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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
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Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t. |
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"Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t."
Yup. Been quite good too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No way. Without connection we are just animals. "
Darn those animalistic impulses!
Has to be a connection/banter. Things in common, similar interests etc need chemistry. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sex without chemistry or interaction, no. If I'd been speaking online to someone for a bit and we fucked in some sort of roleplay where we didn't talk, yes. But otherwise, it's not really for me. I like a good conversation with people and enjoy the socialising side a lot, for me that's almost as important as the sex. |
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Depend on what you mean by connection, it takes very little for me to get a hard-on, so can have sex without whatever you mean without connection.
Sure, I have in the past, if you look fit and healthy I'm sure I will in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex without chemistry or interaction, no. If I'd been speaking online to someone for a bit and we fucked in some sort of roleplay where we didn't talk, yes. But otherwise, it's not really for me. I like a good conversation with people and enjoy the socialising side a lot, for me that's almost as important as the sex."
Spot on! |
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
Crawley |
"So, what about gangbangs?"
Good point, not knocking them but never been for me, it’s really the smiling, saying hi, kissing. Perhaps it’s silly but it’s kind of making love even if it’s just actually having sex with a stranger. It’s making love to a stranger! Intimacy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t."
Erm defo not for me but each to their own maybe that’s where I go wrong  |
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
Crawley |
"Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t.
Erm defo not for me but each to their own maybe that’s where I go wrong "
No your not wrong! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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No whilst it starts with physical attraction we have to also be stimulated by their mind, personality call it whatever. If we don't have that then no matter how good they look we wouldn't have sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had fuck and goes and have no problem with them, usually build up some kind of fun rapport while fucking even if it's a quickie though. So what can start out as no connection usually ends with atleast a fun shag! |
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I do lots of fuck and go meets,I like the whole stranger thing I never get bored, guys let me in and use me and I go some, don’t even talk other than what they want me to do, obviously some meets are more memorable than others the connection is just the sex bit for me and guys using me |
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I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word. "
he might have kept his door open from then on even in nights.. did you check that house anytime again? lols  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Not on a 1:1 meet. I need banter, loads of kissing and cuddling before fucking
On group sex meets / GBs yes absolutely. Sometimes I don't even know who's fucking me or cleaning me out, but then the whole atmosphere is so charged I'm having orgasm after orgasm
I've never done the "I'm blindfolded come fuck me" thing on my own (don't know if any women do that) but have in a group scenario but again, that's group sex not 1:1 |
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"Not on a 1:1 meet. I need banter, loads of kissing and cuddling before fucking
On group sex meets / GBs yes absolutely. Sometimes I don't even know who's fucking me or cleaning me out, but then the whole atmosphere is so charged I'm having orgasm after orgasm
I've never done the "I'm blindfolded come fuck me" thing on my own (don't know if any women do that) but have in a group scenario but again, that's group sex not 1:1"
This  1 to 1 there has to be a connection but in a group environment it is more just animal instinct and pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely need a connection before sex. However there is one exception, and that's if not a word is spoken, then I can do it then too, easily. I think it's got something to do with mystery. If I don't even know what their voice sounds like, that's kinky and intriguing to me.
My mental/sexual block happens when there's been a bit of interaction, but there's not a connection. That's why I really don't like one night stands.
Basically, I can have sex in an all-or-nothing scenario, but not an in-between one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All men, wouldn't care if it came to it, sex is sex. We all have needs. But without a connection you'll have sex and once you're done it will become awkward, you would want them to leave straight after. Having a connection makes it more comfortable and it means after you won't want them out the house and will actually want to speak and take care of them |
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It's interesting that nearly everyone has said that enjoyable sex is only possible with physical attraction and mental connection but on another thread where a couple have stated what they require for such a connection, there are several posts implying that they're asking too much. |
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By *ossdinCouple
over a year ago
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word. "
I rather like that idea, any women want to indulge? |
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I can, don't really need any connection and just need attraction and the drive to want sex.
Despite this approaching me only for sex is usually a put off. Bit of banter first,letme know i'm gonna enjoy it too and i'm happy. |
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I never used to think so. But one night me and my partner were in a club having sex in one of the private rooms. The door was unlocked. A couple walked in and gestured was it ok, we welcomed them in. We had never seen this couple before. We didn't really talk (Don't think they spoke much English) it just all sort of happen and we were all playing together. It was hot and everyone enjoyed them self. Then when things came to a natural conclusion they simply said thank you, good bye and left. Maybe that was the exception that proved the rule? It definitely challenged our perception. Or many there was an unspoken instant connection? I don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never used to think so. But one night me and my partner were in a club having sex in one of the private rooms. The door was unlocked. A couple walked in and gestured was it ok, we welcomed them in. We had never seen this couple before. We didn't really talk (Don't think they spoke much English) it just all sort of happen and we were all playing together. It was hot and everyone enjoyed them self. Then when things came to a natural conclusion they simply said thank you, good bye and left. Maybe that was the exception that proved the rule? It definitely challenged our perception. Or many there was an unspoken instant connection? I don't know."
it was like being at Woodstock...... Heaven
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
Crawley |
"It's interesting that nearly everyone has said that enjoyable sex is only possible with physical attraction and mental connection but on another thread where a couple have stated what they require for such a connection, there are several posts implying that they're asking too much."
Mmm dyou think maybe people say what they think sounds good? |
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
Crawley |
"All men, wouldn't care if it came to it, sex is sex. We all have needs. But without a connection you'll have sex and once you're done it will become awkward, you would want them to leave straight after. Having a connection makes it more comfortable and it means after you won't want them out the house and will actually want to speak and take care of them "
Sorry no, not all men. |
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"It's interesting that nearly everyone has said that enjoyable sex is only possible with physical attraction and mental connection but on another thread where a couple have stated what they require for such a connection, there are several posts implying that they're asking too much.
