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Broken my back anyone chat

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Get well soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you so much pain and opp in an houre bit nervis

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

The pain of a broken back is awful. I hope the surgery helps. I know from when a very close family member broke their back that it's a horrible experience. How have they immobilised you while you're waiting?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Also if you're in too much pain tell a nurse they might be able to increase your pain relief

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Back brace and lots of morthin an of for sugary in 10 rather scerd i must say rhey going to.put pins in and all that just want it done now will upday soon thank you x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Back brace and lots of morthin an of for sugary in 10 rather scerd i must say rhey going to.put pins in and all that just want it done now will upday soon thank you x

Good luck. The back brace will mean you can be mobile at least and you will be able to remove it to wash after a time. Get someone to bring you a comfortable tee shirt to wear under it. Let us know how you get on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God how awful!!!...hope you're feeling better soon xx

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"Back brace and lots of morthin an of for sugary in 10 rather scerd i must say rhey going to.put pins in and all that just want it done now will upday soon thank you x

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Good luck xxxx

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Hope you feel better soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont have no one and i will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all for your suport im of to sugary now will updat when im back with it x

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By *willfindyouWoman over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Best of luck

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

"Thank you all for your suport im of to sugary now will updat when im back with it x"
from a fellow Gosportarian good luck op

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Hope all goes well with the operation

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just out of sugary 8 pins in my back need to have a nover op monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank ypu for your suport i realy do apresheat it xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like you need more than just pain relief. Good luck finding some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your back dude.

Hope you get well soon but while you are there try to chat up nurses who are into anal sex

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

Hope you are feeling better soon.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thank ypu for your suport i realy do apresheat it xx"
Sounds Painful how you feeling now sending you hugs get well soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Feeling verry sore and stif but bot in that way lol more pain releth coming and no fit nurse here yet moving me to intensiv care soon as the op dident go to plan but i can still move my feet sk thats good xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Feeling verry sore and stif but bot in that way lol more pain releth coming and no fit nurse here yet moving me to intensiv care soon as the op dident go to plan but i can still move my feet sk thats good xx"
x

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By *qua vitaeWoman over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Sending you best wishes for a speedy recovery.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple over a year ago

Porthmadog

The very best wishes for a speedy recovery from both of us

Ross and Suzie xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you ill be back in a bit going for x-ray xx

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

How awful, wishing you a speedy recovery.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best of luck for a speedy recovery Op xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After having 12 hour surgery last year the road will be long. Look at recovery weekly not daily. Stay positive, this isn’t easy but look to your friends and family for support and help. I was in hospital for 7 weeks.

When I was going through it I deleted all social media and apps. My reasoning was those who really care about me had my number. It’s really hard to say this but leave your phone alone, especially when in icu and under the influence of pain meds. I rang and texted total gobbledegook to my contacts.

I wish you all the best for a speedy recovery. You’re already doing well 2 hours post surgery to be doing what you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck and get well soon. Sounds like a long road to recovery. Keep with it. You will get there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope you have a speedy recovery and are out of pain soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you they are not hapot with it got to have a nother op tomorrow

thank you evryone you have taken my mind of a lot of things xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Let us know how you are after your next surgery. Wishing you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will do i need to get dome rest update you all latter xx

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

I think you need a doctor, not sweets (couldn't resist, sorry)

Hope you recover quickly op

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Little up date for you all pain not so bad now on stronger pain releath sleped about 5 hours and have a infection but not to bad aparntly being bed bound is hard work tho just want to move around but cant thank yoh again for all your messages xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Little up date for you all pain not so bad now on stronger pain releath sleped about 5 hours and have a infection but not to bad aparntly being bed bound is hard work tho just want to move around but cant thank yoh again for all your messages xx"

Good morning. Hope you get lots of visitors to while the time away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

My body organs are fucked and infecting eachother

I think I decided my sickness was in the top 30% of things I would rather not happen to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enjoy the morphine.

I got maximum.

I was in so much pain I had to stay with mummy and she had to wind me like a baby because I couldn't walk and morphine bunged me up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck OP.

