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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a meet recently with a couple when they arrived she was obviously very d*unk
We had chatted for a while before and had arranged an hotel meet they had been to a wedding reception before hand and she was well beyond the tipsy stage
He insisted it was all good but I felt It was not right
I refused to play as I was uncomfortable
Did I do the right thing they have blocked me now |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"I had a meet recently with a couple when they arrived she was obviously very d*unk
We had chatted for a while before and had arranged an hotel meet they had been to a wedding reception before hand and she was well beyond the tipsy stage
He insisted it was all good but I felt It was not right
I refused to play as I was uncomfortable
Did I do the right thing they have blocked me now "
Yes, at least you know you have done the right thing, can you imagine if things went wrong how it would’ve looked? Think you dodged a bullet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You did the right thing - without a shadow of a doubt.
No matter what the presumptive agreement was or what her partner said - she was not in a position to consent fully with a clear mind at the time.
They may have blocked you but you did the right thing, They have probably blocked you out of embarrassment more than anything else. |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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We had a similar situation at a party recently. She was really d*unk but her partner wanted to play. She was so d*unk people wouldn't play with her and C ended up looking after her. We both made the decision we wouldnt play.
People kept telling him to take her back to their caravan on site. He wouldn't because he's not allowed to play alone!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you know you did the right thing...
But it’s nice you’ve got an outlet here to reassure you.
It’s not like we can just bring it up to our sister at the kitchen table (or most of us can’t).
It’s a shame they’ve blocked you. But I agree it’s out of miscommunication and embarrassment.
Hope you find strength in our assurances
Mrs P |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a meet recently with a couple when they arrived she was obviously very d*unk
We had chatted for a while before and had arranged an hotel meet they had been to a wedding reception before hand and she was well beyond the tipsy stage
He insisted it was all good but I felt It was not right
I refused to play as I was uncomfortable
Did I do the right thing they have blocked me now "
Absolutely you did the right thing. Both for your safety and protection as well as hers. If she is very d*unk then there is no way she could give consent plus there is nothing less sexy than a d*unk female (or male for that matter). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not the same when someone is d*unk. I find it difficult to engage the mind. Swinging and fab should not be just about wham bam thank you mam. There is a whole environment and mutual pleasure involved for all. You deffo did the right thing |
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