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I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman....... |
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over a year ago
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You should be proud of it. Its a part of your life and a story told. If any guy or girl is turned off then they don't deserve to see you naked |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
Such a natural thing don't be ashamed or worried |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive wanted a tummy tuck for 28 years. hate mine
I do everything possible to hide it, it's a huge issue for me
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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I hate mine but it's part of me so I have to accept it. |
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Definitely something to be proud of.
Never be ashamed
Although lingerie is definitely a turn on there should be nothing underneath it that people turn their noses up at. The female physique is stunning even with a mum tum |
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Don't be ashamed of them ladies, they are a part of who you are.
As has been said, anyone who doesn't want to be with you because of it, you really don't want to be with anyway. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I hate mine, and I can't even say I have a mummy tummy as I don't have kids!
But we have to accept that with age comes changes whether we want it or not, I always remember my mum telling me that women are not built to have flat stomachs, I don't even weigh 7.5 stone, but middle aged spread has hit me, so yes I hide behind lingerie also, even though I get daily messages saying my body is hot lol do we take those compliments seriously? Meh no we don't, because we all see our imperfections and it is as simple as that. We see what we think we see, NOT what others see  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not a fan of mine but I am learning to accept I cannot seem to get rid of it. However it is a reminder to me that I carried two beautiful babies and that my body has done something pretty amazing. And it doesn't bother hubby and if it bothered any of the guys we meet well they can do one |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
You're definitely not the only one. I'm very self conscious about mine but starting to accept its my shape and who I am x |
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over a year ago
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I absolutely love it.... nothing better and more attractive than a body that tells a story  |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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You're not alone  |
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Most women seem to have this same issue. Me included... But sooner or later you gotta just try and overcome it. There's people of all shapes and sizes on clubs and on here and from experience it's not something anyone else gets hung up on...
I'm pretty sure everyone doesn't like a certain part of there body x |
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Oh and just had a look, you look stunning x |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
my honest opinion you have a fantastic body from the pictures I saw. Be proud of your beautiful body |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alas I wasn't lucky enough to see that part of you.
Gutted.
But you should be proud of your body its amazing.. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have insecurities, it's a question of learning not to allow them to prevent us from doing what we want and enjoying life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP
To be very honest , a milf looks more sexy with mummy tummy. I think you should be proud of your body, it's amazing .
I personally love it.
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I knew I wasn't alone!
Don't get me wrong.... my stretch marks are my children and I have absolutely no regrets about that.
I just get really worried when guys message calling me 'stunning' and telling me I have the perfect body....
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"I knew I wasn't alone!
Don't get me wrong.... my stretch marks are my children and I have absolutely no regrets about that.
I just get really worried when guys message calling me 'stunning' and telling me I have the perfect body....
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you are stunning very nice body |
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"OP
To be very honest , a milf looks more sexy with mummy tummy. I think you should be proud of your body, it's amazing .
I personally love it.
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Have to totally agree with this response. I think a mummy tummy is proof of being a sexy mama who still loves to have sex even after having had children. It's great that women can still want more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
You look hot to me!
I’m trying nip + fab tummy fix, does seem to be helping. Can get it in boots. |
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We're not all super models, or Olympic athletes.
And I bet those that are, still have insecurities and bits of their body they don't like.
It's probably only you that thinks it's horrible. We are all more accepting of others "flaws" than our own.
Personally I love the bit of belly babies leave behind. It's very womanly. |
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over a year ago
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"I knew I wasn't alone!
Don't get me wrong.... my stretch marks are my children and I have absolutely no regrets about that.
I just get really worried when guys message calling me 'stunning' and telling me I have the perfect body....
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That's because guys do feel that your are stunning and hot .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did have a lovely kiss.
Well it was the start of a lovely friendship.
Until jealously arrived.
You are a lovely lady inside and out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You look lovely.
But I know where you are coming from.
Was at Townhouse recently, and there was a gorgeous lady, dressed to impress in stockings, basque.
My fwb asked me when I was going to wear something like that, I replied when I had a body transplant as was far too fat.
He replied " but you're beautiful. And honestly, men don't notice the bumps, I noticed your confidence, the way you move and the air you gave, you own it whatever you wear, whatever your size"
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Love Mummy Tummys ... stretchmarks anywhere are lovely too, embrace your body, you are a sexy woman inside and out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd prefer not to have it but I do and its not going away so I just embrace it lol
I usually tell guys I have wobbly bits if they have a problem then its their problem not mine. |
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"I am not a fan of mine but I am learning to accept I cannot seem to get rid of it. However it is a reminder to me that I carried two beautiful babies and that my body has done something pretty amazing. And it doesn't bother hubby and if it bothered any of the guys we meet well they can do one "
You're also a very sexy woman and being natural, stretchmarks, tummy are things most of us guys love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty its not going to put all guys off, some it will some it wont.