Can't be easy

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Sorry to hear about your back... wishing you a full and speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing you all the best

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By *hatterbox 2Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

all the best for a speedy recovery xxxx

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By *uilder506Man over a year ago

bognor

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

I been in a similar boat mate , really do

Understand and feel your pain sorry I can’t help

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

Best wishes from a local. Hope you're on the road to recovery x

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By *atureBoySouthMan over a year ago

Fareham

Strewth, sorry to hear this.

Hope you are getting sorted. I'm local - if you get stuck and need anything brought in, I can see if I can help. Where are you, SGH, or QA?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Hope your recovery goes well and you get needed relief

. Awful accident to have had xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope the pains well managed and you’re on the mend soon

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By *urved HunnyWoman over a year ago

Essex

Wakey wakey lol. Hope you are comfy and can relax whilst in recovery, soon be off out and flying about again x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus that’s aweful man! Hope everything works out okay. Had a similar experience. It absolute sucks but realize it all comes out in the wash one way or another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enjoy the morphine.

I got maximum.

I was in so much pain I had to stay with mummy and she had to wind me like a baby because I couldn't walk and morphine bunged me up"

Thats what heavy duty pain relief does.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Hope you will get better soon, OP. I broke my knee, badly, last September, needed two surgeries, one to put ex-fix (external frame holding the break in place so the swelling can be reduced), another one to put two metal plates in my lower leg. I was in hospital for 27 days, had yet again learn how to walk again, first with Zimmer frame, then 2 crutches, then 1 crutch, and nothing now for the last couple of months. I'm still struggling, have better days and worse days, and I'm a walking human barometer nowadays (my leg aches when the weather's due to change).

My advice: as soon as you can, work with physio, and work hard. Do what they tell you to do, and try to do as much around yourself, in your bed, as you can, as you are going to need upper body strength.

And good luck.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

Good luck X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Morning thank youball for your messeges i had emigance sergary yestday insted of today not having a good morning dident sleep well last night and been being sick probaky all the meds i know the opp went well and thay are happy with it aby one want to messge me and chat im hapoy as wontbhave no viserors today hope younall have a good monday xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Morning, glad the last surgery went well! You, hopefully should start physio in next couple of weeks and like another poster said - listen, listen, listen and work however hard it seems!!! Hope they get your meds sorted!

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By *TkitkatWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

Make sure you don't do too much too soon, equally don't just lie there waiting for the pain to go. Little and often is best, one position means you'll heal stiff (haha) and when you do want to / need to move it'll be harder!

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Good morning ..stay positive mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you and evry ladys deream stiff and hard lol but i have ask when i can move and they will try latter see i can lay on my side xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best of luck with your recovery. It'll be a long road but with determination you can overcome it. I wish you well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Afternoon evryone dose anyone know if i can ask for sleeping tabkets or somthing as cant sleep and pain is unreal xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Afternoon evryone dose anyone know if i can ask for sleeping tabkets or somthing as cant sleep and pain is unreal xx"
Ask the nurses xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Afternoon evryone dose anyone know if i can ask for sleeping tabkets or somthing as cant sleep and pain is unreal xx"

You can

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By *ilentnoiseMan over a year ago

Belfast

Good luck mate. Get well soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you i will ask them and not slept sins sataday

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sending a hug of support your way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sending a hug of support your way"

Thank you i need hugs and suport fab family is my only family xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that mate...hope it all gets sorted ok.

I fractured a vertebrae some years ago - not as serious as what you have but was still friggin painful, so you have my absolute sympathy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope today's been a little better x

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

How's it going mate ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Sending a hug of support your way

Thank you i need hugs and suport fab family is my only family xx"
How are you feeling xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Morning thank ypi all for your messages sorry ident reply yestday had sleeping pills and police here and feel a bit better today they changed my meds for somthing stronger. Thanl youbfor all the support if it wasent for you i dont know where id be and if you dont beleav me come see me in hospital allways one hatter

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Good morning mate

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Morning thank ypi all for your messages sorry ident reply yestday had sleeping pills and police here and feel a bit better today they changed my meds for somthing stronger. Thanl youbfor all the support if it wasent for you i dont know where id be and if you dont beleav me come see me in hospital allways one hatter "
Glad your feeling a bit better xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing you a rapid recovery. Best wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Glad they've sorted out your medication better!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing you a full and speedy recovery !

