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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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I guess gay guys see straight men as being more masculine but we all know that’s an illusion. I have met straight guys who are not that masculine and gay guys who are strongly masculine. On here there are many guys who for one reason or another describe themselves as straight but have a physical interest in men. Perhaps they feel that in general they are straight but occasionally like to have some fun with guys. Everyone has to decide for themselves how they are best described. There is such a range of interest and behaviour that it can be difficult to categorise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I guess gay guys see straight men as being more masculine but we all know that’s an illusion. I have met straight guys who are not that masculine and gay guys who are strongly masculine. On here there are many guys who for one reason or another describe themselves as straight but have a physical interest in men. Perhaps they feel that in general they are straight but occasionally like to have some fun with guys. Everyone has to decide for themselves how they are best described. There is such a range of interest and behaviour that it can be difficult to categorise."
Yeah I get what you mean |
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More often than not, with straight guys they are often more direct and can be more open-minded and not as judgemental as another gay guy can to another. You will have some guys that like TV's, TS etc. but they would not try and have the same fun with a guy, which is a shame but then it's refreshing to meet a straight guy who like yourself, wants to have fun and to have great sex with another person. I have always been attracted to straight men, who can have fun with a gay guy, flirt, even have sex with and happily also seek female attention. Guys that are open-minded and willing to experiment are the types that I like and some will just want a blow job, empty their balls and be done, whereas others want to have a full massage, have their cocks edged til they cum.... I just want regular contact fwb and experience more |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"More often than not, with straight guys they are often more direct and can be more open-minded and not as judgemental as another gay guy can to another. You will have some guys that like TV's, TS etc. but they would not try and have the same fun with a guy, which is a shame but then it's refreshing to meet a straight guy who like yourself, wants to have fun and to have great sex with another person. I have always been attracted to straight men, who can have fun with a gay guy, flirt, even have sex with and happily also seek female attention. Guys that are open-minded and willing to experiment are the types that I like and some will just want a blow job, empty their balls and be done, whereas others want to have a full massage, have their cocks edged til they cum.... I just want regular contact fwb and experience more"
I agree with a lot you say and some of the straight guys I’ve met have the filthiest minds which suits me fine. Many straight guys who are in long term relationships are often bored and want more attention and to do something a bit different. Sometimes they have things that they’ve always wanted to try out. I’ve met guys who have never been rimmed before for example. So in general I like their open mindedness, filthiness and their horniness. They can become mates and buddies. In a few cases I think guys find out that it’s nog such a big deal to have fun with another guy and they may have waited a very long time to have sexual contact with a guy and to try stuff out. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"Wonderd the same. Thinks it's the challange tbf"
It’s bit always that much of a challenge - some guys are gagging to have a bit of man fun but don’t get the opportunity. If they try it and don’t like it then they haven’t lost anything. I’m a great believer in trying things out - no one should have regrets that they didn’t try this or that - life is too short |
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"I guess gay guys see straight men as being more masculine but we all know that’s an illusion. I have met straight guys who are not that masculine and gay guys who are strongly masculine."
As someone who is homosexual, this i find the best answer that fits my desire,at least (not sure about others).
It's not about straight or not. It's about masculinity.
If I can find a gay man who is masculine in all aspects, I may potentially be attracted to him.
I am not attracted to men who are weak and meek to my eyes, no matter how straight they are.
So, to me personally it's never about challenge  which i find a bit offensive.
So, to all the straight men, you can flatter yourself if you want but if you get an admirer from the same gender, think about your other qualities rather than just being straight. We are not that shallow. |
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"What is it about straight guys that makes them that much more attractive? Just wondering haha"
Can I even ask why your asking this question !!! Surely labels are so boring and old fashioned.. isn’t it if two peoples profiles match and it’s discreet and they are comfortable in what they are doing just sex.
Who needs labels and who needs to know....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess gay guys see straight men as being more masculine but we all know that’s an illusion. I have met straight guys who are not that masculine and gay guys who are strongly masculine.
As someone who is homosexual, this i find the best answer that fits my desire,at least (not sure about others).
It's not about straight or not. It's about masculinity.
If I can find a gay man who is masculine in all aspects, I may potentially be attracted to him.
I am not attracted to men who are weak and meek to my eyes, no matter how straight they are.
So, to me personally it's never about challenge which i find a bit offensive.
So, to all the straight men, you can flatter yourself if you want but if you get an admirer from the same gender, think about your other qualities rather than just being straight. We are not that shallow."
But you are being shallow in saying your not attracted to weak and meek men. How do you know that before you have met, just by their pictures... but I 100% agree with you about profiles be about masculine |
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But you are being shallow in saying your not attracted to weak and meek men. How do you know that before you have met, just by their pictures... but I 100% agree with you about profiles be about masculine "
Yes, maybe indeed I am.
And I agree that maybe I should put it as "who appear weak and meek to my eyes and observation".
However I make my decision for myself based on my observation. It won't be imposed on others.
So, people who might be, oops, sorry, who appear strong or meek in my eyes, may be weak or strong or whatever to others. In fact, it is in the eyes of the beholder.
Thank you for the correction.
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**reading back my initial post**
As much as I am shallow, I still don't make a decision to "like" someone just because they are "straight" but because of other qualities in them. As i pointed out earlier. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"It is like a challenge.
I am attracted to women who can't cum through anal"
It’s not always a challenge - with some guys it’s like pushing an open door - they just want the opportunity and away they go. It’s more about being in the right place at the right time |
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