Its difficult when we loose body confidence, all i can say is from someone who has had serious body hang ups.. try not to let it define you.. most people dont care about what you worry about.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a real shame. I can understand a woman's problem with that extra flesh, but it's completely natural. It's muscle damage from something wonderful.
Way to much emphasis put on tight,slim figures. As far as I'm concerned, it's very sexy. Obviously if I knew the lady had an issue, I would divert my lips and hands from that area, but there really is nothing wrong with it. |
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By *0nderMan
over a year ago
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I’d like to be a bit more toned, most people I suspect would of themselves? It seems sadly only a few people are truly happy with every aspect of their bodies, however, for me I actually like seeing mummy tummies. They’re part of your life story and I actually find them very attractive. Its sad to see so many don’t like them or have body issues of themselves.
I suspect if we saw ourselves through the eyes of others most of us would be happy with how they see us.
OP you have nothing to hide you’re stunning, and anyone would be lucky to be with you naked!
As to the other mums or those with ‘mummy tummies’ with or without the children to go with them, you’re all beautiful, and should find the joy in your own bodies xx |
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Feels hard being a guy and commenting on this, as I guess we can’t really imagine what pressures women feel under these days (and always have?). But from a man’s perspective I’d say firstly the woman sees it far more than anyone else does, and secondly embrace it. Though I don’t profess to talk for others, I certainly appreciate the confidence of a woman who is comfortable with her body and Love women with real curves. Hope I’m not alone!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have some form of insecurity. But what strikes me the most is the ladies who barely have “ a mummy tummy” seem to be the most conscious about it. True ssbbw and bbw women ( say size 22+ ) don’t seem to be as hooked up about their size. The fine line with ladies seems to be if it sags, as there are lots of photos where that bit is covered, but hell to it, it’s who you are, come on girls get your bellies out. !! |
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"You should be proud of it. Its a part of your life and a story told. If any guy or girl is turned off then they don't deserve to see you naked"
Late to the thread...but this I love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly love mine. It's a daily reminder of my lifes greatest achievement. There's a miracle story behind it. I embrace every stretch mark, every saggy bit, every imperfection.
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
They don’t bother me in the slightest, they can be very sexy. Very womenly. X |
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"You should be proud of it. Its a part of your life and a story told. If any guy or girl is turned off then they don't deserve to see you naked"
Totally this.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kiss my wife’s belly all the time I love her body and tell her all the time she should love her body too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
Whatever it is you think you have to hide behind lingerie your doing a fantastic job of it
Cos your pictures are stunning and your body looks amazing
You certainly tick every box for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kiss my wife’s belly all the time I love her body and tell her all the time she should love her body too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be proud of it. Its a part of your life and a story told. If any guy or girl is turned off then they don't deserve to see you naked"
This !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every chick has something they don't like about themselves.your mum him if it's stretch marks there's really nothing you can do about them so get over it as you have a fantastic body!! |
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I’m the same I’ve always been self conscious about my mummy tummy and always dressed to hide it; but just had a long weekend in Cap D’Agde where I let it all hang out, best thing I’ve ever done - I’m a 50 something woman with wobbly bits, and those that don’t like it don’t matter! Love your body and all it’s imperfections  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every chick has something they don't like about themselves.your mum him if it's stretch marks there's really nothing you can do about them so get over it as you have a fantastic body!! "
should have been mum tum lol |
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All female bodies are beautiful, and sexy, I think a lady showing natural body changes are very sexy indeed. |
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I've had 5 full terms pregnancies (several of them 10lbs on my 5ft tall frame lol), used to want to get rid of my mum tum with surgery but tbh i'm not bothered about it now and haven't been for quite a while. |
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I get what you mean...I'm fairly slim so its not a problem. But I wasn't always and it did pass through my mind especially when being over. If the guy is thinking about our tummy then he's the wrong guy |
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"I kiss my wife’s belly all the time I love her body and tell her all the time she should love her body too. "
My ex used to do this, i think it really helped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I am hugging peach in bed my hand is always on her belly.
I respect what she put her body through to give us kids.
If you think on a purely sexually level, if a lady has a baby belly at least you know she can fuck.
No offence intended.
Love the mummy belly rock it girls |
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My hubby absolutely adores me. He loves me for who I am not what I look like.