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

Hope alls well OP

Why did they send you to intensive care?

What went wrong with original operation?

Just curious as I work in an operating theatre and we do a lot of spinal surgery. Are you sure they were ‘pins’ that they put in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had a infection and i think the dr said pins not iv so out of it most of the time and thsnk younall again

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So i had plates and screes in a bit of my back i ask the nurse she told me it was in my notes and no mote opps now for me and was in intensiv care because when the lady ran me over i stoped brething then in surgary i stoped agen x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"So i had plates and screes in a bit of my back i ask the nurse she told me it was in my notes and no mote opps now for me and was in intensiv care because when the lady ran me over i stoped brething then in surgary i stoped agen x"

How awful! You must still be in shock. Will you be in a brace?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How awful! You must still be in shock. Will you be in a brace? "

I will be till my back is strong again witch will take time and a lot of pysio i wouldent widh this apon anyone this was my werst night mare dokng my job being hit my a car and please please dont.drink and drive the lady that hit me was d*unk she walked away with no ingurys sorry if spelling is bad im diclexic xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

How awful! You must still be in shock. Will you be in a brace?

Your spelling is the least of your worries and your posts are perfectly understandable.

You'll get used to the brace and will be able to take it off to wash etc I think. The person I know who broke her back could. Do you know if they'll move you to a rehab centre eventually?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I hope i can take it off and i dont know much about that yet i know the sleeping tablets work good and the food is rubish lol the bed baths are ok if ypu have them done in the evning tho as have no famaly and verry hot to day xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I hope i can take it off and i dont know much about that yet i know the sleeping tablets work good and the food is rubish lol the bed baths are ok if ypu have them done in the evning tho as have no famaly and verry hot to day xx"

What about friends? Are you getting any visitors?

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By *ANDA2Couple over a year ago

Henley Arden

Look on the bright side.

It wasn’t your heart that was broken

Get well soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have one close freind he works away in the week and come to see me at weekend and no not hart broken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If i dident have you lovley fab famialy id have noting you all have keped me going through this.

Sorry not having a good afternoon laing here to much to think about xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"If i dident have you lovley fab famialy id have noting you all have keped me going through this.

Sorry not having a good afternoon laing here to much to think about xx

You will have to come to terms with what's happened and will have bad times. Is there anyone you can speak to at the hospital, even a priest?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best wishes for your recovery

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

You will have to come to terms with what's happened and will have bad times. Is there anyone you can speak to at the hospital, even a priest? "

Yes good idea. They are happy to chat and dont force religion on you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yer i can talk tonone of the nurses i was just then they are so suportive i just dont like to bothere them but they said anytime i need a chat or anythi g just ask and thank you x

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

Jesus...that's awful. I really hope all goes well for you..keep your spirit up say strong x

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By *ORDERMANMan over a year ago

wrexham

Did you keep a straight face when you had a bed bath...

How fit are the nurses.... Any sussed you on here..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Post haste a recovery matey I’m sure there’ll be a lot of “nurses” to spoil you here

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple over a year ago

Uxbridge

I have had plenty of back surgery and it is outrageously painful. You need to focus on your recovery and not worry too much about the outside world. Do exactly what the physios tell you.

There is light and the end of the tunnel, keep your spirits up and think how much worse it could have been.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi lovely!

So sorry I’ve only just read this!

Wishing you a speedy recovery - and of course we’re here if you need to chat! Xx

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By *igblackcockNgMan over a year ago

Horny guy for fun in Suffolk

Get well soon!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing you a full recovery op, hope you have a few hot nurses(and doctors) to keep you company

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

You said earlier that you’d had your op was going to intensive care because things didn’t go right during your op.

Yes you would have stopped breathing during surgery as you would have been paralysed, tubed and ventilated and then turned onto your front for the op.

