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Married / Attached Men / Women - Hypothetical Question
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all after receiving a number of requests from Married / Attached Men I wanted to ask a hypothetical question.
What do you believe would happen if your partner found out you were cheating via fab and had got into your fab account seen your messages with people you had met and ultimately had their address and private pictures sent through the message system?
I appreciate everyone would react differently and some of it would be guess work as who knows exactly how people would react.
Do you think they would blame the people you played with if they were aware you were married / attached? Would they still blame those people if you had made out you were single?
Would they have the potential in a hurt and angry state to use the persons address and nude pictures against them?
What steps if any do you take to ensure fab never falls into your partners hands?
Again I'm not judging I'm just curious about what potentially could go wrong for all the parties involved.
We don't play with married men and I explained this to one the other day via fab messages. They then tried to see if I would lie to my wife and not tell her he was married. I had to then say we have a completely trusting relationship I would never lie to her and that she also has full access to fab and we both read / respond to messages. It just struck me that lying and deceit came so easily to the point of trying to get someone else to do it for his benefit.
Finally should people put they are in a relationship without thier partners knowledge on thier profile?
KJ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every permutation applies depending on the person who's cheated on either the guy finds out and physically assaults the other guy that he knows about or the woman finds out finds telephone number and rings the woman and gives her abuse that happened to a friend of mine, all the guys stuff chucked out on front lawn when he came home and locks changed, one woman who had just had a baby found out he was cheating with a woman he met doing school run when he got home from work she had gutted the flat took the baby and disappeared  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Every permutation applies depending on the person who's cheated on either the guy finds out and physically assaults the other guy that he knows about or the woman finds out finds telephone number and rings the woman and gives her abuse that happened to a friend of mine, all the guys stuff chucked out on front lawn when he came home and locks changed, one woman who had just had a baby found out he was cheating with a woman he met doing school run when he got home from work she had gutted the flat took the baby and disappeared "
Wow I can imagine more often that not once the cheated on find out it's usually a strong emotional reaction which can lead to them dealing with things I. A bad way for all involved.
I hadn't thought about the husband finding out he wife was cheating on fab. Imagine as a couple we meet a single female who says she was single then a week after the meet her vanilla hubby finds out goes bat shit cray and has our address |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every permutation applies depending on the person who's cheated on either the guy finds out and physically assaults the other guy that he knows about or the woman finds out finds telephone number and rings the woman and gives her abuse that happened to a friend of mine, all the guys stuff chucked out on front lawn when he came home and locks changed, one woman who had just had a baby found out he was cheating with a woman he met doing school run when he got home from work she had gutted the flat took the baby and disappeared
Wow I can imagine more often that not once the cheated on find out it's usually a strong emotional reaction which can lead to them dealing with things I. A bad way for all involved.
I hadn't thought about the husband finding out he wife was cheating on fab. Imagine as a couple we meet a single female who says she was single then a week after the meet her vanilla hubby finds out goes bat shit cray and has our address "
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"Hi all after receiving a number of requests from Married / Attached Men I wanted to ask a hypothetical question.
What do you believe would happen if your partner found out you were cheating via fab and had got into your fab account seen your messages with people you had met and ultimately had their address and private pictures sent through the message system?
I appreciate everyone would react differently and some of it would be guess work as who knows exactly how people would react.
Do you think they would blame the people you played with if they were aware you were married / attached? Would they still blame those people if you had made out you were single?
Would they have the potential in a hurt and angry state to use the persons address and nude pictures against them?
What steps if any do you take to ensure fab never falls into your partners hands?
Again I'm not judging I'm just curious about what potentially could go wrong for all the parties involved.
We don't play with married men and I explained this to one the other day via fab messages. They then tried to see if I would lie to my wife and not tell her he was married. I had to then say we have a completely trusting relationship I would never lie to her and that she also has full access to fab and we both read / respond to messages. It just struck me that lying and deceit came so easily to the point of trying to get someone else to do it for his benefit.
Finally should people put they are in a relationship without thier partners knowledge on thier profile?
KJ x"
Everyone's situation is different, but I don't hide the fact I'm married if someone asks. My wife knows I "play" with other people and has even met some of my friends on occasion. Neither of us wants a divorce and she doesn't want sex and hasn't done for a number of years so no problem lurking for outside contacts. But I appreciate some wouldn't want to play which is as much their right as mine is, to play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just to clarify my post was specifically about people who are cheating and are on fab playing with others without thier partners knowledge and consent.
If your partners aware and happy for you to play then it's really no different to say a couple on fab where the wife and husband play separately x
We won't get involved with people cheating but we will meet people who have their partners consent.
KJ x
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