He has always told me how beautiful I am and I thank him for that. He doesn't have a problem with my body. Quite the opposite...
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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I don't like mine and I try to hide it as much as possible, I don't regret having it though because without it I wouldn't have my daughter. |
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From a male perspective.
It’s quite a thing ( pregnancy) for a body to go through . We will never know .
It doesn’t bother me at all .
I like mum bods , and along with the other scars of womanhood , c section scar or curvier bodies I usually embrace them and not look at them negatively.
Your all beautiful
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"My hubby absolutely adores me. He loves me for who I am not what I look like.
He has always told me how beautiful I am and I thank him for that. He doesn't have a problem with my body. Quite the opposite...
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As he should do too. Ive always loved and respected mummy tummies on women i helped one woman get so much confidence from hers i got her into naturism lol. She attends her local beach alot in summer now considering she always hid it in shame. I see plenty of fellow naturist women with mummy tummies and tiger stripes. They prove your a mother and dont detract from you being the beautiful women you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's exactly how i feel...at least underwear holds it in place...it's being naked i worry about x |
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Stop worrying OP and embrace what you have |
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I can often be found on the naturist beach when weather permits.
I have to admit that fabs and swinging has given me more confidence.
But it doesn't stop me worrying about what people see and say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Insecurities are horrid. Though having looked at all your profiles you are all gorgeous!!
Mummy tummy isn’t an issue TBH. In general that is but from your photos I can’t see one anyway.
To turn it in it’s head it actually says you like sex so, kinda a turn on... x |
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"That's exactly how i feel...at least underwear holds it in place...it's being naked i worry about x"
This is exactly how I feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking glorious from here xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy as **** |
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If i can get the right lingerie to hide it..great.
If not I just have to hope to get too involved to remember I have a mum tum! |
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"I can often be found on the naturist beach when weather permits.
I have to admit that fabs and swinging has given me more confidence.
But it doesn't stop me worrying about what people see and say."
Naturists would never think negative thoughts of anyone else but i get what you mean i hated my bum for years till i decided not to let what people thought affect me. And now i dont give a damn as its my bum its mine its unique and i love it even with its birthmark! |
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"That's exactly how i feel...at least underwear holds it in place...it's being naked i worry about x"
If you worry about being naked, keep wearing your very sexy lingerie...not that uou have anything to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing more sensual than the look and feel of a mum tum mmmm |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes I get conscious but overall I'm quite confident and I remember the shit my body had been through to deliver my 4 kids in the world. Us women are incredibly strong to do what we do xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find a mummy tummy to be an incredible turn on tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy boobs, curvy bums, curvy waist all considered desirable by women curvy tummy its just part of the curves that make a womans body beautiful.how boring would your bodies be if they had no curves. Another thing a mummy tummy is the sign that you created life your primary function in life, a sign of success .Why would you hate it ? because media is obsessed with boy like models? its a no brainer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a big guy i can tell u guys get exactly the same, i get very paranoid about my body even though im fit and healthy and play rugby and go gym most days, im genetically a chubby guy always have been always will be i guess lol but i do find it bothers me more than it does others from what im told x |
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"Sometimes I get conscious but overall I'm quite confident and I remember the shit my body had been through to deliver my 4 kids in the world. Us women are incredibly strong to do what we do xxx"
You are very much we are trying for a baby ourselves and one thing ive said is that my girl is far stronger than i will ever be just for carrying and delivering babies x Us guys couldnt do that for sure even if we were capable x |
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over a year ago
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"That's exactly how i feel...at least underwear holds it in place...it's being naked i worry about x
This is exactly how I feel "
By the time I get naked with someone, I'm not worrying about my stomach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's a big turn on. Always thought of it as the sign of a real women  |
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I wouldn't mind it so much if it wasn't a c section scar and overhang. It's horrid.
I understand all the messages from men saying it's lovely and tells a story etc but living with it day in day out grinds me down.
I also thought the c section caused nerve damage and stopped my ability to orgasm...turns out that was just an emotional disconnect to my ex having an affair.
The point being I feel very body conscious and low when my ex had an affair....with someone with no kids/mum tum...so a double reason to feel rubbish... #great
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems strange lots of very attractive ladies on here worrying about the tummy when all the guys are telling you we love soft curvy bodies. Just learn to love your selves ladies as much as us guy love you |
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at our local club (club f) they do a curvys girls once a month gets really full and no 1 bats an eyelid |
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I think it's probably worth mentioning that your "mummy tummys" aren't actually anywhere near as noticeable as you all (most of you, at least) think they are. It seems to be that your stomach is the one thing you notice about yourself, you could have amazing boobs and fabulous thighs and a cracking bottom and killer hips and a smokin' waist but all you see is a little loose skin around your midriff.
