago

Manchester

You’ve come on asking for advice, people have offered it and you’re just making excuses.

Your profile is too long, your status and profile comes across as desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem..."

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?!

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem...

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?! "

Possibly... I've cut my profile down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem...

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?!

Possibly... I've cut my profile down"

When you say, socials are welcome but no time wasters, what do you mean?

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem...

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?!

Possibly... I've cut my profile down

When you say, socials are welcome but no time wasters, what do you mean? "

I got stood up...and humiliated into the bargin..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem...

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?!

Possibly... I've cut my profile down

When you say, socials are welcome but no time wasters, what do you mean?

I got stood up...and humiliated into the bargin.."

You know, time wasters don't care, right!? Dread to think why being stood up was humiliating though

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By *at4fun888Woman  over a year ago

Lancashire

The 4 meet requests you’ve got on there would put me off....4 meets 4 different nights.

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"It should go without saying, but believe me it doesn't.

Maybe that's the problem...

Or maybe your expectations from a swingers site are?!

Possibly... I've cut my profile down

When you say, socials are welcome but no time wasters, what do you mean?

I got stood up...and humiliated into the bargin..

You know, time wasters don't care, right!? Dread to think why being stood up was humiliating though "

long story...mainly my fault.. but stud up over a coffee.. NSA

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married?

Yep...but discression means more than that...I run a guest house...so in evenings...shhhhh familys...that's allWell their ya go just put that on profile, I run a guesthouse in Yarmouth discounted rates for swingers, free for women who want me

Hahahaha I don't need that kind of attention lol it's a respectable house lol.... just run by a horny guy lol"

lol you saying you're not respectable?

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"The 4 meet requests you’ve got on there would put me off....4 meets 4 different nights. "

I've got nothing on...

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Cant get a meet .. I'm I that bad? Offering full night out.. I'm buying. Mine or yours? Been called a lier..which I'm not.. a cheet . I'm single ??Wow that profile is long why are you a liar are people saying you're married?

Yep...but discression means more than that...I run a guest house...so in evenings...shhhhh familys...that's allWell their ya go just put that on profile, I run a guesthouse in Yarmouth discounted rates for swingers, free for women who want me

Hahahaha I don't need that kind of attention lol it's a respectable house lol.... just run by a horny guy lollol you saying you're not respectable? "

In private....x

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By *at4fun888Woman  over a year ago

Lancashire

4 meets and events on your profile....

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"4 meets and events on your profile...."

Yeah...I'm free and single??

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By *isser36Man  over a year ago

fylde Coast

Hahahaha mate.... 2wks... If your getting frustrated already its going to be a long ol slog for you!

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By *at4fun888Woman  over a year ago

Lancashire

Ok so you’ve asked where you’re going wrong- but get defensive when people tell you what turns them off about your profile?

I don’t think anyone is going to give you an answer you like here.....

You asked for opinions- people have given them....but you don’t like the answers?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"4 meets and events on your profile....

Yeah...I'm free and single??"

I put meets up for when I'm going to be free, several at a time, theres nothing wrong with letting the world know your availability

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

You're 5'11" and have lost three stone so you must have been quite heavy yet you have never had sex with a woman lighter than you ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find telling the truth will help with people believing you

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"You're 5'11" and have lost three stone so you must have been quite heavy yet you have never had sex with a woman lighter than you ?"

Yep I'm now 13st

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"Ok so you’ve asked where you’re going wrong- but get defensive when people tell you what turns them off about your profile?

I don’t think anyone is going to give you an answer you like here.....

You asked for opinions- people have given them....but you don’t like the answers? "

I have listened and made changes I feel need changing...but cant please everyone

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Ok so you’ve asked where you’re going wrong- but get defensive when people tell you what turns them off about your profile?

I don’t think anyone is going to give you an answer you like here.....

You asked for opinions- people have given them....but you don’t like the answers?

I have listened and made changes I feel need changing...but cant please everyone"

You can't and you shouldn't try.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"You're 5'11" and have lost three stone so you must have been quite heavy yet you have never had sex with a woman lighter than you ?

Yep I'm now 13st"

Congratulations on your weight loss. So all your partners have been over 16 stone?

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By *eteforprincesss OP   Man  over a year ago

up a monkeys butt!


"You're 5'11" and have lost three stone so you must have been quite heavy yet you have never had sex with a woman lighter than you ?

Yep I'm now 13st

Congratulations on your weight loss. So all your partners have been over 16 stone?"

yep... only 2 partners

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