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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol. I’ve heard of similar things from others ‘I’m in my pyjamas’, ‘I’m waiting to hear from this really hot woman’ etc. Not sure whether it’s a passive aggressive way of saying ‘no thanks’ or they are just idiots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol. I’ve heard of similar things from others ‘I’m in my pyjamas’, ‘I’m waiting to hear from this really hot woman’ etc. Not sure whether it’s a passive aggressive way of saying ‘no thanks’ or they are just idiots."
If it's after 8pm the chances are I might be in my pjs  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean yeah ok life happens but when you’ve been messaging for a while.
Yes we are a priority, having sex with me isn’t a given. Don’t devalue yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean yeah ok life happens but when you’ve been messaging for a while.
Yes we are a priority, having sex with me isn’t a given. Don’t devalue yourself. "
Get over yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??
Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit? 
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Honestly I think I’ve missed it?? But it’s nothing to do with couples or whatever was implied. Not from my perspective at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Maybe golf is their priority.
No big deal.
Move on to the next. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
Maybe golf is their priority.
No big deal.
Move on to the next."
Good weather for golf is rarer than the opportunity for sex!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps? |
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Just out of curiosity- if they went to golf what did he shoot?
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Obviously confused as to what "playing a round" referred to. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps? "
But who in their right mind....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps?
But who in their right mind....! "
Someone who likes golf obviously |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps? "
No ego is fine. He did all the chasing and then suggested the night. We agreed then golf turned up.
Just disappointed as it’d been a while since we last swung. This was us trying to get back into it. So ego is fine, just motivation for the lifestyle is knocked.
Oh well, moan over, next. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps?
No ego is fine. He did all the chasing and then suggested the night. We agreed then golf turned up.
Just disappointed as it’d been a while since we last swung. This was us trying to get back into it. So ego is fine, just motivation for the lifestyle is knocked.
Oh well, moan over, next. "
hmm, thought it was your meet invite. |
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"I must be missing something here completely!!!
Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with? "
Yes, you are meant to treat yourself with respect and value who you have sex with, but don't expect others to have as higher value of you as you do. This person obviously thinks playing golf is preferable. |
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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I would have found it funny and insulting in equal parts. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I must be missing something here completely!!!
Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with?
Yes, you are meant to treat yourself with respect and value who you have sex with, but don't expect others to have as higher value of you as you do. This person obviously thinks playing golf is preferable."
Ouch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I actually race motorbikes as another hobby. It's a very time consuming sport as you leave on a Thursday, practice all day Friday, then race Saturday and Sunday.
You arrive home late Sunday night, have to go back to work on Monday and it takes the next two days to get over the excitement and tiredness.
I spend most of my life deciding whether to have sex with someone or prepare /fix the bike for the next race meeting.
I never ever tell the other person, sorry I can't make it as I'm playing with my bike ?? |
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Brings a new meaning to the expression 'Rain stopped play'...
....in my case, rain may also prevent me from meeting - because if it's raining, my wife doesn't go out, meaning I can't go out to play...  |
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person "
And you’re in Scotland, the home of golf.... I’m appalled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person
And you’re in Scotland, the home of golf.... I’m appalled "
Dosent stop it from being boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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lol see he's got his priorities right, golf then sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WTF who the hell would rather hit a ball with a stick than have sax ! "
Lots of people. There are many things I would prefer to do than sex. If it includes music then that’s my priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex isn't the be all and end all for many especially if you're getting it regularly, why you think so many get let down on meets, it's a need but not a priority  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
If I had a round of golf planned and a meet was offered when I already had plans I'd say no but if the golf is called off I will be available. What's wrong with that? I can see the problem if a meet was planned but they chose golf, that's different. |
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If he said this well in advance, no, you are not a priority, unless you and he are close friends who give up absolutely everything for each other. He has vanilla plans, and they are dependent on the weather. The meeting with you is dependent on his vanilla plan. If you are upset by this, find someone more desperate. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"If I had a round of golf planned and a meet was offered when I already had plans I'd say no but if the golf is called off I will be available. What's wrong with that? I can see the problem if a meet was planned but they chose golf, that's different."
Very logical way of putting it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Wow...... this guy really loves golf! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple message me quite late a couple of weeks ago.
They were on holiday, where I live.
I'm not looking for solo meets.
Frankly, I wish I'd come up with something that amusing.
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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Lol, did that really happen? My ghast is flabbered!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Absolutely. Block move on. |
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"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life."
So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His answer was meant to read.
"I have a prior engagement at a golf event but if it is called off due to bad weather, then I'll be free".
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A fair point. It really is all in how he worded it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His answer was meant to read.
"I have a prior engagement at a golf event but if it is called off due to bad weather, then I'll be free".
A fair point. It really is all in how he worded it."
exactly the golfer is venerated |
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"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life.
So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong "
Hm. People have different priorities. I can think of a good few things I would do rather than have sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life.
So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong "
it was a prior commitment, part of a team |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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Tee times are in high demand and short supply, it's the same as saying 'sorry I have plans then' |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
"Lol. I’ve heard of similar things from others ‘I’m in my pyjamas’, ‘I’m waiting to hear from this really hot woman’ etc. Not sure whether it’s a passive aggressive way of saying ‘no thanks’ or they are just idiots.
If it's after 8pm the chances are I might be in my pjs "
But that's not a no, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be missing something here completely!!!
Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with?
Yes, you are meant to treat yourself with respect and value who you have sex with, but don't expect others to have as higher value of you as you do. This person obviously thinks playing golf is preferable."
Painful truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funniest thread for a while, loads saying people have other priorities, vanilla things to do etc etc, whilst if it happened to some of them they’d sh1t a brick and moan like hell, our two pennies worth, if they weren’t that keen just move on and forget about it x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
Woman says to a couple:
I'm invited to a birthday party, it depends if it's good or not.
Man says to a couple:
I'm meant to be golfing, it depends on the weather.
Responses to situations 1 & 2.
1. Okay lets rearrange, text us later, our party will be better or come around anyway.
2. Livid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.
We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.
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This is the best thing I've read today |
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