Speaking as a man that enjoys women's bodies; I assure you. It's not the big deal you think it is. We barely even register it, if at all.
Everybody has body hang-ups, but beauty is completely subjective. You may not see beauty, you may not see perfection, but that doesn't alter the fact that to me, to him, to her, to them.... your body IS beautiful. Your body IS perfect. If I think you're perfect, then you're perfect. Nobody is going to tell me otherwise, not even you.
You ARE perfect, and there's nothing you can do about it. |
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Real men who like you will love all of you and should work to show you they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally love mummy tummies, should be proud of it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It tells a story, just be proud and if people don't like it tell them to go away (maybe not as politely as that) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've mentioned how much I love a mummy tummy several times on other posts, and it's mentioned in my profile too.
I think they're such a turn on. I especially love standing behind, and wrapping my arms around them.....ooooo so scrummy! |
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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago
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"Making a note of all the men who like mum tums I'm like u OP, very conscious of it, especially in doggy position!! but like u said,there are some great Basque/underwear etc's that can 'camouflage' it,and if all else fails... missionary...! That makes me look flat as a pancake mrs d x
Just a note for u when we have a woman doggy style we cant see ur belly anyway and we are 2 busy looking at ur bum up in the air anyway "
All true, but as a woman, we are still aware of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Making a note of all the men who like mum tums I'm like u OP, very conscious of it, especially in doggy position!! but like u said,there are some great Basque/underwear etc's that can 'camouflage' it,and if all else fails... missionary...! That makes me look flat as a pancake mrs d x
Just a note for u when we have a woman doggy style we cant see ur belly anyway and we are 2 busy looking at ur bum up in the air anyway
All true, but as a woman, we are still aware of it!"
Thats fair enough just though i would let u know from a mans point of view x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a Mummy Tummy! We all have bits of us we aren’t keen on, but nothing to hide or be ashamed of!
Personally I love to stroke and kiss a Mummy Tummy and if I’m lucky cum on it!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here love a mummy tummy they are very sexy(mr) |
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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago
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Used to bother me, still probably my least liked part of me to be honest. Anyone who said they loved it was usually biased.
Have been told quite a lot that it's part of me and to be fancied/loved as much as the rest of me but it's not always easy to accept.
End of the day I have wobbly bits and I've just got to accept them  |
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I know exactly what you mean. I spend my life breathing in, I now don’t remember what it feels like to relax my stomach!
I do at least 100 sit ups every morning as I hate my stomach so much.
I had a c sect scar that caused me so much distress that I sat for 8 hours in one sitting having a tattoo to cover it up.
We all have insecurities and it’s hard going but you do what you can to make yourself feel better and that’s all you can do.
No amount of men telling you it’s gorgeous will make you feel better. You have to feel better in yourself. |
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I'm quite happy snuggling a soft squishy tummy. I have no problem with stretch marks, scars, etc either, they're all just different strokes on the canvas of skin. It's a cliche that may have been said a billion times, but it really would be dull AF if we all looked alike, even if that look was the media ideal. |
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over a year ago
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Lots of stunningly beautiful women on here trying to hide
Going off the responces from others i hope you can all see that we love the way you all look and what you think you look like to others is wrong
We love the way you look please don't ever hide yourselves away xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use lingerie to enhance my assets - I love my curves and most men like a curvaceous woman from my experience.
If you are beautiful on the inside it does not matter abou shape or size xxx |
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By *eterpervisMan
over a year ago
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I love a woman to be natural, I don't like ladies who feel the need to resort to surgery. Everyone is to obsessed with the 'picture perfect' images we are fed in the press. Real people have lumps and bumps and they look better for it. The ladies with baby bellies shouldn't feel less confident as you will always find someone with bigger tits or a flatter belly. Get happy in your own skin and you will be more confident, and confident women are the sexiest beings on this planet. You all okk fantastic from the profile pictures I have seen and a pair of 'big' knickers are often sexier that the dental floss some prefer. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are always going to be insecure no matter their size and shape, but just as much as you may have a most hated part of your body in your head, there are SO SO MANY out there who love that part! And more besides!
Adore a bigger woman, it's not just the gorgeous curves and soft bellies and bootylicious bums it's the confidence to rise above the insane societal vision of what is 'beautiful'. Skeletal bodies and tiny waist lines make me gag (personally, to each their own) |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
Seen your pics 
If you are worried about that gnat bite sized tummy how the hell do you think I feel? 
