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Looking For A Lodger?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it's a common (non sexual) fantasy for a lot of people to just pack a bag and leave their old life to start anew but I am starting to think it's the best possible opportunity for me to live openly as a bisexual guy who is ethically non monogamous.
Had my eye on Hull since it has the joint benefits of a swingers club, gay sauna, and just being a generally quite affordable city but to be honest, I would be happy to live anywhere if it was with another sex-positive individual like myself or even a couple. Sex between us does NOT have to be a definite, just living with someone I can be open with about my sexual pastimes and you can be open with yours.
Is there anyone else out there feeling like they are in the same boat? Feeling so stifled by my family life and personal life (Im neither married nor have any kids before any of you start!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A third same thread in a week? Give it a rest maybe.
Mrs
Original thread got deleted. Not sure why as pretty sure it doesnt break the rules. "
No it wasn't deleted. You still have two more exactly the same threads started 6 days ago. Click on your own green arrow.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your threads get deleted because you start a duplicate one. You have had four identical opening messages. "
Yes still got 3 but the one that was getting traction was the one deleted ironically! Wouldnt mind if the other 2 get deleted now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suprised there arent more people on here looking for lodgers tbh"
Nothing would possess me to consider a lodger off a sex site personally, no matter how much he claimed sex was not expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suprised there arent more people on here looking for lodgers tbh"
Say you owned a house and have a spare room. A lodger is already a stranger in your house that you will have to share your kitchen, bathroom etc. with. Now would you want a stranger to keep bringing more strangers to your home whether it's for a couple of hour, a night or a weekend? Strangers that you know nothing about?
Think somewhere there lyes your answer.
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When I was going through my divorce, I advertised on a different site (for Tgirls) a house share or anyone with a flat to rent. I got a message back from a guy, although the flat was further away from my work it seemed ok. I asked about the rent, that's when it went weird, it appeared I had to dress up every night and occasionally pleasure him. Good news this would be rent free  turned him down, but got all nasty on me, so eventually blocked him.
Be careful out there
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"When I was going through my divorce, I advertised on a different site (for Tgirls) a house share or anyone with a flat to rent. I got a message back from a guy, although the flat was further away from my work it seemed ok. I asked about the rent, that's when it went weird, it appeared I had to dress up every night and occasionally pleasure him. Good news this would be rent free turned him down, but got all nasty on me, so eventually blocked him.
Be careful out there
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I wonder what had happened to Michael Barrymore “ aw wight” |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah i guess there has to be a lot of trust but that works from both sides. The home owners woukd have a lot of power over the lodger too so id have to trust they wouldnt creep on me either. I know there are plenty of sane people on here. Personally id rather KNOW whay the person was into ratber than a complete stranger as a lodger |
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"Yeah i guess there has to be a lot of trust but that works from both sides. The home owners woukd have a lot of power over the lodger too so id have to trust they wouldnt creep on me either. I know there are plenty of sane people on here. Personally id rather KNOW whay the person was into ratber than a complete stranger as a lodger"
Plenty of sane people?? Are we talking about the right site?
Live with a complete stranger off a sex site....nah. |
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Tbh if you are a swinger and have lodgers, it does make meeting people.very hard , we know as we do have lodgers . I can see the benefits of a like minded lodger , but also as has been said before I wouldn't want to be seeing loads of strangers in my house , it definitely is a trust thing , our lodger is on pof all the time but he doesnt bring them home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly, he's asking a genuine question.
Not your thing?
Move on, stop piss taking with your kennel.
Have a bit of thought jeez so perfect you, don't know how you cope"
Thanks for sticking up for me. To be honest every time ive posted something sincere on the forums theres always people being dismissive and rude. Its bizarre to me what a close minded community swinging can be. Every single one of us is here because we are afyer things that aren't "normal" but everyone is quick to judge the other people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got a lovely detached kennel out back, with a run possible garden space, £100 a week it’s a steal 
Is food included lol
Lol
No seriously I’ve a spare room to rent out x"
Whats huddersfield like for swinging then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh if you are a swinger and have lodgers, it does make meeting people.very hard , we know as we do have lodgers . I can see the benefits of a like minded lodger , but also as has been said before I wouldn't want to be seeing loads of strangers in my house , it definitely is a trust thing , our lodger is on pof all the time but he doesnt bring them home."
do you both need another lodger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh if you are a swinger and have lodgers, it does make meeting people.very hard , we know as we do have lodgers . I can see the benefits of a like minded lodger , but also as has been said before I wouldn't want to be seeing loads of strangers in my house , it definitely is a trust thing , our lodger is on pof all the time but he doesnt bring them home."
do you both need another lodger |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ffs just had a couple tell me they had a spare room and when i asked legitimate questions (location, room furnished?) they deleted the the messages and are now ignoring me!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...
Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?
Much the same as anywhere else I guess... "
I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh |
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"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...
Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?
Much the same as anywhere else I guess...
I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh "
There are a few clubs in the area and it's actually fairly inexpensive here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a spare room to let too... but you can't advertise it on here... oh...wait...
Hmm whats cornwall like for the swinging scene?
Much the same as anywhere else I guess...
I was meaning are there any clibs nearby? Gay saunas? I bet cornwall is a pretty exoensive place to live tbh
There are a few clubs in the area and it's actually fairly inexpensive here "
Could be interested in renting then. Can you DM me? Im out of age range |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are you so desperate for replies??
You've posted this 3 times. People have commented, yet still you keep bumping this particular thread.
Everyone has fantasies. Maybe this is yours, but to keep posting it is a bit dull and, personally, I find it a bit psycho. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you dont like the thread, ignore the thread. Me posting to the forum is getting me private messages so it is working for me even when you dont see it. Unfortunately not found the right place yet so the search continues. I've been considerate enough to not soam the other threads and just concentrate on this one.
Me doing this is harming literally nobody |
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"Do not like the idea of a full time lodger living with us but, the idea of someone staying a night or too while working in the area regularly brings some naughty thoughts? "
this is something we’d love too. A regular guest on business lodging a couple of nights a week. Anyone wanting a room in Newcastle mid week msg us
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do not like the idea of a full time lodger living with us but, the idea of someone staying a night or too while working in the area regularly brings some naughty thoughts? "
mmmm very horny thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Keep getting a lot of people saying the thought of all this is too weird and get a lot of "for all you/we know, we/you could be an axe murderer!" but ironically, a swinging site is probably the best way to vet tenants/landlords. if you get a regular lodger they literally could be anyone but a swinger comes with verifications from other users that have met them in the most intimate of occasions and can vouch for them! You certainly don't get that with a regular tenant/landlord! |
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