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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
tell them they're beautiful they hate it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
Yah I know!
All the other men are dicks!
But I am not!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most single males are respectful to what we are looking for but the very small % are a pain in the arse.
For us it doesn't reflect on the majority who we find fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. tell them they're beautiful they hate it "
That made me laugh ahahha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just saying hi then following it up with a are you ok message, every day..  "
What kind of message peaks your interest in single males or it has to be based on just attraction. |
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In our defence, we reply very politely to anybody who sends us a polite message, which is only likely to change if we get snowed under with messages. We don't hate anybody.
Nothing has made us want to leave, but the main thing men do wrong when making contact with us is saying something that shows no awareness of who we are. We wrote stuff on our profile for a reason. We are not just here to satisfy somebody's fantasies. We have interests of our own.
For example, we had a message from a man asking if we would let him watch us have sex. In addition to that, the only photos on his profile were of his knob. I mean, come on. If you met somebody at a party, club, pub, on the street etc. is that really where you would start? Would you really whop your todger out and ask if you could watch them have sex? Wouldn't you at least start with "Hello"?
Guys, we are not your porn or your sex toys. We are people. If you treat us accordingly we'll get on just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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Hi,
I'm in the area, fancy meeting?
Do guys think we don't have jobs or kids, and can jump at the drop of a hat just because they are in the area...
Try talking to me like I am more than just another notch on your bedpost... Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
We would never give up Fab because of some arsehole single men, and they all know who they are.
We do however get totally pissed off with a few things:
The simple ones who can't read or respect profiles.
And the ones who make out they are decent and genuine on here, however once they get rejected they start crying like a little bitch and throw out insults. How childish is that? Yet they make out that they are big strong gym goers.
Oh, and yes. They throw their tantrums, throw out some insults then block so you can't answer!!
Spoils it for the few decent ones on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They think their cock is the master of the universe.......I have the power!!!!....
Or
Their doing you a favour....
I'm hormonal ignore me.... "
No I have the power  |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
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Stick to men then |
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
Nothing single men send us in a message makes us want to give up on fab but our main irritants are them not reading our profile and calling us both "guys" when one of us clearly isn't a guy!! |
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"“Wot u up to”
“Yous hot”
“Walking over you now”
“I want you to come to my hotel now”
“Babe” “Hun” “Cutie”
And the word “nawty”  "
Yeah, but no, but...
You is well fit, girl. I am attracted to you therefore you must wanna have sex wiv me. I have never stopped consider it works any uvva way. Innit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then "
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I'm in the area, fancy meeting?
Do guys think we don't have jobs or kids, and can jump at the drop of a hat just because they are in the area...
Try talking to me like I am more than just another notch on your bedpost... Lol"
Total hate this!
So what your in our area for a night or 2 go order an escort then.
We aren't gonna drop everything in our lives to come rushing over to your hotel before you go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then "
That’s generally what my post alludes to....
It’s funny that the op can bash men without anyone giving patronising responses. Heaven forbid a man calls out women for the same thing.
What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Wot u up to”
“Yous hot”
“Walking over you now”
“I want you to come to my hotel now”
“Babe” “Hun” “Cutie”
And the word “nawty”
Yeah, but no, but...
You is well fit, girl. I am attracted to you therefore you must wanna have sex wiv me. I have never stopped consider it works any uvva way. Innit."
UNCANNY 
(That was meant to say wanking. Not walking |
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I was recently bombarded by messages from a single male. He sent a message expressing his interest - to which I politely replied explaining he is not Mrs type. He just kept messaging saying he would change her mind in person, again i explained the attraction isn't there and she wouldn't be interested.
He still kept on asking, this time as a favour, a one off!
I told him again she not interested.
Then he offered to pay her!!
I replied she isn't a prostitute
He then messaged "must be on fab"
Blocked
Most single guys are respectful, but a small % are a nuisance! |
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
That’s generally what my post alludes to....
It’s funny that the op can bash men without anyone giving patronising responses. Heaven forbid a man calls out women for the same thing.
What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser. "
It would be interesting to hear the other side of this... What things do women say/do that ruin it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here"
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
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That's a shame. I was beginning to like you. You are even on our hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser. "
It's too simplistic isn't it?
"I'm not like other men I am different"
"I actually care about women's feelings and have empathy and other men are shallow and not like MEEEE"
Whatever you say mate....hi5 if it gets you laid...
Personally i like to just say "i am not a nice guy"....
The thing is anyone who ever started online dateing started by saying "ASL?" On msn messenger....