On a more serious note: it's you, it's part of you, it's natural, it makes no difference to the person you are. Attraction is never merely physical, if it is, that makes those who want to meet more shallow than an ants urine puddle  Being attractive and desirable is more of mind-set, how you carry yourself etc. A mummy tummy should be the very last thing a potential meet should be thinking of
Her xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be proud of it. Its a part of your life and a story told. If any guy or girl is turned off then they don't deserve to see you naked"
What they said |
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over a year ago
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"Most women seem to have this same issue. Me included... But sooner or later you gotta just try and overcome it. There's people of all shapes and sizes on clubs and on here and from experience it's not something anyone else gets hung up on...
I'm pretty sure everyone doesn't like a certain part of there body x"
We all have parts that we are not happy about but we keep going. Women are beautiful creatures of creation and they are to be adored. You are all beautiful |
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over a year ago
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I think it’s very sex xx |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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I've had 4 children, I'm a size 12 and have wobbly bits but I honestly don't care
My kids are my biggest achievements and them changing my body is my war wound if you like and I'm bloody proud to have been lucky enough to have them.
If others dont find me attractive then that's fine, I cant be everyones cup of tea xx |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
Everybody has issues about some part of their body. Everybody. All of us.
This is about your self esteem and body image, work on it, own it because what is really a turn off for other people is not the fat thighs/saggy boobs/wobbly tummy but the person who has them who hides and is ashamed and lacks confidence in their sexiness.
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I have a mummy tummy and not ashamed of it. 5 children later .
If you can't look past the tummy then I'm not for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a mummy tummy and not ashamed of it. 5 children later .
If you can't look past the tummy then I'm not for you."
Yes very true |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a mummy tummy and not ashamed of it. 5 children later .
If you can't look past the tummy then I'm not for you."
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Sexy Squidge my hubby calls mine. Get told I've soft skin so the padding has benefits. Plus I'm not fat I'm bullet proof lol |
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Should read.....Mummy's tummy. |
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I’ve had some messages following my post along the lines of ‘it’s ok for you to say that, you look wonderful’ so here goes...
I used to be almost 21 stones and I’m fast approaching 60. I have baggy, empty boobs and thighs that defy normality, they are huge, baggy, wobbly. My face is a huge map of lines and wrinkles, I have liver spots on my hands and the skin over my entire body has lost collagen so it’s all saggy and wrinkly. I can feel my arse folded on my thighs and my mons hangs and swings.
I also feel smug, sexy and powerful. |
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I hate mine! Glad to see so many confident ladies, I’d love to feel like that about my mum tum  |
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"I’ve had some messages following my post along the lines of ‘it’s ok for you to say that, you look wonderful’ so here goes...
I used to be almost 21 stones and I’m fast approaching 60. I have baggy, empty boobs and thighs that defy normality, they are huge, baggy, wobbly. My face is a huge map of lines and wrinkles, I have liver spots on my hands and the skin over my entire body has lost collagen so it’s all saggy and wrinkly. I can feel my arse folded on my thighs and my mons hangs and swings.
I also feel smug, sexy and powerful. "
Well said.
I was about to post something similar. I'm 62, my body reflects this. I have a choice own it or spend my time worrying about it.
I'm currently sitting outside in a bikini. Mr N says I'm not a dolly bird lol but I have nothing to worry about which is fine by me. Imagine the work that I'd have to do to maintain the figure I had at 25, 35 or even 45... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women hate their tums regardless of babies.
I love women and a mum tum has certainly never put me off! One of the best things about women is that they're softer! Love your tum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just say that the pics I've seen are fantastic love the mum tum |
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
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I think women are more worried about it than the guys ever are. I think you all look amazing and should be proud of yourselves.To many haters out there already without hating yourself.
If i wanted a stick, i would a dog |
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"I think women are more worried about it than the guys ever are. I think you all look amazing and should be proud of yourselves.To many haters out there already without hating yourself.
If i wanted a stick, i would a dog "
Body shaming slim women isn't cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is like the hotlist of real bloody women who are as damn hot and sexy as anyone else. Love the thread and anyone with body issues shouldn't. Be proud of what you are as you're fucking wonderful |
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
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Was a joke. No offence meant i assure you |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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Doesn’t seem to have held you back, OP
Pity people weren’t so accepting about dad bods - hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think women are more worried about it than the guys ever are. I think you all look amazing and should be proud of yourselves.To many haters out there already without hating yourself.
