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Whats the safest way to have anal ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone, never had anal before and my
gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks |
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Maybe start with your thumb and work your way up, with lots of lube 
Also even though its nice to go from one hole to the other be careful as the germs in your anus are not suppose to go into the pussy, and can cause cystitus or other infections
Relax and Enjoy xxx |
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As many have already said - lots of lube, take it easy and toys made for the purpose can be a good introduction ......
As to being a giver - whats sauce for the goose ! |
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Her sphincter will contract the moment you try to push anything into it so make sure you use PLENTY of lube and slowly push your bell end in and then withdraw completely. This will give her anus a little stretch and allow it to relax again. More lube and then try again and she should be more relaxed because she's experienced the feeling of entry now. Push in further but go slow. About 4 inches in the anal tract turns slightly so it might feel like you can't go further. All you have to do is change the angle of your penis until you feel it go past the point of resistance and she'll feel it too. I'd be surprised if she doesn't mention it tbh. Once you've got that far it should be more pleasurable for her, and certainly for you. Go slow, allow her to find your rhythym and take your cue from her. Good luck. |
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Make sure she has plenty of anaesthetic, pile cream,numbers for emergency doctors , rubber rings, styptic pencil to stop the blood flow, toilet rolls , douche bag, pillows to bite on , tons of vodka, soap to wash the shit off your cock , soap powder for the sheets, lots of lube , ear plugs for you and the neighbours and paracetamol. |
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"Hey everyone, never had anal before and my
gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks "
The absolute safest way is to use someone elses arse and double bag your cock.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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lube yes and let her be in control and push back on you. You can work up to it using fingers,thumbs and toys, but i find it better when i am relaxed and after I have cum oh and more lube. |
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"Hey everyone, never had anal before and my
gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks "
Working your way up a set of three different sized butt plugs first with plenty of lube on them, then a condom, again lubed up (yes-with water based lube) but we have even gone as far as to fill a small syringe (like the ones you use to give small children medicine [recommend you throw it away after!!]) full of lube up there to deliver a nice dollop of lube ready for penetration! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Her sphincter will contract the moment you try to push anything into it so make sure you use PLENTY of lube and slowly push your bell end in and then withdraw completely. This will give her anus a little stretch and allow it to relax again. More lube and then try again and she should be more relaxed because she's experienced the feeling of entry now. Push in further but go slow. About 4 inches in the anal tract turns slightly so it might feel like you can't go further. All you have to do is change the angle of your penis until you feel it go past the point of resistance and she'll feel it too. I'd be surprised if she doesn't mention it tbh. Once you've got that far it should be more pleasurable for her, and certainly for you. Go slow, allow her to find your rhythym and take your cue from her. Good luck."
thanks for the rele GREAT advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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on her side knees up too her chest this straightens out back passage lots and lots of lube ,fingers first ,then cock in a little pull out then in a little more ,untill fully in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My gay BFF gave me a crash course in anal as a gay man (my BFF) says clean the area (douche) make sure it's tidy no man wants to pull out and find a bit of sweet corn on the end of his knob. Also wheb douching make sure the water is clear thats a goo indication the area is clean. Prep the area by playing with it make sure it's a finger or something small to get it ready, lots of lube, be relaxed and be patient.
This is how I prepare for any anal fun
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try bending her over in different positions to see which one relax's her anus the most, it'll open slightly, loadsa lube, go slow...and let her ride you! (her)  |
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Lots of lube and her on top, that way she is in total control as long as you don't go thrusting up into her
Like everything with sex, just experiment and have fun |
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on the subject of lube, ive been told to use a silicone based lube, as waterbased ones are just absorbed by the body.
Lubes especially for anal are more slippery and last longer! Ann Summers sell em, and of course any sex shop. |
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"Maybe start with your thumb and work your way up, with lots of lube
Also even though its nice to go from one hole to the other be careful as the germs in your anus are not suppose to go into the pussy, and can cause cystitus or other infections
Relax and Enjoy xxx "
we do that...helps if youve had a enema or douche before.....so dirty and horny, but yes water infections not good..... |
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