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Is there really such a thing as a bi sub male?
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I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Well I def love to please, I’m bisexual and class myself on the sub side, I would enjoy serving you both, although your hubbies profile does say he’s straight? Being pegged is def hot too |
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"I might add Mr B is not bi lol he’s straight but also liked the idea of having someone to be at our command. There’s just something about that eager to please attitude  "
I have met bi sub males before, they are a little more rarer than straight ones. However not as rare as unicorns lol. I think my question is as you are going into bdsm fringes, is this guy will need aftercare (everyone has a different type of need). Would you be ok with giving that |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x
Well I def love to please, I’m bisexual and class myself on the sub side, I would enjoy serving you both, although your hubbies profile does say he’s straight? Being pegged is def hot too"
Mr B is straight yes. For him it’s the control thing and to see me be in control is a turn on for him |
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"I might add Mr B is not bi lol he’s straight but also liked the idea of having someone to be at our command. There’s just something about that eager to please attitude
I have met bi sub males before, they are a little more rarer than straight ones. However not as rare as unicorns lol. I think my question is as you are going into bdsm fringes, is this guy will need aftercare (everyone has a different type of need). Would you be ok with giving that "
Yes absolutely for the right person ya know? I jumped in with both feet with one potential candidate and he wasn’t a good fit. Now I’m being more particular about expectations from both sides |
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When I was single (Mr) and a lot younger I was a bi sub for a couple. Stayed with them for weekends, slept
in cuffs, pegged, fucked by both while being tied up and plenty of sucking pff the guy. Even got to wash the lady.
Loved it, those were the days. |
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"When I was single (Mr) and a lot younger I was a bi sub for a couple. Stayed with them for weekends, slept
in cuffs, pegged, fucked by both while being tied up and plenty of sucking pff the guy. Even got to wash the lady.
Loved it, those were the days. "
That’s precisely what I want! I know it’s quite a big ask. And honestly Mr B is minimally involved, he looks out for me and that would be his role. It just seems as elusive as the mythical unicorn lol. |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Hey S I can't msg you both ;( DM me please if you wanna chat Cheers T |
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"Yes. Not me though.
Holy crap I just realised this sounds like an advert lol! I am genuinely interested because it does feel like one of those ultimate fantasy types scenarios ya know? "
May not have been an advert, but you're going to get some attention   |
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over a year ago
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
I am a bi sub but might be just too far from you pity as think I would be just what you are looking for |
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"I might add Mr B is not bi lol he’s straight but also liked the idea of having someone to be at our command. There’s just something about that eager to please attitude "
I hear you I'm the Mr and Straight my Wife is Bi. I can see the appeal of having a sub male even a sub bi male who we could both be in charge of, take to clubs make him please others do as commanded etc.
J K x |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Our inbox gets more emails than we can probably respond to from guys who want to fulfill this role, alongside the straight single males and the hugely amusing men who talk to Mrs Icebreaker as if Mr Icebreaker doesn't exist.
SO guys who fantasize about this are definitely out there and if we had the time to get round all the guys who seem to be genuine bi subs (prefereably with a touch of femmeness for our tastes) then we'd probably be knackered.....
Mr Icebreaker |
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"When I was single (Mr) and a lot younger I was a bi sub for a couple. Stayed with them for weekends, slept
in cuffs, pegged, fucked by both while being tied up and plenty of sucking pff the guy. Even got to wash the lady.
Loved it, those were the days. "
Sounds like the perfect way to spend weekends. |
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"I might add Mr B is not bi lol he’s straight but also liked the idea of having someone to be at our command. There’s just something about that eager to please attitude
I hear you I'm the Mr and Straight my Wife is Bi. I can see the appeal of having a sub male even a sub bi male who we could both be in charge of, take to clubs make him please others do as commanded etc.
J K x"
You’ve got it spot on that’s the exact scenario we want |
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Definitely interested. Would be happy to have a conversation and share some pictures, see if I am able to meet your requirements. Unfortunately not able to message you privately first.
Jay
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"Definitely interested. Would be happy to have a conversation and share some pictures, see if I am able to meet your requirements. Unfortunately not able to message you privately first.
Jay
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Sounds interesting!
I shall be in touch later  |
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This is a dream scenario for me. Something about the lack of control and the dominant female knowing exactly what she wants.
