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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn  ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems "
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't. |
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x"
Yes. I often struggle with couple dynamics. |
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems "
Everyone's ideas of "attractive" is different...thank God.... we don't struggle, we are good looking (I think  ) but currently we are overweight...BUT above all, we are nice, friendly people with good personalities....those who go only for body types or looks alone may be missing out
K x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't."
That isn't what i asked is it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x"
Oh right. Yeah i get that i just ment is it down to dynamics or being picky etc. Do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems "
Drop them a line and ask...."Here, know how you're pot ugly...how come you manage to get your hole so often? Any tips?" 
Seriously though, who knows...different things float different boats. They obviously appeal to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well one persons unattractive is another person's unicorn I suppose! "
That's my point though. I think and people have said i'm pretty etc but yet struggle with meets a lot. So yes i get that but why do think they seem to not struggle as much as i do. Obviously i don't know for a fact they don't struggle but from the frequency of their new verifications by meet,in comparison to mine..i'd say they don't. If that makes sense hun? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x
Yes. I often struggle with couple dynamics. "
Is that through being picky? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Everyone's ideas of "attractive" is different...thank God.... we don't struggle, we are good looking (I think ) but currently we are overweight...BUT above all, we are nice, friendly people with good personalities....those who go only for body types or looks alone may be missing out
K x"
Yeah that's true hun. It was just an observation. Not a criticism at all. Just wondered is all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Drop them a line and ask...."Here, know how you're pot ugly...how come you manage to get your hole so often? Any tips?"
Seriously though, who knows...different things float different boats. They obviously appeal to someone."
You naughty thing you ha.
Yeah who knows. Just wanted to hear others opinions on it really sweet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm starting to think that my initial preference in mainly black guys and mixed race guys is what's stopping me/us having more meets. I do find other guys attractive and have played with said guy's though. I just hoped someone coukd shed some more light on my opinions |
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x
Oh right. Yeah i get that i just ment is it down to dynamics or being picky etc. Do you think?"
Dynamics I would say. In a 3sum I want all involved. I'm not a toy to 'treat' the couple with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems "
It's the age old story beauty makes you unapproachable for many |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x
Oh right. Yeah i get that i just ment is it down to dynamics or being picky etc. Do you think?
Dynamics I would say. In a 3sum I want all involved. I'm not a toy to 'treat' the couple with x"
I hear that sweet. So would you say dynamics is the same as being picky then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems It's the age old story beauty makes you unapproachable for many "
Really?. Wouldn't that make said person more desirable? |
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x
Oh right. Yeah i get that i just ment is it down to dynamics or being picky etc. Do you think?
Dynamics I would say. In a 3sum I want all involved. I'm not a toy to 'treat' the couple with x
I hear that sweet. So would you say dynamics is the same as being picky then? "
How do you define being picky? Looks? Involvement? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems It's the age old story beauty makes you unapproachable for many
Really?. Wouldn't that make said person more desirable?"
desirable yes, suppose depends on where you're being approached, in a message it's easy because you're not accountable but in person much more difficult..... Desirable and approachable to different things, you certainly look very attractive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not in a couple but i find it hard to meet couples as there has to be the 3 way attraction. Or, lots of couples want me to be a 'treat' for the female half to play with as the male watches x
Oh right. Yeah i get that i just ment is it down to dynamics or being picky etc. Do you think?
Dynamics I would say. In a 3sum I want all involved. I'm not a toy to 'treat' the couple with x
I hear that sweet. So would you say dynamics is the same as being picky then?
How do you define being picky? Looks? Involvement? X"
Erm..maybe looks in this instance? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems It's the age old story beauty makes you unapproachable for many
Really?. Wouldn't that make said person more desirable?desirable yes, suppose depends on where you're being approached, in a message it's easy because you're not accountable but in person much more difficult..... Desirable and approachable to different things, you certainly look very attractive "
Hmmmm. Interesting. Very well put . Aww thank you. Not sure how you came to that conclusion without seeing my face? Are you going by my booty? Lol |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it "
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
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Okayb |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
Okayb "
To answer the question
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I personally think there has tube an attraction by all.
I would meet anyone who I don't find attractive, my idea of what's attractive is slightly different to Dicks.
When I was a unicorn I didn't want to be the treat for the hubby.
I find personality just as important as looks.
I'm very picky on who I play with
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
Okayb
To answer the question
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I personally think there has tube an attraction by all.
I would meet anyone who I don't find attractive, my idea of what's attractive is slightly different to Dicks.
When I was a unicorn I didn't want to be the treat for the hubby.
I find personality just as important as looks.
I'm very picky on who I play with
."
Soo. Is it easier or harder depending on what you look like?. As i still didn't see an answer the the question |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
Okayb
To answer the question
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I personally think there has to be an attraction by all.
I would meet anyone who I don't find attractive, my idea of what's attractive is slightly different to Dicks.
When I was a unicorn I didn't want to be the treat for the hubby.
I find personality just as important as looks.
I'm very picky on who I play with
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Soo. Is it easier or harder depending on what you look like?. As i still didn't see an answer the the question "
Neither as everyone perceives attractiveness differently. |
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Attractiveness is a subjective matter surely? Personally, I find someone's personality their most attractive feature. Slim, athletic, chubby, fat etc isn't important, at least, not as important as a winning smile, charm and happy demeanor. That makes me wet and horny over anything else you can mention. Including cock size  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
Okayb
To answer the question
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I personally think there has to be an attraction by all.
I would meet anyone who I don't find attractive, my idea of what's attractive is slightly different to Dicks.
When I was a unicorn I didn't want to be the treat for the hubby.
I find personality just as important as looks.
I'm very picky on who I play with
.
Soo. Is it easier or harder depending on what you look like?. As i still didn't see an answer the the question
Neither as everyone perceives attractiveness differently."
Got there in the end phew |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Attractiveness is a subjective matter surely? Personally, I find someone's personality their most attractive feature. Slim, athletic, chubby, fat etc isn't important, at least, not as important as a winning smile, charm and happy demeanor. That makes me wet and horny over anything else you can mention. Including cock size "
So are you saying if someone had A* personality,then you could over look them not being your typical type? |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"So after being part of a couple for a number of years now,and seeing how many couples struggle to find a unicorn ,or even a suitable couple.
I Lexi ask this as i've seen couples who i don't find attractive and they seem to get meets all the time with little or no problems
Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean others won't.
That isn't what i asked is it
It was an observation no need to pull faces.
Okayb
To answer the question
Do couples think it's harder or easier to find a unicorn or indeed another couple if you're above average in looks,or is it easier if you're not that good looking(to other's) that is..or does it just come down to how picky you are.
I personally think there has to be an attraction by all.
I would meet anyone who I don't find attractive, my idea of what's attractive is slightly different to Dicks.
When I was a unicorn I didn't want to be the treat for the hubby.
I find personality just as important as looks.
I'm very picky on who I play with
.
Soo. Is it easier or harder depending on what you look like?. As i still didn't see an answer the the question
Neither as everyone perceives attractiveness differently.
Got there in the end phew "
You just didn't understand my first answer did you!
Being rude is not an attractive trait btw. |
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"Attractiveness is a subjective matter surely? Personally, I find someone's personality their most attractive feature. Slim, athletic, chubby, fat etc isn't important, at least, not as important as a winning smile, charm and happy demeanor. That makes me wet and horny over anything else you can mention. Including cock size
So are you saying if someone had A* personality,then you could over look them not being your typical type?"
Absolutely. I've even been known to play with single white guys who have ticked those boxes |
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