Hope your better soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope the painkillers are working. There's a lot of people thinking of you. X

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

My thoughts are with you...hope you get a good nights sleep. Every day things will get better..stay strong x

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh shiiiit!! Get well soon!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Mongol Horde wishes you it's best.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Good morning.. wishing you a good day.and we're all thinking of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you evryone had a better sleep lastnight and feeling good atm the meds im on give me wierd dreams tho propper trippy and thank you all again i realy do apreshiat it all and hsrd not tk keep a straight face when you have a bed bath lol

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple over a year ago

Durham

Awwww bless you so much, hope you have a speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get well soon and stay strong!

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

What hospital and ward are u OP maybe any of the fab lot could come visit u and cheer u up with a bag of grapes

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

Hi buddy hope all is going well for you I broke my back some years back, try not to think to much, focus on the future.

With rest and physio things will get better.

Take care.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you evryone had a better sleep lastnight and feeling good atm the meds im on give me wierd dreams tho propper trippy and thank you all again i realy do apreshiat it all and hsrd not tk keep a straight face when you have a bed bath lol "

I remember the odd dreams from when I broke my back and neck.... months of morphine

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

"Hi buddy hope all is going well for you I broke my back some years back, try not to think to much, focus on the future.

With rest and physio things will get better.

Take care."

I was in a body brace for quite sometime, use this time of recovery to focus on the positives it will help you immensely

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"What hospital and ward are u OP maybe any of the fab lot could come visit u and cheer u up with a bag of grapes

Indeed ... is there a secret Fab handshake so he'll know that's where his visitors are from?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

If you’d like a visitor op I can pop by as I’m at QA often if you’re at that one that is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Morning! How was last night? Did you manage some sleep? X

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"If you’d like a visitor op I can pop by as I’m at QA often if you’re at that one that is? "

That is a lovely offer fair play to you x

It must be awful to be in that position and lonely without visitors.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman over a year ago

by the sea

"What hospital and ward are u OP maybe any of the fab lot could come visit u and cheer u up with a bag of grapes

Indeed ... is there a secret Fab handshake so he'll know that's where his visitors are from?"

Wow I didn’t know that

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

"If you’d like a visitor op I can pop by as I’m at QA often if you’re at that one that is? "

OP are you at the QA or St Mary’s?

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By *iking 777Man over a year ago

wick

Good luck man

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Maybe some of us that are too far away to visit could send him get well cards to cheer him up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have some more viseters today thank you and grapes not for me thank you lol and i have my best frends family here they dident know i was in here till my m8 told them so they said i can go stay with them when im out and they will pop up evry day thank you for the support think they said they are going to start physio today little and often bit upset that iv have to guve my flat up as not working and being self enployed i dont get sick pay do any of ypu k ow if i can get sick pay still from somwhere xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What hospital and ward are u OP maybe any of the fab lot could come visit u and cheer u up with a bag of grapes

Indeed ... is there a secret Fab handshake so he'll know that's where his visitors are from?

Wow I didn’t know that

Can you messeg me please

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

How lovely that some people from here are going to visit you.

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By *ORDERMANMan over a year ago

wrexham

Trust the physio terrorists (no its not been misspelled)... Wernt too rough o you... Approaching tea time... So nearly another day done.. Must be due another bed bath soon.. So a smile will be due...

Sure you've heard all the anecdotes it's a long journey ahead and each journey starts with a small step...

So which of the nurses do you fancy....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck with your recovery o.p.

Lovely to see people being so supportive ,makes you smile inside reading some of the posts,nothing worse than being alone at time like this .its awfull what's happened to you but as folk been saying focus on future ,what's done is done . good to hear you found some people to help you out with your recovery.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Hi lovely!

How’s it going today? Xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

How was your day mate

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Cynical

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need a female best friend it's the way forward

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

OP. I can sympathise as I had an accident 2 years ago in December when I slipped on an icy pavement and fell hard on my back.

A&E diagnosed severely strained lower back muscles, plus Physio to assist recovery.

Three months on, though still able to hobble, physio hadn't worked & I was still in severe pain. An MRI was done then I was seen by a specialist who told me, I'd fractured a spinal vertebrae.

Crucially, the vertebrae fractured, then reshaped itself and encapsulated the fracture all within a few seconds with the vertebrae above and below holding fast & securing the spinal integrity.

The pain was from trapped nerves, but was told they would heal. I'd also unwittingly done all the right things in the right way but it took a year to heal fully and to become pain free.

