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you look at profiles and have a good wank and carry on dreaming/wishing
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you look at profiles. see if they match what you are looking for and vise versa, send them a message and wait
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look at club socials an go to a club |
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You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense? |
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?"
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?
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I'm working my way through that. I'll have to get back to you. |
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?"
makes sense to us |
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"I'm working my way through that. I'll have to get back to you."
Haha, it's a subtle nuance, but as Sally suggests, a lot of guys just think it's a quick route to some NSA sex. You've got to be prepared to jump through a few hoops and role-play to a certain extent... If you rock up hoping to fill your boots, and tick your bucket list, it's not usually going to work.
For me, the best way to describe it is that couples who do this are my kink - you need to be into the process as much as the sex, and you need to be able to read the couple and go along with what they're hoping for. |
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?"
Oh jeez.... my head's spinning now... |
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Well.... we are not looking for a M, but a F...
However I would imagine that similar rules apply?
If you are bi, then I guess you'll need to be attracted to both him and her.
You'll need to agree the rules, catch their interest on messages and not let them down...
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"I'm working my way through that. I'll have to get back to you.
Haha, it's a subtle nuance, but as Sally suggests, a lot of guys just think it's a quick route to some NSA sex. You've got to be prepared to jump through a few hoops and role-play to a certain extent... If you rock up hoping to fill your boots, and tick your bucket list, it's not usually going to work.
For me, the best way to describe it is that couples who do this are my kink - you need to be into the process as much as the sex, and you need to be able to read the couple and go along with what they're hoping for."
I agree with this to a certain extent but we always try to make sure that we're all after the same or at least similar things. |
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?
I'm working my way through that. I'll have to get back to you."
Perfect sense and good advice  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm working my way through that. I'll have to get back to you.
Haha, it's a subtle nuance, but as Sally suggests, a lot of guys just think it's a quick route to some NSA sex. You've got to be prepared to jump through a few hoops and role-play to a certain extent... If you rock up hoping to fill your boots, and tick your bucket list, it's not usually going to work.
For me, the best way to describe it is that couples who do this are my kink - you need to be into the process as much as the sex, and you need to be able to read the couple and go along with what they're hoping for."
You make it sound like all couples want a 'pet' that will do as he's told - I guess some might be like that but others want it to be a more mutual thing whereby each have equal status.
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You make it sound like all couples want a 'pet' that will do as he's told...
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I didn't mean it to sound like that, most of my experiences with couples have been first-timers so by the time we met, they'd done a lot of talking, fantasising etc... They've usually got a fairly good idea of what they want and how they want things to play out - as the 3rd wheel, you need to be able understand that and go with their flow...
At the end of the day, you're always going to be the 'new guy' in the scenario, so I think it would take a long time to feel like an equal part of the dynamic... That would be the dream though!! |
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"You kind of have to accept that you are their fantasy...
If they are your fantasy, it's not going to work out well.
If you being their fantasy is your fantasy, you could be on to a winner.
Does that make sense?makes sense to us"
It kinda hurt my brain  |
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