Mmm dyou think maybe people say what they think sounds good?"
To a large extent yes. There is also a culture on fab that rewards low self esteem in women and derides anyone who displays what's perceived as a good opinion of themselves. This leads to the contradiction displayed in the two threads I mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It would be awkward and unsatisfying I think... I've played out roles in similar scenarios but I knew the person... And tbf even those didn't really get my blood pumping |
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word. "
That sounds fantastic . As long as you get the right house! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to make love to the ladies I engage with, without being in love with them. I find that the erotic bit. So for me it's a no I need a connection. Mr  |
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word.
That sounds fantastic . As long as you get the right house! "
 imagine the surprise of a guy in the wrong house laying on the floor relaxing after yoga |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had one meet where only two messages were swapped they turned up total meet was around 45 minutes was fun was a single man probably wouldn't do it with couple there definitely needs to be chemistry in that situation |
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word.
That sounds fantastic . As long as you get the right house!
imagine the surprise of a guy in the wrong house laying on the floor relaxing after yoga"
I may try this tonight ... I’ll let you know how I get on ! I may be gone some time |
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word.
That sounds fantastic . As long as you get the right house!
imagine the surprise of a guy in the wrong house laying on the floor relaxing after yoga
I may try this tonight ... I’ll let you know how I get on ! I may be gone some time "
Take snacks |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t."
I most certainly can, and I get an extra kick out of it. We swing mainly in clubs where I have the choice of one or several guys at a time, and with the exception of one or two that have become friends, they are generally totally anonymous. For us it is what swinging is all about - we have all the connection we need with our vanilla friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That sounds dire!
Why? We are here to fulfill our sexual fantasies, not to date."
All right - this sounds dire TO ME. Personally I don't have any sexual fantasies to fulfil, and am not here to date either. People are here for lots of different reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did it. Really sexy I thought. Walked in through his unlocked door. He was lying on the floor. I was wearing a dress and no knickers. I sat on his face and he gave me oral till I came. I walked out of the house. Neither of us said a word. "
While sex when you really connect with someone is very intimate and intense, this is definitely a bucket list item. Strips away everything to pure sex - somehow powerfully erotic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my favourite things is to facial women I have never met before in outdoor locations, ideally minimum to no conversation, just instruct them to kneel and hold their face back ready to accept my cum. |
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"That sounds dire! "
I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex "
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences "
The experience is neither cold nor soulless. You are possibly missing the fact it can be very different for couples compared to single. Why would a woman in a very long term loving relationship want "a connection" with other men? |
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences "
I've never found them to be either cold or soulless.. quite the oppposite |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences
The experience is neither cold nor soulless. You are possibly missing the fact it can be very different for couples compared to single. Why would a woman in a very long term loving relationship want "a connection" with other men?"
Why not?? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences
The experience is neither cold nor soulless. You are possibly missing the fact it can be very different for couples compared to single. Why would a woman in a very long term loving relationship want "a connection" with other men?
Why not?? "
Because for many couples their partner gives them all the connection they need. Women don't have an emotional connection with their vibrators, but they still get a hell if a lot of sexual pleasure from them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way. Without connection we are just animals. "
Even most animals (larger mammals) at least usually face each other up a little and a bit of a sniff first! |
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences
The experience is neither cold nor soulless. You are possibly missing the fact it can be very different for couples compared to single. Why would a woman in a very long term loving relationship want "a connection" with other men?
Why not??
Because for many couples their partner gives them all the connection they need. Women don't have an emotional connection with their vibrators, but they still get a hell if a lot of sexual pleasure from them."
this we don't need any to feel anything we have had meets where we have never kissed or even swapped first names were all fun in different ways |
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There's not a hierarchy(although sometimes it appears that there is) according to who and how you meet. If the people you have sex with want the same as you it's got the potential to be good whether you have a deep or superficial connection |
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"That sounds dire! I've done it many many times and had fantastic sex. In fact one of my best experiences I was blindfolded throughout and it was so sexy.
I often have fun with guys I have no connection other than pure lust and wanting sex
Good for you, but not my thing at all. I am not into cold, soulless experiences
The experience is neither cold nor soulless. You are possibly missing the fact it can be very different for couples compared to single. Why would a woman in a very long term loving relationship want "a connection" with other men?
Why not??
Because for many couples their partner gives them all the connection they need. Women don't have an emotional connection with their vibrators, but they still get a hell if a lot of sexual pleasure from them."
Absolutely right. Anyone on here with a long term partner (they like) either as a couple or as fab single has all the connection and emotional nurishmemt they need from their non fab life. All you need is pure sexual attraction on here to enjoy yourself.
If you are looking for more of a connection on here fair enough but not everyone needs it or wants it. |
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"Hay just been on a meet, a mumbled hello clothes off, “ you gonna fuck me” earlier I was chatting in Revenge with a guy about how people in saunas not talking! So it’s both sexes.
Can you have sex without interaction?
In case your interested I can’t."
If you're in a club or even on the nudist beach and a sexual act is taking place that causes your penis to point upwards I'm sure sex without interaction could take place |
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I couldn’t literally not speak to the person but when I meet with a guy for a threesome it’s just sex, I’m not really into the whole let’s have a social first, we lead busy lives, we know what we are here for etc
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By (user no longer on site)
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Connection for one to one or going to a club together. No connection needed for heat of the moment, grab-a-passing Male to join in group sex in a club. Can’t really do the latter without the former though usually.
I can see how this would be very different for couples. |
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