Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me |
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"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?
But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict."
Possibly ,sometimes I can’t leave quick enough |
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Do you feel it’s wrong ?
Dirty or immoral ?
Did you do things that embarrassed you ?
Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.
There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness . |
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"Do you feel it’s wrong ?
Dirty or immoral ?
Did you do things that embarrassed you ?
Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.
There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness ."
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No I’m not embarrassed or feel I’ve done anything wrong. I just can’t get away quick enough from the guys after I’ve had sex |
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I think there is a difference between having sex with someone you have no attachment to, and having sex with someone you are in a loving relationship with. Sometimes you just need that sexual release, but other times you just need someone to hold you, and you can's always get that from the same person. |
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"Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me "
Obviously it’s your choice, but I hope you’re polite about it / explain to the guy a little bit what’s going on. Most men have feelings too. |
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"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?
But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict."
This is exactly me. I don't hang around for cuddles afterwards. I like to know I'm keeping the emotional side separate. |
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"Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me "
Everyone is different and I suppose you are making sure it's just sex and no more than that.
I enjoy the cuddles afterwards but each to their own  |
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"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?
But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict.
This is exactly me. I don't hang around for cuddles afterwards. I like to know I'm keeping the emotional side separate. "
Sex is emotional
Lots and lots of emotions run through my mind euphoria and lust to name a few
You need it for any connection to take place
Whether you like to cuddle or not |
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As a woman i would feel bad if a man got up and left straight after. I would feel that maybe he couldnt get away fast enough and i would feel i had done something wrong. But thats just my opinion |
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Was it a one off meet? If so maybe thats why, i dont do one offs or meets without a good connection... it just feels empty regardles how good the sex is the kissing has no soul just empty & worthless.
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"Do you feel it’s wrong ?
Dirty or immoral ?
Did you do things that embarrassed you ?
Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.
There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness ..
No I’m not embarrassed or feel I’ve done anything wrong. I just can’t get away quick enough from the guys after I’ve had sex"
Why do you think you feel that way OP? |
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"You just ain’t getting fucked properly!"
Bollocks!! I used to feel like this when I used to play with single men as a single fem. I honestly just wanted to fuck them and then leave. I had no interest in them at all after that, however with females I was different. Mr R is the first man that I feel differently about, and have an emotional attachment to. So it may just be where you are in your swinging journey. Nowt wrong with it, enjoy the sex how you want to and don't believe the crap that some men sprout on here. If you want more that is your choice. |
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"You just ain’t getting fucked properly!
Bollocks!! I used to feel like this when I used to play with single men as a single fem. I honestly just wanted to fuck them and then leave. I had no interest in them at all after that, however with females I was different. Mr R is the first man that I feel differently about, and have an emotional attachment to. So it may just be where you are in your swinging journey. Nowt wrong with it, enjoy the sex how you want to and don't believe the crap that some men sprout on here. If you want more that is your choice."
When I finished fucking anyone, it’s hot and sweaty cuddles for a sec, some more kissing, sucking...
then shower, and go again....
If it’s just a cold fuck, might as well just fuck anywhere!
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