They're "broad" categories I guess?
Also, if you considered yourself curvey but not beautiful, can you technically become a BBW by putting on a few pounds?
Or would you have to be just a BW?
Maybe over thinking this now?  eople should just go with whatever they feel, after all it's just a category and people are just going to look at their pics and hopefully read their profile, then make their own opinion.
That said, I'd like to be referred to as a QHMRFDB (quite handsome man with reasonably fit Dad bod. | |
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Honestly I don't know. All I know is I like bigger women. If people want to catigorise them self thats fine, all I know is I like what I like and not going women in boxes. Plus on a person note I know so comfortable with categorising women as bbw (I know many are and self identify as such which is fine). But for me I just find it a just dehumanises, comodifies and is also a little bit patronising. But that that my personal feeling, I have no problem with people using it if they want. But the way I see things is you are a woman, you are who you are and got what you have. Awesomeness (or not) has little to do with size or body shape. |
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Boxes of descriptions are only one person's perspective, I don't usually use them as an indicator of the person or whether I would like them. Interests and smoking are more of a choice indicator, for me the body is an exploration of enjoyment no matter what label people give themselves. Mr  |
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We both thought I fitted the curvy description when we joined, I'm neither chunky nor BBW however it soon became clear that on Fab the three mean the same thing. Use whatever description you want some will agree with it and some won't, the most important thing is that you're happy with it |
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Embrace the terms you want to. My experience here as up to an 18/20 and currently a 14/16 is that people put you in whatever category they want to.
I chose curvy when I joined because it sounded nicer than large. I'm keeping it because my body curves. I have pictures and people can/do draw their own conclusions. |
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"Ive been called bbw....im not im just fat with curves....i think you should call yourself what you want theres always someone who wont agree"
That's what I say about myself |
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By *storiaCouple
over a year ago
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How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area. |
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"How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area. "
This is something I'm dealing with too, i don't want to turn up to a bbw night to be told I'm not... My pictures do not make me large, however at 5 ft 7 and a solid size 16 I am 'big' in person.
I have tagged bbw on some of my pics and have had people message to tell me I'm not bbw so shouldn't tag it.
Haha I refer to myself as chunky, it really doesn't bother me, I am who I am.. However I prefer to play with women that are of similar size to me and upwards, purely for my own silly comfort, so I go for those in the BBW catagory.. Its very confusing ha
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By *ickawitchCouple
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"This is something I'm dealing with too, i don't want to turn up to a bbw night to be told I'm not... My pictures do not make me large, however at 5 ft 7 and a solid size 16 I am 'big' in person.
I have tagged bbw on some of my pics and have had people message to tell me I'm not bbw so shouldn't tag it.
Haha I refer to myself as chunky, it really doesn't bother me, I am who I am.. However I prefer to play with women that are of similar size to me and upwards, purely for my own silly comfort, so I go for those in the BBW catagory.. Its very confusing ha
L x"
I think you can go to a BBW night no matter what size you are - no one is going to stop you at the door and say you aren’t big enough. As you prefer to play with women who are big then you have just as much right to be there as anyone else. Go for it and enjoy yourself x |
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"How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area. "
The bbw curvy girl events have all ladies from a size 10-12 upwards tbh they never resrrict any size |
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"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "
She is always BBW to me, I love women with curves |
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"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "
I didn't get to read your opening post as I was too busy looking at that picture |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't get to read your opening post as I was too busy looking at that picture
Haha I blush, why thank you  not often I have a face pic public.
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Well please do make more public... Or feel free to inbox me some more. They would be greatly appreciated x |
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"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "
Everybody will have a different opinion. For me, a BBW is size 20+ A woman should have curves I find women size 14 - 18 very sexy. |
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"Ive been called bbw....im not im just fat with curves....i think you should call yourself what you want theres always someone who wont agree"
You have a very sexy body. |
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