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Would the offer of a massage make you meet someone
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.
Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn't be down to the offer of a massage alone but I do have a massage fantasy and so if that's something we both enjoy then I will be more open to meeting.
It's just like any other sexual practice, you're more likely to meet someone who enjoys the same things as you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.
Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me?"
is that hubby asking? |
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"It wouldn't be down to the offer of a massage alone but I do have a massage fantasy and so if that's something we both enjoy then I will be more open to meeting.
It's just like any other sexual practice, you're more likely to meet someone who enjoys the same things as you do. "
I could not agree more  |
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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago
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The offers have got so common that actually we find it off putting now! Everyone claims to offer a massage, as if that's the absolute key to a great meet.
A decent message just honestly saying what you want, that's the rare treat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it doesn't appeal to me. I'm a qualified therapist an unless you are qualified with a full A&P and can conduct an assessment with specific questions you can easily cause someone some damage.
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I've found that in a club.. guys seem to do very well offering massages.
In fact I can think of 3 times in the past week that I know of a guy offering a massage and getting lucky. 4 if I count the one I gave and got one in return |
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In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet. |
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"In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet."
I had a guy promise me a nsa massage at a club. He gave me a great massage.. then got his cock out.. I kinda looked at him and just reminded him that he said nothing in return and got dressed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it doesn't temp me, as unless someone properly knows what they're doing and I'd already be interested in meeting them, in which case I'd incorporate it into the meet providing I felt it would enhance the meet somewhat.
If I'm having a massage I want a massage, I like to relax, I like to unwind and forget the world.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We met with a guy who was a professional massage therapist, his job was in sports, met him because he was hot and a great guy and not because of the massage, I didn’t know in our early chats what his job was and it certainly wasn’t his opening message and the first meet didn’t involve a massage but the second did and wow, started off with a deep tissue massage at his work place so all professional, then became erotic, had me wetter than an otters pocket just through massage and definitely had a happy ending. We have had plenty of other people messaging saying about massage but don’t think it would be the same if not professional and wouldn’t look to meet if that was their opening message, so guess I just got lucky |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"We met with a guy who was a professional massage therapist, his job was in sports, met him because he was hot and a great guy and not because of the massage, I didn’t know in our early chats what his job was and it certainly wasn’t his opening message and the first meet didn’t involve a massage but the second did and wow, started off with a deep tissue massage at his work place so all professional, then became erotic, had me wetter than an otters pocket just through massage and definitely had a happy ending. We have had plenty of other people messaging saying about massage but don’t think it would be the same if not professional and wouldn’t look to meet if that was their opening message, so guess I just got lucky "
I agree xx |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet."
  this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.
Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me?"
No, it's one of the things that puts us off actually.
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