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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we're a couple , obv there are more boob pics on our profile, but we do give a good idea about who we both are! Does anyone else get frustrated?? I know im bi, but surley im not expected to not see or hear anything from the male half of a couple before we travel to meet even for a social?? (Mrs) |
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We've had a conversation about this too. It does seem a little strange to try and attract others to your couples profile when only half of it is on display, so to speak. Although; on our profile I feature far less than Mrs. Mainly due to I hate any photos of me, in any situation and she is by far the better looking  . Plus I feel the female form is more aesthetically pleasing to look at and you have so much more scope to take interesting pictures. However I've decided I need to up my game and add a few more . . . Now for ideas!? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've had a conversation about this too. It does seem a little strange to try and attract others to your couples profile when only half of it is on display, so to speak. Although; on our profile I feature far less than Mrs. Mainly due to I hate any photos of me, in any situation and she is by far the better looking . Plus I feel the female form is more aesthetically pleasing to look at and you have so much more scope to take interesting pictures. However I've decided I need to up my game and add a few more . . . Now for ideas!?
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Obv Mr does take the best photos but we're upping our game too lol we take great pics of our freinds just need some of us now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we understand totally my wife is bi but she needs to see both the male and female as she potentially will be playing with them both. When we are chatting with couples (and single males tbh) we always send clear face pictures of both me (the hubby) and my wife together.
Quite often when a couple sends us pictures including face pictures the male is nowhere to be seen!
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
This complaint comes up on a weekly basis. Our answer is always the same. Their profile is theirs not yours. They post the pictures that work for them, not for you. If you don't like what they post simply move on to another profile.
There are many profiles where we don't like the photographs for a whole variety of reasons, but for us that's simply a filter. We don't believe its our right to tell people what pics to use |
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We would always expect to see both parties before a serious conversation can develop. We have been in a situation in which we could only see the f, and when we saw the m we wished we could have seen him before we started talking. That would have been a much shorter conversation.  |
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"We've had a conversation about this too. It does seem a little strange to try and attract others to your couples profile when only half of it is on display, so to speak. Although; on our profile I feature far less than Mrs. Mainly due to I hate any photos of me, in any situation and she is by far the better looking . Plus I feel the female form is more aesthetically pleasing to look at and you have so much more scope to take interesting pictures. However I've decided I need to up my game and add a few more . . . Now for ideas!?
(Mr)
Obv Mr does take the best photos but we're upping our game too lol we take great pics of our freinds just need some of us now"
Genius idea. We need some friends to take some great pics of us together.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This complaint comes up on a weekly basis. Our answer is always the same. Their profile is theirs not yours. They post the pictures that work for them, not for you. If you don't like what they post simply move on to another profile.
There are many profiles where we don't like the photographs for a whole variety of reasons, but for us that's simply a filter. We don't believe its our right to tell people what pics to use "
Fair point, but they are displaying a couples profile just doesn't seem very couplely to us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've had a conversation about this too. It does seem a little strange to try and attract others to your couples profile when only half of it is on display, so to speak. Although; on our profile I feature far less than Mrs. Mainly due to I hate any photos of me, in any situation and she is by far the better looking . Plus I feel the female form is more aesthetically pleasing to look at and you have so much more scope to take interesting pictures. However I've decided I need to up my game and add a few more . . . Now for ideas!?
(Mr)
Obv Mr does take the best photos but we're upping our game too lol we take great pics of our freinds just need some of us now
Genius idea. We need some friends to take some great of us together. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would always expect to see both parties before a serious conversation can develop. We have been in a situation in which we could only see the f, and when we saw the m we wished we could have seen him before we started talking. That would have been a much shorter conversation. "
I can't think of anything worse the, i just think if you have a couples profile show it xx
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"This complaint comes up on a weekly basis. Our answer is always the same. Their profile is theirs not yours. They post the pictures that work for them, not for you. If you don't like what they post simply move on to another profile.
There are many profiles where we don't like the photographs for a whole variety of reasons, but for us that's simply a filter. We don't believe its our right to tell people what pics to use
Fair point, but they are displaying a couples profile just doesn't seem very couplely to us"
That may well be true, but I guess the main question is whether their profile is getting them the action they want. If it isn't they will probably change it, if it is they will be happy. For example, our profile might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it works perfectly well for us. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"This complaint comes up on a weekly basis. Our answer is always the same. Their profile is theirs not yours. They post the pictures that work for them, not for you. If you don't like what they post simply move on to another profile.
There are many profiles where we don't like the photographs for a whole variety of reasons, but for us that's simply a filter. We don't believe its our right to tell people what pics to use
Fair point, but they are displaying a couples profile just doesn't seem very couplely to us"
That may well be true, but I guess the main question is whether their profile is getting them the action they want. If it isn't they will probably change it, if it is they will be happy. For example, our profile might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it works perfectly well for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we're a couple , obv there are more boob pics on our profile, but we do give a good idea about who we both are! Does anyone else get frustrated?? I know im bi, but surley im not expected to not see or hear anything from the male half of a couple before we travel to meet even for a social?? (Mrs)"
We totally agree. Missy needs to be attracted to the male of a couple if we were going to meet. Couples not having even one picture of the male - it doesn’t have to be a face pic or nude - on their profile really frustrates us. We hope we have a decent balance on ours and missy does feature more than mr, but she is definitely hotter  |
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For us it's very much a joint venture, so it's key that everyone gets to see everyone as we come as a pair. That's why most of our pictures are of us together with a selection of pictures of both of us on our own. We would be very dubious if we could not see the male half, because Miss Misfit needs to be attracted to the male and Mr Misfit needs to be happy that the male would be someone Miss Misfit would enjoy and fancy. |
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"So we're a couple , obv there are more boob pics on our profile, but we do give a good idea about who we both are! Does anyone else get frustrated?? I know im bi, but surley im not expected to not see or hear anything from the male half of a couple before we travel to meet even for a social?? (Mrs)"
Personally, I'd like to see at a very minimum a full body shot of both people on a couples profile. There are many who only have close-ups, cock pics, and action shots... we'd much prefer to get an idea of size, shape and build.