But there were days when not all the pain killers and Heat Patches combined could not work effectively enough.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What hospital and ward are u OP maybe any of the fab lot could come visit u and cheer u up with a bag of grapes

Indeed ... is there a secret Fab handshake so he'll know that's where his visitors are from?

Wow I didn’t know that

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It's a through the legs and under the crotch hand shake

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Morning all thank you for ypur lovly mesages i will be taking a step back from fab and fockasing on my recovary and helfe i will stilk pop on every now and then but its not doing me anygood being on my phone all the time not helping my mental helf and cant have a secret hand shake woth a cafiter in its not that nice lol thank you so so much for all ypur lovly messages and suport ill try get back on tonight or tomorrow .

Last night was not so good dident sleep to much going on in the ward and somonr got out then bed and fell on me in the night wich was unberabaly painful hope you all have a good day and will speak latter i need to try get some rest pysio went well yestday manged to bring my knees up a bit so its a start xx

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By *heekyweebissimWoman over a year ago

fife,

"I have some more viseters today thank you and grapes not for me thank you lol and i have my best frends family here they dident know i was in here till my m8 told them so they said i can go stay with them when im out and they will pop up evry day thank you for the support think they said they are going to start physio today little and often bit upset that iv have to guve my flat up as not working and being self enployed i dont get sick pay do any of ypu k ow if i can get sick pay still from somwhere xx"

I dont think you can get sick pay as you are self employed but you should be entitled to new style employment support allowance if you apply for universal credit, can be done online and jobcentre can visit you to verify. Can contact citizen advice online too who would be able to give you a better idea of what your entitlement is.

Good luck, feel better

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

"Last night was not so good dident sleep to much going on in the ward and somonr got out then bed and fell on me in the night wich was unberabaly painful hope you all have a good day and will speak latter i need to try get some rest pysio went well yestday manged to bring my knees up a bit so its a start xx"

How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Morning all thank you for ypur lovly mesages i will be taking a step back from fab and fockasing on my recovary and helfe i will stilk pop on every now and then but its not doing me anygood being on my phone all the time not helping my mental helf and cant have a secret hand shake woth a cafiter in its not that nice lol thank you so so much for all ypur lovly messages and suport ill try get back on tonight or tomorrow .

There isn't a secret handshake, especially of the kind described, he's kidding

Sleeping on a hospital ward is nearly impossible sometimes, I used to hope the morphine knocked me out.

I hope things improve for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

Believe me, things happen in hospital, which I learned first hand when I broke my knee, badly. The places in intensive care unit are very limited, and as soon as your stats are ok, you're back to normal ward, with sometimes even 10-12 other patients, depending on hospital. And if my experience is anything to go by (though I hate to think it's standard practice), hospitals don't seem to care about how old you are, they put you where there is a bed available. So I was on, what I was calling, 'geriatric bay', with everyone at least 25 years my senior. Most of them with dementia, getting easily confused, screaming, trying to get out of bed etc. And hardly any staff around. During just one night, a lady in the bed near me tried to get up on a few occasions, and she did fall, just on the floor. I think the next night, there was a nurse sitting in our bay most of the night (yes, I had trouble sleeping in hospital, too). So yes, things happen on the wards, unfortunately.

To the OP: I'm glad you're now getting support from your friends, and that you can start physio. It is going to be a long road, with loads of bumps and frustration, but remember that there is always a light in the tunnel. You might not always see it straight away, as it might be hiding behind the corner, but it is there. Stay positive and good luck in your recovery.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I'm afraid your experience isn't unusual.

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By *nouzouMan over a year ago

london

Hope you will be fine

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I work in hospitals and have done since 1986 including the QA at Cosham, he would not be on a normal ward.

Post op complications, infection, bedridden with bed baths, large quantities of morphine, he would not be on the sort of ward where other patients can get to during the night and ‘fall’ on him.

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

So sorry to hear what happened and what you have been going through. Keep following the nurses and physio's advise.

If you have a wandering confused patient near you, maybe ask if you could be moved to a different bed.

Sending you healthy healing thoughts.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I work in hospitals and have done since 1986 including the QA at Cosham, he would not be on a normal ward.