It's a learning curb for men because women are more complex than gay men...
Gay men can be brief at initiating sex while women need to be wooed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
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If singles guys left, fab will still be fun and kinky, single women will get a lot less messages though, but what will all the single bbc do ahaha |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I don't have an issue with single guy I think they get a pretty rough deal on here. Most who message me are polite. Ye you get the odd cockwomble who is rude or abusive or just horny and crude in their first few messages but they just get blocked. The rest are decent enough and don't get the hump of we don't carrying on chatting. |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Just saying hi then following it up with a are you ok message, every day..
What kind of message peaks your interest in single males or it has to be based on just attraction."
Wow, didn’t expect questions....
If they’ve read my profile, apologies for the current one, but something humorous and flirty and ask if they can send a facial after a few messages, we all have our ideal in our heads what we’d like, but sometimes you get a surprise, I love chatty men that can tease/be dominant/be gentle men that ‘get’ me 
Is this clear enough?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try to be realistic with my message and never pester people BUT a simple no thanks saves people recontacting couples and single ladies who simply don’t reply. I can imagine some get inundated, but really - is no thanks too hard to send back - it then allows the messenger to remove them from their hotlist and move on !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
That's a shame. I was beginning to like you. You are even on our hotlist."
Truth hurts. This website is filled with more misandrist hatred than anywhere I’ve ever been, nobody ever questions it. It’s no wonder the majority of men on here have turned into weak and pathetic little cuckolds and; start believing the sh*t they’re being accused of for simply being male. Don’t even get me started on the far-leftist anti-white male brigade. People always look in disgust at “NO BLACKS”. To the men with wives only wanting bbc, she’s cucking you.
This website has become about female worship and attempts to sh*t on and place all men into a cuckold mind set.
Thank you and f*uck you all goodnight.
P.s. the main single female posters that don’t show face are roasters and have fake veris. Good luck with your continuous pitiful attempts at forming an e-relationship with them f*cking losers.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just saying hi then following it up with a are you ok message, every day..
What kind of message peaks your interest in single males or it has to be based on just attraction.
Wow, didn’t expect questions....
If they’ve read my profile, apologies for the current one, but something humorous and flirty and ask if they can send a facial after a few messages, we all have our ideal in our heads what we’d like, but sometimes you get a surprise, I love chatty men that can tease/be dominant/be gentle men that ‘get’ me
Is this clear enough? "
Yeah that is clear enough for me.
I hope most women or couples like chatty males, because I can be very chatty. Charm the shoes of your feet ahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
That's a shame. I was beginning to like you. You are even on our hotlist."
I reckon that is the type of "shite" he is referring to...
Or maybe a quote from one of your previous posts is a better example -
"Men who think with their cocks"
or as we prefer to call them,
"Men"."
Man hating, spiteful and probably a liar too, I don't think your attempt to punish him for voicing his opinion will bother him too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yikes this forum turned into a keyboard warrior verbal war real quick ngl I've gotten frustrated at not being taken seriously on this site but I've come to realize how connected a community it is and bullshit aside it's quite an amazing site. I think we struggle with the reality that there's a lot more of us males than females so the (females) have the pick off the litter and it's seen as unfair but that's the reality, they decide, we abide. but I have been given some very sound advice on here and it's literally be patient, it will happen eventually.
P.s I like how Dulux chocolate is still trying to bait ppl cluess about what's going on bless him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yikes this forum turned into a keyboard warrior verbal war real quick ngl I've gotten frustrated at not being taken seriously on this site but I've come to realize how connected a community it is and bullshit aside it's quite an amazing site. I think we struggle with the reality that there's a lot more of us males than females so the (females) have the pick off the litter and it's seen as unfair but that's the reality, they decide, we abide. but I have been given some very sound advice on here and it's literally be patient, it will happen eventually.
P.s I like how Dulux chocolate is still trying to bait ppl cluess about what's going on bless him "
P.S I am not trying to bait anyone ahaha, someone getting intense. In intense situation, I bring out a lot of sarcasm. But that your opinion though ahaha |
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
That's a shame. I was beginning to like you. You are even on our hotlist.
Truth hurts. This website is filled with more misandrist hatred than anywhere I’ve ever been, nobody ever questions it. It’s no wonder the majority of men on here have turned into weak and pathetic little cuckolds and; start believing the sh*t they’re being accused of for simply being male. Don’t even get me started on the far-leftist anti-white male brigade. People always look in disgust at “NO BLACKS”. To the men with wives only wanting bbc, she’s cucking you.