If i wanted a stick, i would a dog "
You don't need to insult one body type to compliment another
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"Doesn’t seem to have held you back, OP
Pity people weren’t so accepting about dad bods - hey ho "
But they are. For every man who likes a slim toned woman there's one who likes a woman with a tummy. Equally for every woman who likes a slim toned guy there's one who likes a dad bod
These perceptions of what other people like and want are frequently in our own heads. |
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
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"I think women are more worried about it than the guys ever are. I think you all look amazing and should be proud of yourselves.To many haters out there already without hating yourself.
If i wanted a stick, i would a dog
You don't need to insult one body type to compliment another
Boils my piss that does "
You are totally correct.Error of judgement on my behalf. I apologies to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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absolutely adore mummy tummy’s. Actively seek them out, there’s nothing cuter or sexier than a naked mum. Her body has done awesome things to bring a human into the world. As others have said be proud and be YOU sexy girls xx |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t seem to have held you back, OP
Pity people weren’t so accepting about dad bods - hey ho
But they are. For every man who likes a slim toned woman there's one who likes a woman with a tummy. Equally for every woman who likes a slim toned guy there's one who likes a dad bod
These perceptions of what other people like and want are frequently in our own heads. "
Not many people who like bigger men I’m afraid.
I love a curvy woman however |
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"I think women are more worried about it than the guys ever are. I think you all look amazing and should be proud of yourselves.To many haters out there already without hating yourself.
If i wanted a stick, i would a dog "
Really? You can compliment without shaming others.
Your assumption that slim women don’t have body issues is juvenile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
Use your lingerie to enhance who you are and how you are, that is the attraction. Otherwise it’s just pretty wrapping paper x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing to be ashamed of, you provided a good home for a baby/s for 9 months.
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I love confident women.
I really love dad bods also, a bit of a tummy is hot.
Hoping to see a mix of both at my next club visit! I love looking at naked people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell yeah. Love the mum bods. And loved to show my dad bod off x |
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By *handraWoman
over a year ago
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I have really bad stretch marks on my tummy but they dont bother me.
Im always looking to lose a little weight but doesn't put me off anyone seeing me naked x |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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If folk really liked dad bods, I’d be fighting them off rather than reading “not for me” all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is caress them and kiss them as per the rear of your body. Cos they’re all part of you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow stunning pics
You really don’t need be hard on your mum tum
The thing I love about a woman’s body is is special to her an that’s what makes her what she is
I’ve a dad bod some find it sexy some don’t
Really done care it’s about what you are like as a person
Hampshire hot wife is exactly that
Hot hot hot xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a dad bod if any of you gorgeous ladies would like to see |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
I absolutely love mummy tummies. Gliding my hand over your stomach is so sensual.
Give me a mummy tummy over a girl with a flat pack any day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t like mine, trying to tone it up, but I never have. Linked to comments that have left me insecure about it. I always joke that I breathe in and use clever angles for my pics, but I feel so insecure that if someone meets me and sees that I have a flabby tummy they will find me less attractive. I’m the average lady. Im not toned/slim/athletic, I don’t have large breasts, I’m not a sexy BBW, I’m just me- and yes, I’m breathing in as I write this, maybe it will make my post seem less pathetic, haha xx |
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I no how you feel xxx I hate my mummy tummy xxx |
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I no how you feel xxx I hate my mummy tummy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no how you feel xxx I hate my mummy tummy xxx"
You kidding lovely? It’s absolutely gorgeous. Feel free to look me up and let me adore it  |
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Totally fine. How many guys have you met with washboard stomachs lately?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t be ashamed of your tummy flaunt it x |
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"I'd prefer not to have it but I do and its not going away so I just embrace it lol
I usually tell guys I have wobbly bits if they have a problem then its their problem not mine."