Post op complications, infection, bedridden with bed baths, large quantities of morphine, he would not be on the sort of ward where other patients can get to during the night and ‘fall’ on him."

The experience we had with my mother must be an exception then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your self employed and effectively have had to end your job then you should be able to claim benefits. You can make a new claim for universal credit online via a mobile phone claim the sick component the hospital can provide letters as to why you cant yet attend appointments etc. It will also include a claim for housing benefit towards your rent. Can your friend call citizens advice bureau whilst he is with you (in case they need to do data protection checks / questions with you). Given the circumstances they should be able to put you onto a welfare adviser who can help will sorting out the different steps you will need to take to get things sorted out. If you get stuck message me.

I hope you get well soon buddy.

This is precisely why it should be drink OR drive.

Jay

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

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By *ambo1450Man over a year ago

Newport

100% agree. All sounds a bit sketchy to me as well.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I hope the Op is telling the truth we all gave genuine support and its always nice to help and support each other x

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

If the OP is lying in bed with nothing to do, I don't blame him posting on here. How lovely that people are cheering him up, offering to visit him. 6 days of supportive messages and then you come along not believing it.

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab !

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab ! "

It’s just our view. We are entitled to that.

Has anyone here actually visited the Op?

If they have then we were wrong and would apologise. Until then, we remain Cynical x

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

In my professional view, he’s making it up.

As a fabber reading this, he’s making it up, sorry OP but if you are making it up for some sympathy whoring then shame on you for tugging at the heart strings of all of these fine people.

Several of which of offered to visit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cynical here too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I work in hospitals and have done since 1986 including the QA at Cosham, he would not be on a normal ward.

Post op complications, infection, bedridden with bed baths, large quantities of morphine, he would not be on the sort of ward where other patients can get to during the night and ‘fall’ on him."

We smell bullshit

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab !

It’s just our view. We are entitled to that.

Has anyone here actually visited the Op?

If they have then we were wrong and would apologise. Until then, we remain Cynical x"
I’ve offered to visit and my message was not responded to on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I work in hospitals and have done since 1986 including the QA at Cosham, he would not be on a normal ward.

Post op complications, infection, bedridden with bed baths, large quantities of morphine, he would not be on the sort of ward where other patients can get to during the night and ‘fall’ on him.

We smell bullshit

This happened to my mum.

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By *hewifeandiCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

Feel for you chap IV broke my back twice the pains unreal.rest up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How did someone get up during the night and fall on you?

If your injury was that bad, with post op complications and your bed bound You’d be on a High Dependancy Unit or step up unit, how would that have happened?

I work in hospitals and have done since 1986 including the QA at Cosham, he would not be on a normal ward.

Post op complications, infection, bedridden with bed baths, large quantities of morphine, he would not be on the sort of ward where other patients can get to during the night and ‘fall’ on him.

The experience we had with my mother must be an exception then. "

My experience must be an exception, too

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab !

It’s just our view. We are entitled to that.

Has anyone here actually visited the Op?

If they have then we were wrong and would apologise. Until then, we remain Cynical x I’ve offered to visit and my message was not responded to on here. "

So what does that tell us?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Not everyone is lucky enough to have tons of family and friends available to visit them in hospital. When I broke my knee and ended up in hospital for 27 days, unable to leave my bed for most of those days, Fab was my lifeline, as well as a friend off here who really came through for me, even though he didn't need to. If it wasn't for my online friends from Fab, and for my blog, I would not have survived my hospital stay with my mental health mostly intact. So can we stop judging and, if we don't want to offer support, just stop from commenting, please?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Somet ain’t ringing true about this whole story n I work for nhs

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"Somet ain’t ringing true about this whole story n I work for nhs "

Yep. It smells of Bull Shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Thank you and thank you all for your suport i find it hard anuth to have my frend and his family here to support me iv never had anything in my life so fr them to do that and i dont want anyone els to visit me i find it hard to meat people with out having a drink with them first it helps the nervs and thank you all for your suport if you want to know more please gust messed me but no hatters

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Somet ain’t ringing true about this whole story n I work for nhs

