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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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I have a friend who struggles to cum through penetrative sex. It seems the only way he can actually achieve a happy ending is by finishing himself off, and although he realises there's plenty of other things people can do to enjoy each other's bodies, he feels if he could get over this hurdle it would be helpful to him. What suggestions do you have that I could discuss with him to help him?
He already using blue pills on prescription in order for him to be able to take pleasure in his intimate time, this is something that he feels hindered him from reaching his true excitement potential, and also being able to give the people in his life everything he would like to. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Tell him to drink more water, eat some kiwi fruit, pine apple, banana and take a zinc supplement. Alternating between deep penetration and using only his head, where most of the nerve endings are should get both him and her off (if it is a she), as most of her nerve endings are only a few inches deep too. Things like blindfolds might be a thing to try as it means you rely on other sensor organs - touch, taste, smell, pressure. If both are blindfolded then again you are both in a position of exploration. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Does your friend wank a lot? Often a "death grip" can lead to a penis requiring that particular stimulation to get to the point of orgasm. If yes, I'd suggest cutting down on the masturbation and getting use to different sensations around his cock.
It could be stress related, medical (EO), medicine can affect it or he might get too focused on the other's pleasure during penetration to. Get him to sit down and openly talk about what he thinks causes it.
Taking away the focus on his climax and instead focusing on the sheer pleasure his body can feel might help as well - sometimes it can become a viscious cycle. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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To say there's nothing wrong with someone finishing themselves off - there's plenty of women that reach for a vib after sex.. Sometimes you hit the spot, sometimes you want to keep going, sometimes you want to tease, sometimes you need a release. |
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This has happened to me a couple of times recently with two fairly recent but regular partners. The fucking is amazing but with the best will in the world you can only do so much.
I then put on a show and wank to climax. It’s such a turn on for both, not something I could of done years ago as too self conscious. In fact it’s been a revelation as to how horny it is. They are both fascinated and pretty much demand it now. One likes me to come in her mouth, the other over her tummy and boobs.
As I type this it sounds like it should be in the fantasy story section but it’s true.
Oh how I dreamt of such things during my long and sexually frustrating marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a friend who struggles to cum through penetrative sex. It seems the only way he can actually achieve a happy ending is by finishing himself off, and although he realises there's plenty of other things people can do to enjoy each other's bodies, he feels if he could get over this hurdle it would be helpful to him. What suggestions do you have that I could discuss with him to help him?
He already using blue pills on prescription in order for him to be able to take pleasure in his intimate time, this is something that he feels hindered him from reaching his true excitement potential, and also being able to give the people in his life everything he would like to."
he should not wank for a month, wear the rubber cock ring which keeps the balls tight and fuck hard and consistently in a tight pussy, this should achieve the desired result |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most times a little blue pill helps the erection but reduces the stimulation in the nerve endings. It could be psychological, being re-enforced with the it's not going to happen so it won't happen thoughts.
It could be the condoms he uses which loose stimulation and feeling.
If he can climax via hand then start by wanking till he is on the verge of cumming then slip it in so he cums inside her. Over a period of time then insert longer times previous to cumming so he breaks the psychological thought patterning.
Its usually trial or error I'm afraid with these things. But he can have fun whilst trying. Male
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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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There are some great tips and suggestions here, thank you so much. He is going to try to hold off from wanking for a little while to see if that helps, and yes this is regardless of partner. |
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