Agree... I usually just tell anyone I intend on meeting I have lots of soft bits... and I absolutely give thanks for my body being strong and able to carry and bring another human into the world.. |
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"If folk really liked dad bods, I’d be fighting them off rather than reading “not for me” all the time "
If you want to make this thread about you, don’t. Start your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
I think that the female form is amazing no matter how you see yourself. There are so many supermodels about but bear in mind they airbrush everything. Be proud of your body and the memories made by bumps and scars x |
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"I don’t like mine, trying to tone it up, but I never have. Linked to comments that have left me insecure about it. I always joke that I breathe in and use clever angles for my pics, but I feel so insecure that if someone meets me and sees that I have a flabby tummy they will find me less attractive. I’m the average lady. Im not toned/slim/athletic, I don’t have large breasts, I’m not a sexy BBW, I’m just me- and yes, I’m breathing in as I write this, maybe it will make my post seem less pathetic, haha xx "
Tried sending you a private message Vivian but you’ve blocked single males
I think you’re beautiful and I’ve fabbed a few pics as well. Yes I know you’ll think it’s the angles, but I bet you my life that your husband doesn’t feel it’s just the angles either! I bet he loves your curves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still have a mammy tummy and my youngest is 31 lol,seriously though OP we all have some body issues just try and for Us on your best bits,if the guy wants to meet you then he obviously likes what he sees |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will tell you what I have found with the mum tum thing. I lost nearly 4 stone so inevitably this has left me with one and at first it did bother me. But what I have actually found is this if a guy, and we are talking about all ages now, can see you are having a good time, it's like it doesn't register with him.
It's like if it doesn't hold you back, they don't seem to notice. I have been in the company of guys half my age and asked them about this and what they have said is if the woman is sexy, they don't notice.
Believe me Hun, the world definitely does not belong to youth and the perfect shape.
Own the moment, and you own the man. And this is coming from someone who had no confidence whatsoever two years ago before the Swinging scene.
You might notice I put three pics on my profile of being on a bus with no make up on, take it from me, men of all ages love what is real, because this reaches out to everyone and includes everyone XXX Love Yourself xx |
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"I will tell you what I have found with the mum tum thing. I lost nearly 4 stone so inevitably this has left me with one and at first it did bother me. But what I have actually found is this if a guy, and we are talking about all ages now, can see you are having a good time, it's like it doesn't register with him.
It's like if it doesn't hold you back, they don't seem to notice. I have been in the company of guys half my age and asked them about this and what they have said is if the woman is sexy, they don't notice.
Believe me Hun, the world definitely does not belong to youth and the perfect shape.
Own the moment, and you own the man. And this is coming from someone who had no confidence whatsoever two years ago before the Swinging scene.
You might notice I put three pics on my profile of being on a bus with no make up on, take it from me, men of all ages love what is real, because this reaches out to everyone and includes everyone XXX Love Yourself xx"
Please come and collect your reward for the best post of 2019! Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Men really don’t notice, my ex was like that, used to hold her stomach when naked, that draws more attention to it. When she stopped, some of the sex we had was the best ever! |
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So many women have a total downer on how they look. It's so sad. A woman's perception of herself is so often contrary to how other people see them.
Mum tums and muffin tops are perfectly normal. Normal women can be completely beautiful, although that's in the eye of the beholder.
I (Luke) love a woman with curves. That doesn't just mean big boobs. It means a nice round bum with big thighs and a bit of a tummy. When Hannah and I point out women we find attractive, it's always the ones with a bit extra (in some cases quite a lot extra).
You ladies who think you are too big, I can assure you there are plenty of people (men and women) who find you highly desirable. You may not believe or notice, but there are.
I don't want or need some airbrushed and unattainable vision of perfection. I want a real woman, all natural, complete with lumps, bumps, scars, stretch marks and everything. |
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If I do say “no thanks” to a guy (dad bod or not) it’s nothing to do with their body and everything to do with their attitude.
The people who have said to be confident are correct. If you’re a nice person, people don’t notice little bumps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you sweetheart, I really appreciate that. I felt that when I stopped seeing it, so did they xxx |
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
If it helps...
Far more important (for me anyway) is personality, a bit of a spark, a flirt.
A supposedly less "attractive" woman can make the adrenaline pump far more effectively than some "perfect" types.
Be yourself - that's the best (and most attractive) - person you can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love Mrs N's tummy. It's so sexy
Be proud of what it means
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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I find stretch marks extremely sexy. I'd love to kiss and lick them |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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Always told MrsJ doesn't matter if she was big or small I still love her. |
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Mummy tummy’s are so sexy
Be proud of what you have I love a woman with one it’s so natural |
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"I don’t like mine, trying to tone it up, but I never have. Linked to comments that have left me insecure about it. I always joke that I breathe in and use clever angles for my pics, but I feel so insecure that if someone meets me and sees that I have a flabby tummy they will find me less attractive. I’m the average lady. Im not toned/slim/athletic, I don’t have large breasts, I’m not a sexy BBW, I’m just me- and yes, I’m breathing in as I write this, maybe it will make my post seem less pathetic, haha xx "
I'm going to reiterate what someone else up there has said:
I've clicked on all the girls who've expressed dislike of their stomach on this thread, and without exception those with pictures have been gorgeous, and it's made me sad that they don't see it in themselves. But, and this is most certainly not to the detriment of all the other beautiful women on here; you really REALLY caught my eye. You're extraordinarily pretty and very, very, VERY sexy. And you don't need to suck in your stomach or twist into uncomfortable angles to achieve that. Sexy isn't something you LOOK like, it's something you ARE. And you, as I'm sure everyone here agrees, are sexy. Really fucking sexy.
