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how have men in relationships felt when some other guy fucked there girlfriend, wife etc on a mmf ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mark says " Proud.. and horny" though i dont understand the proud "
the pride bit is easy, he has a trophy, he adores u and takes pride in guys desireing you (excuse the spelling I'm in a rush) its a guy thing, but rather than question it enjoy it, we're special girls  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mark says " Proud.. and horny" though i dont understand the proud the pride bit is easy, he has a trophy, he adores u and takes pride in guys desireing you (excuse the spelling I'm in a rush) its a guy thing, but rather than question it enjoy it, we're special girls x"
I dont question it.. i just dont understand it lol and i know i am very special  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a watcher and have absolutely no interest in watching my wife with another guy.
I don't mind participating but I'm not into watching.
When we first started out here, I too shared the fantasy of wanting to see Kate with another guy, but when it actually happened, I didn't get the feeling I was expecting.
I'm not jealous, don't feel inadequate or any other "downer" you might describe, it's just simply that I don't find it a turn on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if men felt left out of feel like he is doing something less than others they should not be swinging."
I still think its a playgound thing, marbles/conkers type senario, Tom Brown school days for example, a male struting his stuff, his school chums lapping it up (fuk me this has gone deep lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if men felt left out of feel like he is doing something less than others they should not be swinging.I still think its a playgound thing, marbles/conkers type senario, Tom Brown school days for example, a male struting his stuff, his school chums lapping it up (fuk me this has gone deep lol) "
I bet you say that to all the boys lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My master has written me many lovely letters about how amazingly sexy he finds watching me with others, But sharing me with him there is a step up...
Our favourite thing at the moment is to have me over my masters knee as if for spanking... And then another guy fucks me... Normally one in my mouth to . My master can touch.. see close up and feel me... It's so erotic and sensual. I of course can feel how aroused master is.
Master is proud, horny and says he looks at me and feels so happy... Although he then has to take me after and we tend not to do this with others there as on more than one occasion we have lost ourselves and basically forgotten about them. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet once with a couple. The male quite clearly did not enjoy or want to be into swinging at all. Going along with the flow just to please his nympho wife I could sense his pain and sorrow.
Having been there at there house I was involved then and couldnt really back out. Went through the motions and to be honest she really was a decent looking girl who loved fun. Every time I looked round tho this guy is watching pretending to look interested and take photos, but I could just tell from his eyes that inside he was crushed.
I couldnt think of nothing else all the way home but had to tell my self look your single you have done nothing wrong there marraige is not your problem.
I never met them again or made contact with them. Hope he is ok tho lol |
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"Did the OP forget they were on a swinging site?"
i thought this was a site for married men to cheat judgin gfrom the forums at the minute 
Op kev feels very horny, me coming is one of his favourite sights in the world.  |
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Op kev feels very horny, me coming is one of his favourite sights in the world. "
I should imagine it is! Fantastic I should think.
I hope the OP was just asking because he wanted to know, from my experience watching my ex with another, is just brilliant, watching her orgasm is the best and hornyist thing.
It was this that got my voyeuristically side going. Don't get me wrong I love giving women orgasms myself as well, but being there is great as well watching others.
Hope this explains a little.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we bin married 24 years and we still have good sex. mutual trust if you dont have that you shouldnt be on here. i luv wayching harry espec with a tv. he luvs watching me. after a meet we go home and have great sex. we like so many couples are lucky we have partners who luv swinging and there would be more guilt if we were to cheat on each other... |
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So far we've only gone as far as C giving another guy a bj. But it was great fun to watch as she was enjoying herslef and doing something she wanted to.
Its definatel not about not being able to do this that or the other. We do it because we like to watch the other half being pleasured and pleasing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always felt top notch after seeing Mrs R get a good seeing to on a meet.
But, after all, thats why we do it, to see each other achieve mutual satisfaction.
I think if either partner feels anything less than 100% comfortable, then perhaps they need to re-evaluate their swinging lifestyle. Maybe it isn't for them ? |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I've always felt top notch after seeing Mrs R get a good seeing to on a meet.
But, after all, thats why we do it, to see each other achieve mutual satisfaction.
I think if either partner feels anything less than 100% comfortable, then perhaps they need to re-evaluate their swinging lifestyle. Maybe it isn't for them ?"
Totally agree with this comment. |
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We are fairly new to swinging, but agree with the above post. We are here to enjoy all the fun that we can. It is also a great turn-on for both of us seeing the other get pleasure and we have our fun when we go to bed at the end of the day and discuss whats happened  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we bin married 24 years and we still have good sex. mutual trust if you dont have that you shouldnt be on here. i luv wayching harry espec with a tv. he luvs watching me. after a meet we go home and have great sex. we like so many couples are lucky we have partners who luv swinging and there would be more guilt if we were to cheat on each other..."
 COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I know my man is far from 'inadequate' as it seems the OP may be thinking (even though post has been removed).
My husband loves to see me playing with another man ....and I love playing in front of him, because, it's very nice!!!! ....and I know how hot and horny our 'claim back' sex will be later (sometimes, very emotional ....which is beautiful, I have to say). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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played with couples for years did not really get it, then became a couple got it when we left a club we were more in love and had better sex together by ourselves in away take the piss out of singles without them realising.
By the way playing on here as a single so I understand couples more now |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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I don’t think watching your wife/partner with others has anything to do with inadequacies! Think about it this way.. We have been married for a very long time and until we started swinging, we only saw each other from close up when having sex (or should that be sexing?).. It throws a whole new perspective on it when you can watch what your partner looks like in the throws of passion, but from a distance!
Mind you, that is why a lot of single guys are disappointed with sites like this and leave. They assume that we swinger men are lacking in some way if we want singles to play with us as a couple.. In my experience, nothing is further from the truth..
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