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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby here I understand whenever someone has messaged us and clearly took the time to read our profile but are not our type I always try and reply. I've even went as far as helping them with profile tips, advice etc if I'm in a position to help.
Cheers Jay (KJ x)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mainly answer all my messages unless they clearly haven't read the profile and just written a fancy a fuck or can I lick your toe kinda thing! So 9 out of 10 get answered tbh |
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over a year ago
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I reply to well written nice messages. If they’ve read the profile and i like the look of theirs then i’ll defo answer otherwise its ‘thanks but no thanks’ block. |
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If someone has taken the time to read our profile and written a little more than 'hows things' or 'what you into' we will reply. Sadly, this means that 90% will not get a reply.
To be honest, folks who don't make an effort with their response tend not to make an effort anywhere.
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over a year ago
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As a guy who reads profiles and takes time to write pertunant and relevant messages that are whitty and charming (at least I think so)
I expect 90% to be ignored so don't feel guilty it seems to be the majority of members sops
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"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.
Anyone else feel this way. "
Strange you have been on this site a long time, you get too much mail to deal with, yet you haven’t got a single verification??? |
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"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.
Anyone else feel this way. "
We must be doing something wrong as an unanswerable volume of messages is not a problem we encounter |
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"As a cpl you get plenty of messages and some are lovely written, but feel guilty because you can't answer all messages you get.
Anyone else feel this way.
Strange you have been on this site a long time, you get too much mail to deal with, yet you haven’t got a single verification??? "
We have heard of couple's who go to the socials and lap up the attention but never play.
Likewise there are couples accounts on fab where they comment on the volume of mails they receive like the OP but when you look closer they have been on fab for over a year and don't have a single verification to there name.
Either they set up the account ages ago and have just come back to it only recently and you are viewing them before they have been able to have there first meet.
Or they are here for the fantasy, they enjoy the chat / talking about meeting, get off on the knowledge that they have the ability to easily turn fantasy into reality but ultimately doing it for real is a step to far or isn't for them.
We have been let down 3 times in a row now by couples and single males on fab (meaning we have reverted mainly back to clubs) I'm pretty sure at least some of them were getting off on the fantasy and when the reality of actually doing it hit home they panicked and bailed.
Let's be fair it's one thing to fantasise about say taking part in a threesome with a couple you haven't met but it's totally different to actually having the nerve to do it in reality.
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