Please try not to focus on what you don't like about yourself, or will end up being all you ever see. Try and realise how everybody else sees you, and revel in that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
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Think you look great |
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
Mrs "
Fabbed your stomach pic. Maybe it’s just me but I’d love to stroke my fingers all over your stomach whilst I kiss you.
It’s been said before, sexiness is what you feel x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
I can only speak for myself, but I love it. Motherhood imposes a number of physical changes on a woman's body, and they are, without exception, the hottest things. Shame your profile is currently hidden - I'd love to see your gallery some time. |
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
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I’ve had twins too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
Mrs
I’ve had twins too "
Well you look much better for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
Mrs
Fabbed your stomach pic. Maybe it’s just me but I’d love to stroke my fingers all over your stomach whilst I kiss you.
It’s been said before, sexiness is what you feel x"
Thanks
My confidence has grown since being on here |
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"I hate my mum tum too. After having twins I have humongous stretch marks that I try to hide when I can
Mrs
Fabbed your stomach pic. Maybe it’s just me but I’d love to stroke my fingers all over your stomach whilst I kiss you.
It’s been said before, sexiness is what you feel x
Thanks
My confidence has grown since being on here "
Glad to hear. Keep it up, you really are a beautiful woman. I’m sure your fellas alright as well haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
You look fantastic
I'd say most people have at least some worry about any extra they think they are carrying. It's easy to say you should love your body but harder to do what you say if you don't feel right.
Fab has been awesome for this though. So many threads pop up around dad bod/mum bod etc and the lovely people that use there forums are always quick to put your mind at ease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t like mine but it’s there so I just embrace it, if others don’t like it tough they don’t have to live with it and I do think some people quite like us ladies with jiggly bits x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my mum tum...i also have a cz scar that didn't heal brilliantly so my tummy looks like a lop sided grin..if i had the money i would definately get a tummy tuck..
I always wear sexy gear to cover it up.. |
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
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I repeat what all the other guys have written. Being a mum is a very amazing thing, and you all look gorgeous. Nothing not to like x |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I don't like mine, I don't have stretch marks but it's just a bit wobblier than I'd prefer. That's as much a diet as a mum tum issue though. Nobody has ever recoiled in horror upon seeing me naked so I'll live with it! |
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I am sure all those perfect people that are on here unaffected by life have probably not experienced life ....... and life is to experience not be a pretty picture !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate mine had to have a C-section & it will never go back to what it used to be! but saying that on having the C-section it saved my sons life & could never imagine him not being here now |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I've embrassed my body, motherhood and age and try to be the best I can with what I have.
Sexy comes from within I think |
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By *amueljMan
over a year ago
Dorset |
"I've embrassed my body, motherhood and age and try to be the best I can with what I have.
Sexy comes from within I think "
You look amazing, dont doubt that |
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"I've embrassed my body, motherhood and age and try to be the best I can with what I have.
Sexy comes from within I think "
Sexy oozes from you Ms S.
Your body shows how hard you work to look like that, you've earnt it.
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had four babies... and yes it does bother me,,,although they were worth it 100% and anyone that’s put of by it isn't the sort of person I’d want to play with anyway so it’s win win. We all have so much more to offer than a podgy belly bit. To me, a real person with war scars and little personality birth marks and so on is more sexier than airbrushed to society’s perfection. Remember those kegal exercises though, worth their weight In gold ;D xx |
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Thank you all for your contribution.
I feel empowered now!
If you don't like my saggy akin and wobbly bits that's your problem not mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to know your thoughts. Men and women.
For me personally it is a massive drain on my self esteem.
I constantly hide behind lingerie. I always worry about what guys are going to think of me when they see my naked!
I know that I cannot be the only woman......."
I feel the same way. Feel super sexy in lingerie and really do love parts of my body. But my belly is wrinkly and loose (4 children and very big babies).
I did go for a tummy tuck consultation a few months back but had decided against it for the moment as not sure the scar I would be left with would make me feel any more comfortable getting my kit off.
So really my husband is the only one who really gets to see me naked. I wish I could be more confident around it too.
S x |
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