This website has become about female worship and attempts to sh*t on and place all men into a cuckold mind set.
Thank you and f*uck you all goodnight.
P.s. the main single female posters that don’t show face are roasters and have fake veris. Good luck with your continuous pitiful attempts at forming an e-relationship with them f*cking losers.
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Would you like us to find you a therapist? It sounds like you have some issues that need addressing.
Have you ever found that kind of hatred in us? You certainly lumped us in with those couples have found it in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yikes this forum turned into a keyboard warrior verbal war real quick ngl I've gotten frustrated at not being taken seriously on this site but I've come to realize how connected a community it is and bullshit aside it's quite an amazing site. I think we struggle with the reality that there's a lot more of us males than females so the (females) have the pick off the litter and it's seen as unfair but that's the reality, they decide, we abide. but I have been given some very sound advice on here and it's literally be patient, it will happen eventually.
P.s I like how Dulux chocolate is still trying to bait ppl cluess about what's going on bless him "
My issue has nothing to do with what you’ve mentioned. This is my fifth account within two months. I’ve done relatively well in regard to meets. I also haven’t messaged these women, they message ME, there’s conversing back and forth for a few days before arranging a meet, they then cancel ten minutes before I’m supposed to be balls deep in some sugar walls. The same excuses are used and there’s never any prior notice. Yet, no one is allowed to mention this very common and irritating “trick” being played.
Tell me also, what makes this site so spectacular to you? The illusion of choice? If you’re willing to sit and wait for some 4/10 to let you get a sticky willy then that’s your prerogative. Those in the know, go to the socials or a regular club.
P.s. this is in no way aimed at any of the wonderful people that I have met. They’re seemingly in the minority on here though.
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By *euschMan
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. tell them they're beautiful they hate it "
Really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
that answer alone just proves that its one rule for couples and single women and another for single guys on here
Thank you! This^^^^^^
If all the single guys left, this website would be dead. The majority of “couples” only get to meet single men also, yet they still do nothing but spout sh*te.
That's a shame. I was beginning to like you. You are even on our hotlist.
Truth hurts. This website is filled with more misandrist hatred than anywhere I’ve ever been, nobody ever questions it. It’s no wonder the majority of men on here have turned into weak and pathetic little cuckolds and; start believing the sh*t they’re being accused of for simply being male. Don’t even get me started on the far-leftist anti-white male brigade. People always look in disgust at “NO BLACKS”. To the men with wives only wanting bbc, she’s cucking you.
This website has become about female worship and attempts to sh*t on and place all men into a cuckold mind set.
Thank you and f*uck you all goodnight.
P.s. the main single female posters that don’t show face are roasters and have fake veris. Good luck with your continuous pitiful attempts at forming an e-relationship with them f*cking losers.
Would you like us to find you a therapist? It sounds like you have some issues that need addressing.
Have you ever found that kind of hatred in us? You certainly lumped us in with those couples have found it in."
Why are you attempting to make a large scale issue about yourselves? Is it possible that when a rant is directed towards an individual it warrants a ban, possibly?
I’m going by personal experience and from what I see. I have a right to form an opinion and voice it. Especially when there are constant threads on the negatives of single men or, men in general on here.
Just look at how single females have destroyed this forum with their juvenile threads. The same rubbish every single day without fail. All for attention from their army of loser e-friends. They turned this from a swinging website into literotica or some other edgy teen esque hang out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus stop whining and get on with enjoying the site and all that it offers, we've met loads of single guys from Fab but baulk at the types that do nothing but complain and bitch"
I've met more people than you, thus have more right to whinge than you. Just so you're aware, your post is considered both as complaining and whinging......
Why is everyone on here so dense and hypocritical?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus stop whining and get on with enjoying the site and all that it offers, we've met loads of single guys from Fab but baulk at the types that do nothing but complain and bitch
I've met more people than you, thus have more right to whinge than you. Just so you're aware, your post is considered both as complaining and whinging......
Why is everyone on here so dense and hypocritical?
Signed,
Lord Byron.
Ngl mate think you need too stick a tampon up there, your monthly is due lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus stop whining and get on with enjoying the site and all that it offers, we've met loads of single guys from Fab but baulk at the types that do nothing but complain and bitch
I've met more people than you, thus have more right to whinge than you. Just so you're aware, your post is considered both as complaining and whinging......
Why is everyone on here so dense and hypocritical?
Signed,
Lord Byron.
