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By *lattank OP Man
over a year ago
pontypridd |
I just noticed I get quite a few views on my profile, but very few messages.
Is It that women don't message first and the look is to get you to message them? (Yes I know they may not be interested in me)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just noticed I get quite a few views on my profile, but very few messages.
Is It that women don't message first and the look is to get you to message them? (Yes I know they may not be interested in me)
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Believe me, the women looking at you is definitely NOT a signal for you to message them.
There would be a few thousand pissed off women on here!
The women like to look and peruse, as we do.
Just sit back and be patient. |
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By *lattank OP Man
over a year ago
pontypridd |
Yes I suppose so, it's the repeat lookers that I think confuse me.
I get some that look everyday, but never message.
It doesn't bother me, I know it's a crazy old place here for a lady, just thinking out loud. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Many of us look in stealth mode for the reason that we don't want a message after we view a profile.
They have a look to see if you are for them and message if so.
Messaging after someone has looked at you is a bit creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I suppose so, it's the repeat lookers that I think confuse me.
I get some that look everyday, but never message.
It doesn't bother me, I know it's a crazy old place here for a lady, just thinking out loud. "
Maybe they fancy you but aren't ready to make a move yet? |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Take it to mean whatever you want, can't see why anyone would be pissed off or find it creepy - it's only a message you're sending. If it's not welcome they'll just delete and block, if people stop messaging the whole site will grind to a halt. |
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