Yep. It smells of Bull Shit "
yes deffo I even said I’d send him card n flowers on behalf of us fab swingers lot , I work for nhs n I asked what ward he was in so I cud send card n gifts n he ignored it n told someone else he was going home tomoz?!! Bullshit n sorry to say that but as a nurse I know what’s what !! X

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Soz but ur full of shit ur story ain’t ringing true n I’m a nurse for nhs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Soz but ur full of shit ur story ain’t ringing true n I’m a nurse for nhs! "

As was Bubbles, for 36 years, working in operating theatres.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

correct

so many people here spinning stories

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When did i say i was going home i dident making stuff up id you not got nothing nice to say dont say it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab !

It’s just our view. We are entitled to that.

Has anyone here actually visited the Op?

If they have then we were wrong and would apologise. Until then, we remain Cynical x I’ve offered to visit and my message was not responded to on here. "

correct it was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

did he not say he had no one but us then told us his best mate came to see him..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only reason I’m cynical is you were texting on here half hour after major surgery and whilst icu were dealing with you.

Last year I spent 3 weeks in icu and especially straight after surgery was no where near able to text

Really hope you’re genuine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

you hurt your back

hit by a car

less than hours later you are on here texting on the forums

you would not be allowed a phone and if broken your back you would not be able to move or type ..OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enjoy the morphine.

I got maximum.

I was in so much pain I had to stay with mummy and she had to wind me like a baby because I couldn't walk and morphine bunged me up"

yeah bet you was in a load of pain

maximum pain too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The only reason I’m cynical is you were texting on here half hour after major surgery and whilst icu were dealing with you.

Last year I spent 3 weeks in icu and especially straight after surgery was no where near able to text

Really hope you’re genuine "

I dont lie im telling the truth

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By *hewifeandiCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

you hurt your back

hit by a car

less than hours later you are on here texting on the forums

you would not be allowed a phone and if broken your back you would not be able to move or type ..OP "
not quite true I was walking around for 6 months before I was diagnosed with a broken back and prolapse disc I was pushed out the a&e with tablets and was told I'd got muscle spasms

No need to be so harsh on the fella give him a break

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only reason I’m cynical is you were texting on here half hour after major surgery and whilst icu were dealing with you.

Last year I spent 3 weeks in icu and especially straight after surgery was no where near able to text

Really hope you’re genuine

I dont lie im telling the truth "

Well to be texting half hour after surgery and in icu whilst in a back brace you must be nails

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m sorry. But if I had been hit by a car and broken my spine, then the last thing on my mind would be to Post on Fab the very next day.

Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet

Why comment....just read it and move on ....no need to be so unpleasant.

If I lived closer I would have popped in to see him. Let's hope you never need any advise or support from the friendly folk of fab !

It’s just our view. We are entitled to that.

Has anyone here actually visited the Op?

If they have then we were wrong and would apologise. Until then, we remain Cynical x"

I cannot visit him am too far away to check it out. Could phone the hospitals to check

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello evryone im just looking to have a chat with you al felling lonly and in pain got hit by a car last night and have broken my back and awating sugary some one chat pleace

you hurt your back

hit by a car

less than hours later you are on here texting on the forums

you would not be allowed a phone and if broken your back you would not be able to move or type ..OP "

I must admit this aspect of the timescale is what surprised me. Plus the fact that mid thread he mentioned that his heart stopped when he'd been hit. I can't imagine anyone being able to text post cardiac arrest and following ROSC while awaiting surgery.

I hate being so cynical though. OP I hope you recover quickly from whatever injures you got

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By *uckfunCouple over a year ago

North Coast

As a senior anaesthetic practitioner with 33 years experience, this tale is testicles.

Several have asked which hospital, no answer.

The posts of ICU and stumbling patients, infection after first op, then return to theatre almost immediately (open an infected wound for further spinal surgery?) and another infection.

Nurse telling you that you stopped breathing during the operation! You’d have stopped breathing during the induction process and only reversed once turned back over again, any nurse would have known that.

I’d sent a message early on in this offering for one of my anaesthetic colleagues to pop down and see him. No reply.

Sorry OP you’ve been busted and sorry to all fabbers that have been duped, I know that you genuinely want to believe it.

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