Would love to be inside the female whilst he is in me and they’re both telling me that I belong to them. |
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I have only just come out of a very similar relationship with a married couple. We were involved for about 5 years which saw the dynamic change tremendously. I met them on another site and it worked well as I wasn’t looking for a partner he worked abroad often so he obviously knew and controlled what we did, and where we went so there were no jealousy issues as we knew our limits and respected boundaries! |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
One here! |
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By *euschMan
over a year ago
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Where do I sign up?? |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
The is a VERY handsome, very athletic, young black bi guy in London who is just desperate to try being a couples sub. Try the search button and have a look for yourself  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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We do exist OP - however I'm not going to pretend that I would necessarily be for you, or indeed that you would be for me.
Like anything on here it's about finding the right person to fit your dynamic, as well as you fitting his - and it's probably even more key to have that connection and chemistry (not to mention trust, respect and a whole lot more) in this scenario as anything.
Add to that that whilst I am submissive by nature, I'm not submissive to everyone, and in fact need to *feel* submissive to someone to truly give myself, and many submissives are the same - either way it's an added factor to throw into the mix.
Ultimately though, in answer to your question, yes bi male submissives exist and probably aren't the unicorns alluded to, certainly not as much as female Dommes looking for them |
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"Having read this thread it's just not me who is a submissive bi male
There are plenty to go around for couples and any local midland couples who want to try this out, I'm
Ready for you     "
Yes. Hello. |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
There are loads on here! |
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By *hill44Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
This is on my wish list |
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I used to meet a couple on a regular basis, where I was their sub, I’d do exactly as I was told, there was no sex for me, I would get both of them ready for each other with my mouth, and then be in any position they wanted whilst they had their fun, sometimes I was told to face the wall, sometimes I was underneath them in doggy, and many others. It was amazing role play, after we’d had our fun, we spoke like friends, gutted they’re not on here anymore |
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By *amsiMan
over a year ago
Hanworth |
"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Yes we do exist lol |
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In all honesty I’d looked so long for this type of meet that I’d given up...
Having spoke with a few “couples@ most turned out to be fake profiles or just dreams and fantasies!!!
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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Our very first meet was with a fit young bi guy a fair while ago. We didn’t know at the time but he was somewhat sub, or at least compliant and let us take the lead and control.
We haven’t done it again but have talked about it several times. Our thing would not be to humiliate or cause any pain, but just to know we had a fit young guy who would please us both in any way we wanted.
Will keep an eye on this thread then! |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Have you found him yet? I think I may match what your looking for! |
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I seem to find plenty of bi sub men when seeking couples to cuckold. I have quite a few sub guys quite literally begging me to dominate them in cuck and MMf situations. Maybe I just attract them haha! |
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I've recently realised I'm more of a sub... Although I have little experience I'm curious to explore this more. I actually want this to be with a couple who slowly train me to explore my bi side too... Start by eating a cum filled pussy, moving onto sucking and being pegged and eventually taking a cock and being a sub for both the couple |
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You are not searching in vain, we bi male subs do exist. Personally I get amazingly turned on by being controlled, preferably by a woman but I’m comfortable with a man or the two combined. But your profile won’t let a guy message you. If you interested I’m just down the road in Bristol |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x "
Dip your toe in, go to a local munch, talk to Dommed, read lots, ignore 50 shades.
It's so much fun btw |
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"I (Mrs) have a fantasy of having a male sub, preferably bi or at least not mind a good pegging, to play with as and when I wish. Mr B is also keen on this idea.
I feel like the power of having someone do absolutely anything I ask eagerly, wanting to please me is so erotic! And to have him serve us both, eventually with friends is fucking hot.
Are my expectations too high perhaps? Probably lol. It seems once the fantasy has the potential to become reality, it’s man overboard lol. But what a wonderful thought to have....
S x
Dip your toe in, go to a local munch, talk to Dommed, read lots, ignore 50 shades.
It's so much fun btw "
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"Our very first meet was with a fit young bi guy a fair while ago. We didn’t know at the time but he was somewhat sub, or at least compliant and let us take the lead and control.
We haven’t done it again but have talked about it several times. Our thing would not be to humiliate or cause any pain, but just to know we had a fit young guy who would please us both in any way we wanted.
Will keep an eye on this thread then!"
A very hot scenario! |
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