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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Subs are the ones in charge .... remember that when some would be "Dom" has ago  "
This. Like anything else, Consent is King (or queen )
The Dom(me) may think they make the rules but the sub is the one that agrees to them and ultimately if the sub says no, then the answer is no.
A good Dom(me) finds out what the sub wants and it is the sub who sets the limits on what their relationship is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ohhh, I did not know that! I’m so innocent   .
So female domne
Male Dom.
I know everyone is different, but do you kiss?
Whar else? I really have no clue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well you set your own rules and limits as a sub. Hence why technically you are the one in charge, because the Dom/Domme agrees not to break them.
I kiss, I've no issue with that but one rule of mine is "you must not *hoke me with an object such as a rope or belt".
As you explore you will find things you do and don't like. However you must never be afraid to speak up when you are no longer enjoying.
You'll sort of find your own rules and such as you go along. |
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"Ohhh, I did not know that! I’m so innocent .
So female domne
Male Dom.
I know everyone is different, but do you kiss?
Whar else? I really have no clue"
You can do anything you both want to do. My Dom is my boyfriend so we definitely kiss. |
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"Kissing seems to loveydovey in that circumstance if you know what I mean? "
Suppose it depends what kind of sub/Dom relationship you want.
For me being a sub isn't about the coldness or lack of passion. If anything it's the opposite, it's about relinquishing control and giving complete trust to another person. I find it extremely intimate so kissing becomes a part of it. My Dom is there to yes get their sexual kicks, me get mine, but they are also there to protect me from harm and care for my welfare during the time we have together.
A sub/Dom relationship is one of the most trusting one you'll find. |
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"Tell me about your experiences? The thought of being a sub makes me very horny. I’d like to know more. "
My 2nd time of being sub, actual 1st time with a genuine Master happened in your area. I was staying with my Uncle, who had a newsagents in Heysham, and he told me one day that gay guys used to keep their money in the plastic money bags you get from the bank. So a local guy came in, he always came in, and he got his money out of a money bag. Few days after and I was walking along the prom and saw him. I just had to ask him. He replied "well how would you ever find out?" So we got talking. 4 days later he came back into the shop to buy condoms, baby oil and stockings. He looked at me a certain way. I made my excuses and went outside. He told me that I could go to his place sometime. Tomorrow was the day. I went. He had chosen stuff for me to wear. I left sore and satisfied. |
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