Ngl mate think you need too stick a tampon up there, your monthly is due lol "
I think that you're going to need to get comfortable as, you took the "patience is key" literally. Only a virgin would be desperate enough to stick around here without having had a meet after a year.
I'm here for taboo and filth, a lot of which I've had, you've not even had a blow job. What exactly are you still here for? Speaking of tampons..... |
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What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser.
It's too simplistic isn't it?
"I'm not like other men I am different"
"I actually care about women's feelings and have empathy and other men are shallow and not like MEEEE"
Whatever you say mate....hi5 if it gets you laid...
Personally i like to just say "i am not a nice guy"....
The thing is anyone who ever started online dateing started by saying "ASL?" On msn messenger....
It's a learning curb for men because women are more complex than gay men...
Gay men can be brief at initiating sex while women need to be wooed"
I don't need to be wooed...I need my mind stimulated as well as other parts. |
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"Automatically address the message to hubby....!!"
Did he also ask hubbies permission to play with you, like you’re a toy to be passed around by an owner?
I have a fb and arrange mmf meets. The guys always shake his hand and thank him! I’m too chilled to make it an issue - it’s only a bit of fun after all. Makes me and my fb laugh every time. |
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Nothing 10 years and I’ve not given up on it yet
Including when one bloke “kindly” posted all my pics on Facebook as an act of revenge porn
I have enough perspective to know He was just one wanker doesn’t mean you all are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser.
It's too simplistic isn't it?
"I'm not like other men I am different"
"I actually care about women's feelings and have empathy and other men are shallow and not like MEEEE"
Whatever you say mate....hi5 if it gets you laid...
Personally i like to just say "i am not a nice guy"....
The thing is anyone who ever started online dateing started by saying "ASL?" On msn messenger....
It's a learning curb for men because women are more complex than gay men...
Gay men can be brief at initiating sex while women need to be wooed"
Huh? The meets were already arranged. I was only told it was off ten minutes before we were meant to meet. This is the third time this has happened, same excuses, different people.
You're right though, there is a difference, women show a clear lack of respect for anyone but themselves. |
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Expect to be serviced by a random woman. Any messages back asking what in the world gave them the idea or why they did not read the profile are answered by "some women are too much work like you. You are a time-waster".
Hm... Ooooooo-kaaaaaay... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In our defence, we reply very politely to anybody who sends us a polite message, which is only likely to change if we get snowed under with messages. We don't hate anybody.
Nothing has made us want to leave, but the main thing men do wrong when making contact with us is saying something that shows no awareness of who we are. We wrote stuff on our profile for a reason. We are not just here to satisfy somebody's fantasies. We have interests of our own.
For example, we had a message from a man asking if we would let him watch us have sex. In addition to that, the only photos on his profile were of his knob. I mean, come on. If you met somebody at a party, club, pub, on the street etc. is that really where you would start? Would you really whop your todger out and ask if you could watch them have sex? Wouldn't you at least start with "Hello"?
Guys, we are not your porn or your sex toys. We are people. If you treat us accordingly we'll get on just fine. "
Thankfully the type of men who do this won't read the forums, so they won't learn and will continue to send first messages like that so we can immediately rule them out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab.
Yah I know!
All the other men are dicks!
But I am not! "
this OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
If I get a message with just hi how are you
Fancy a coffee?
or anything vile vulgar or rude my finger moves to the block them situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just saying hi then following it up with a are you ok message, every day.. "
oh god this OP
drives me nuts
no need to be too familiar
and a are you ok message every 5 mins is also annoying
are you ok OP ! |
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By *atonMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
That’s generally what my post alludes to....
It’s funny that the op can bash men without anyone giving patronising responses. Heaven forbid a man calls out women for the same thing.
What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser. "
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By *atonMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge.
Stick to men then
That’s generally what my post alludes to....
It’s funny that the op can bash men without anyone giving patronising responses. Heaven forbid a man calls out women for the same thing.
What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser. "
the kind of man who is what's called a white knighter or mangina |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really a hate per say but I find variations of 'can we talk?' boring. Particularly if when I reply they have NOTHING to say.
And obviously the old 'you're a bitch' when I dare to take over 5 minites to respond... |
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over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
When in a couple addressing only the female. Used to rip my fuckin knitting that. Oh, and grammar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need my mind stimulated as well as other parts."
Do you prefer Disraeli or gladstones leadership?
Socialism or capitalism?
That's what gets me excited.
Not mathmatics or computers.
I like nature and growing things.
I have a superficial intrest in sciences.
I like watching youtube and reading wiki about ancient civilizations and extinct animals...
Come join me..
