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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have a meeting with two guys offered to me , but would like a lady to accompany me not necessarily to join it but for my safety it will take place in north midlands area. MALES DO NOT POST it is already arranged and do NOT need male assistance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a meeting with two guys offered to me , but would like a lady to accompany me not necessarily to join it but for my safety it will take place in north midlands area. MALES DO NOT POST it is already arranged and do NOT need male assistance"
lol I posted so there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have a meeting with two guys offered to me , but would like a lady to accompany me not necessarily to join it but for my safety it will take place in north midlands area. MALES DO NOT POST it is already arranged and do NOT need male assistance"
If you feel so unsafe you have to ask on the forum for a female chaperone, then you shouldn't be doing the meet. If you are unsafe against 2 random strangers, then so is the female chaperone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have a meeting with two guys offered to me , but would like a lady to accompany me not necessarily to join it but for my safety it will take place in north midlands area. MALES DO NOT POST it is already arranged and do NOT need male assistance
If you feel so unsafe you have to ask on the forum for a female chaperone, then you shouldn't be doing the meet. If you are unsafe against 2 random strangers, then so is the female chaperone x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have a meeting with two guys offered to me , but would like a lady to accompany me not necessarily to join it but for my safety it will take place in north midlands area. MALES DO NOT POST it is already arranged and do NOT need male assistance
If you feel so unsafe you have to ask on the forum for a female chaperone, then you shouldn't be doing the meet. If you are unsafe against 2 random strangers, then so is the female chaperone x"
Against 3 strangers and one of them asking with an hidden profile...  |
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It's worthwhile talking it over with someone, even if they don't join you. That way anything that may seem unusual or possibly not as fully safe, may get highlighted and perhaps avoided too. There's obviously some risk involved when we meet anyone, so minimising the potential is always good. You could also have someone knowing where you are and who you're meeting, with check-ins to ensure all's good, as another back-up plan.
As some have suggested, a venue where there is some security could work in your favour: if you have flexibility over when/where to some extent. I like places where people have been subject to some CCTV, so that they're not fully anonymous to the world too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is probably littered with ‘horror stories’, happening like this.
Asking for another female, to accompany you, sounds to me (Vamp), like you are hoping to snare another woman, into a bit of a ‘shag fest’.
What happens when you turn up at the venue, and, are suddenly surrounded by a lot more guys than you agreed to?
And, before anyone asks, yes, has happened to us...agreed to attend a party with another m/f couple. When we got there, we noticed, before entering the venue, that there were around 16 guys already there. Fortunately, we just walked away.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging is probably littered with ‘horror stories’, happening like this.
Asking for another female, to accompany you, sounds to me (Vamp), like you are hoping to snare another woman, into a bit of a ‘shag fest’.
What happens when you turn up at the venue, and, are suddenly surrounded by a lot more guys than you agreed to?
And, before anyone asks, yes, has happened to us...agreed to attend a party with another m/f couple. When we got there, we noticed, before entering the venue, that there were around 16 guys already there. Fortunately, we just walked away...."
That happened to a lady on here too. She had arranged to meet a man in a hotel. When she got to the room the door was ajar and there were loads of men inside. Thankfully she got away without them seeing her.
She thinks this one man had arranged a gangbang without her knowledge. Scary stuff. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We always find clubs safer for meetings like this. Most allow you to play either in public or in private, and there are always staff and customers around to ensure people behave.
Personally, I don't think the OP's story hangs together, but I always err on the side of caution |
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