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"This complaint comes up on a weekly basis. Our answer is always the same. Their profile is theirs not yours. They post the pictures that work for them, not for you. If you don't like what they post simply move on to another profile.
There are many profiles where we don't like the photographs for a whole variety of reasons, but for us that's simply a filter. We don't believe its our right to tell people what pics to use "
Agree completely, we don’t have any pics of Mr M as he doesn’t play with others. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Whilst there will always be more photos of Alexis on our profile, over time we have managed to get a fair number of me on there as well. When swapping face pics we always prefer to see both in the same photo it is slightly more reassuring.
We turned down the offer of a meet with a couple because the Male would not show his face. |
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We have more of myself on there as its easier, different underwear sets etc.. For men I suppose it's difficult to find different photos to take.. However there are are a good few of D on there.
That being said I like to see both the male and female, on a profile in the public album, so whilst we are chatting I can remind myself what they look like.
I really dislike when people send face pics, only to remove them 5 minutes after the message was sent, and one of us will not have seen it haha
Also come across quite a few couples profiles where its full of female pictures but the female is non existant
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
There is more pics of me (Mrs) but I still think there is a good balance esp our friends only, where there is plenty of face pics of both of us. I do most of the chatting on here but I always let the person we are chatting to know hubby has access and is happy to chat anytime |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"We have more of myself on there as its easier, different underwear sets etc.. For men I suppose it's difficult to find different photos to take.. However there are are a good few of D on there.
That being said I like to see both the male and female, on a profile in the public album, so whilst we are chatting I can remind myself what they look like.
I really dislike when people send face pics, only to remove them 5 minutes after the message was sent, and one of us will not have seen it haha
Also come across quite a few couples profiles where its full of female pictures but the female is non existant
Xx"
Came across a few like that aswell, or its just the male chatting all the time nothing ever from the female, but yet the male tries to tell me she is completely interested in me?? (Mrs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we're a couple , obv there are more boob pics on our profile, but we do give a good idea about who we both are! Does anyone else get frustrated?? I know im bi, but surley im not expected to not see or hear anything from the male half of a couple before we travel to meet even for a social?? (Mrs)"
We wouldn’t meet somebody we hadn’t seen. We always swap face pics and speak on the phone before meeting up and if anybody is missing then we don’t go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every persons profile is theirs to display and use how they see fit. But I wouldn't even consider a meet if I had no idea what the male looked like, even if their biog states he doesn't play I want to know who is watching me from the corner of the room! Most couples who don't have pics of the male on their profile though do usually send one in a message to be fair.
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples moan about the lack of men’s pics on profiles and then make excuses as to why there own profile has so few in proportion to the lady, we make no such excuse
My wife is hot and I love taking pictures of her and putting them on fab, simple as that x |
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"Came across a few like that aswell, or its just the male chatting all the time nothing ever from the female, but yet the male tries to tell me she is completely interested in me?? (Mrs) "
Yes! Haha admittedly D does the majority of the message replying, however I will pop in and out and then when we establish a connection we move to a WhatsApp group all together, we've had a few say that they can join but the women can't because blah blah block xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There doesn't need to be any photos of the men. The men run the couples profiles- they want to see pics of the women they will be fucking.
It doesn't matter what the men look like as the wife will have to fuck them no matter what. That's swinging. |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"There doesn't need to be any photos of the men. The men run the couples profiles- they want to see pics of the women they will be fucking.
It doesn't matter what the men look like as the wife will have to fuck them no matter what. That's swinging. "
Why does the wife have to fuck them no matter what? I (fem) run the profile but all parties must have mutual attraction |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"Came across a few like that aswell, or its just the male chatting all the time nothing ever from the female, but yet the male tries to tell me she is completely interested in me?? (Mrs)
Yes! Haha admittedly D does the majority of the message replying, however I will pop in and out and then when we establish a connection we move to a WhatsApp group all together, we've had a few say that they can join but the women can't because blah blah block xx"
Exactly, once they refuse watsapp you know there is no woman there lol x |
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"So we're a couple , obv there are more boob pics on our profile, but we do give a good idea about who we both are! Does anyone else get frustrated?? I know im bi, but surley im not expected to not see or hear anything from the male half of a couple before we travel to meet even for a social?? (Mrs)
Personally, I'd like to see at a very minimum a full body shot of both people on a couples profile. There are many who only have close-ups, cock pics, and action shots... we'd much prefer to get an idea of size, shape and build.
Cal"
Agree, if there are no full body shots of male then we'd presume he's hiding for a reason! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"There doesn't need to be any photos of the men. The men run the couples profiles- they want to see pics of the women they will be fucking.
It doesn't matter what the men look like as the wife will have to fuck them no matter what. That's swinging. "
Yes, according to the instashag crew lol. |
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