It's really sapiosexual  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My peeve is men moaning about other men. Completely off putting. "
Hahaha
Yah because eventually smart women will realize
"I've herd this bullshit a million times"
It's white knights and they are really annoying on forums like this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
messaging you
arranging a meet
and then not showing up
incredible really when we are all adults but some have to be well blocked!
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
You want to see the abuse us married guys get lol |
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"I can’t speak on what men do. Single women though: biggest time wasting fantasists on the planet.
Third time this month. Same excuse from them all.....
Men are generally better in my opinion, I’ve never had any of the abusive messages that women claim to receive. I get a lot of messages from them also, thus, can judge. " We Claim to receive" ..hahahaha! Thats great u dont get any abusive vile inhumane msgs! A big round of applause! Just because u dont them we obv must be all liars, because u have seen my msgs? Men are worst thats the truth fake pics taken off websites a 15 yr old profile pic when they were 10 stone now 25 stone! Men are fantasits that i can 100% say.....
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By *iss-louWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I'm in the area, fancy meeting?
Do guys think we don't have jobs or kids, and can jump at the drop of a hat just because they are in the area...
Try talking to me like I am more than just another notch on your bedpost... Lol"
This... and if Ive ignored them once then the third time is going to get them a block |
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. tell them they're beautiful they hate it "
Actually, some women here have said they do hate it.
The reason they hate is because they know the any hole is goal brigade are not being sincere. They are just blowing smoke up the woman's arse. They think by calling a woman beautiful or sexy it will help them get a meet with her. |
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. tell them they're beautiful they hate it
Actually, some women here have said they do hate it.
The reason they hate is because they know the any hole is goal brigade are not being sincere. They are just blowing smoke up the woman's arse. They think by calling a woman beautiful or sexy it will help them get a meet with her. "
I know that'll be why I said it lol |
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"I always try to be realistic with my message and never pester people BUT a simple no thanks saves people recontacting couples and single ladies who simply don’t reply. I can imagine some get inundated, but really - is no thanks too hard to send back - it then allows the messenger to remove them from their hotlist and move on !
N"
no reply = no thanks. |
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"Incorrect, OP. They ruin it for themselves not others. If fab isn't working for you, work out where you are going wrong instead of blaming others for your lack of success on here. "
This.
As a single guy if you are not doing well on here it's your fault. Coming out with the other single guys run it for the good single guys line is a load of crap. |
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What kind of man disses his own gender anyway. Literally just called himself a loser.
It's too simplistic isn't it?
"I'm not like other men I am different"
"I actually care about women's feelings and have empathy and other men are shallow and not like MEEEE"
Whatever you say mate....hi5 if it gets you laid...
Personally i like to just say "i am not a nice guy"....
The thing is anyone who ever started online dateing started by saying "ASL?" On msn messenger....
It's a learning curb for men because women are more complex than gay men...
Gay men can be brief at initiating sex while women need to be wooed
I don't need to be wooed...I need my mind stimulated as well as other parts."
Surely stimulating your mind would be considered wooing you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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from my own experience on here i have found that couples and single females can be just as bad yet its always going to be single guys that get moaned about the most as they are the easier target and couples and single females know they hold all the power on here and can stick together in their fab clique |
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
Simply believing that their message is only read by the female or that any subsequent meet is just them and the female or that they're given permission for fucking the female when, in fact, it's the partner letting her fuck the guy. A lot of single guys don't seem to understand the dynamic of a couple letting a single guy into their bed. Which makes those that DO understand the dynamics that much more attractive and fuckable |
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By *.S.17Woman
over a year ago
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Kindly replied ‘no thanks’ to an 18yr old who had messaged 6 times throughout 1 day saying just ‘meet me’ etc - he replied saying ‘ good coz I didn’t want an STD’ then blocked me the cheeky twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just saying hi then following it up with a are you ok message, every day.. "
This! This is the main thing that will put me off someone I was initially interested in meeting.
My heart sinks when I start getting "morning" etc messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couples profile that clearly states we are a couple , and we only play together the messages that really grinds my gears are the messages directed at mrs d only ...
Instant block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
Clearly not reading the profile then sending a picture of a dick. Or a face pic you can’t see. |
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"Most single men ruin things. Ladies, couples or even other males. What is the one thing us men do in a message what makes you want to give up on fab. "
It’s not the single guys that’s made us give up on arranging meets, it’s couples! Lol although when we did meet guys only three out of 9 or 10 actually tipped up the others cancelled at last minute or just didn’t show ! |
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