Think fab should have a disclaimer in the small print saying if your Asian and a single male!! Jog on lol everyone’s got preferences which is understandable but come on ladies and gents it’s all about being multi cultural in this day and age..I’m just saying so please no long essays ppl!!"
Are you being serious? Because its becoming more multi cultural i must fancy single asian men!! Its v simple i dont fancy asian men and nothing would change my mind!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We see this quite often and it makes us smile.

So if you are asking others to adjust their preferences, are you prepared to do the same?

We note that you say you won't have sex with other men. Would you change your mind then??

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By *hloevtTV/TS over a year ago

norwich

I always fall for the personality , short tall thin fat male female ..... bla bla bla .....

It's the beauty within that I'm attracted to x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow. Somebody doesn't respect people's preferences, despite and stating he appreciates we all have them

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

Think fab should have a disclaimer in the small print saying if your Asian and a single male!! Jog on lol everyone’s got preferences which is understandable but come on ladies and gents it’s all about being multi cultural in this day and age..I’m just saying so please no long essays ppl!! Are you being serious? Because its becoming more multi cultural i must fancy single asian men!! Its v simple i dont fancy asian men and nothing would change my mind! "

my point exactly

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

"Wow. Somebody doesn't respect people's preferences, despite and stating he appreciates we all have them "

really??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not so different to the fact that everyone is more liberal in their thoughts to LGBT... Doesn't mean people fancy someone just because they are LGBT..if you get my point. Move on...be happy have fun all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can you say everyone has a preference and then say ‘but come on’? That doesn’t even make sense

...and that is the very reason why Asian guys get such bad press.

I’ll put my hands up and agree that it is difficult for Asian guys but I guess you just have to work harder.

And that’s the fun of it all.

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By *ndecidedMan over a year ago

London

Go to a greedy girls party mate. You'll have a better chance of getting some

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

People talking about preference which is understandable you are not going to play with anyone your attracted to.. point taken but I just want to know...what is it with Asian guys that people are not attracted to? For instance I come across a profile and read it where the user puts all their preferences I think ok that’s fair enough as soon as you get to the last line it will read.. sorry but no Asian guys...I think I’m just a little frustrated guys please don’t take anything to heart...and happy swinging peeps!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's not paper bag on the head swinging, or fully covered elsewhere for that matter. People like what they do, with those people who have personality and looks that they find attractive.

I'm sure there must be plenty of Asians here who do better than the rest - just as it's really tough for all races of single men here.

Learn how to optimise your potential

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m all for diversity and doing my but

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people choose to generalise, some don't simple .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We see this quite often and it makes us smile.

So if you are asking others to adjust their preferences, are you prepared to do the same?

We note that you say you won't have sex with other men. Would you change your mind then??"

A bit of a silly one because I’m not asking anyone to change their preferences, I’m just asking the reasoning behind the no Asian guys line.. your asking me to change my sexuality that doesn’t really make any sense whatsoever...I’m not bi or gay...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Becoming not very light hearted...have fun guys.onto another thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People talking about preference which is understandable you are not going to play with anyone your attracted to.. point taken but I just want to know...what is it with Asian guys that people are not attracted to? For instance I come across a profile and read it where the user puts all their preferences I think ok that’s fair enough as soon as you get to the last line it will read.. sorry but no Asian guys...I think I’m just a little frustrated guys please don’t take anything to heart...and happy swinging peeps!!"

We think that people get mistaken between thinking it is their ethnicity, and the fact that people just don't find them attractive.

There are lots of successful Asian people both couples and single guys on here.

There has to be attraction. Not always about looks, but always about the person.

You really haven't done yourself any favours here OP.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Appreciate it can be frustrating, but it's the same as me reading profiles that say slim and athletic only or under 30s only or whatever whatever.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

Think fab should have a disclaimer in the small print saying if your Asian and a single male!! Jog on lol everyone’s got preferences which is understandable but come on ladies and gents it’s all about being multi cultural in this day and age..I’m just saying so please no long essays ppl!! From my 15+ yrs of going to a swinging club i find indian men " Disrespectful, rude, arrogant, creepy is v big one! Persistant & v annoying! Following me around begging to go in rooms, and yes i do get the odd scottish man that will do the same but indian nen are on a whole other level of creepiness, so its a huge no from me!

We see this quite often and it makes us smile.

So if you are asking others to adjust their preferences, are you prepared to do the same?

We note that you say you won't have sex with other men. Would you change your mind then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't deserve nasty messages chap. We have messaged you, but certainly not nasty.

We just feel sorry that you felt the need to post this.

Obviously you are feeling hard done by.

Remember, this isn't real life.

If it doesn't work on here, why not just meet people the conventional way?

PS. As a couple, Mr is of Asian background and we have never seem any preference or otherwise, and we visit MANY clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m all for diversity and doing my but

Wouldn't mind doing your butt...

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!"

Understand your pain OP i’m in the same boat but we just have to keep on peddling

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"I’m all for diversity and doing my but

Wouldn't mind doing your butt..."

Ha ha ha ..... my bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please miss the others don't want to have sex with me, why don't you grow up and stop moaning, there are many people on here struggling to get a met but luckily they don't make it a racial issue.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Some people will have other reasons for not fancying you, it might not be because you're Asian.

We have played with Asian guys before, and there are many on here who do fine.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about the adverts that openly “advertise” for black guys or “bbc” ..should we ask them to include white guys or “swc”?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!"

So sorry to hear this has happened. Report and block them. Ignore the profiles saying no Asian men and seek out the ones that are looking for you. It's just people's preferences at the end of the day. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!

From what I can see in your tiny pic you look like a nice guy OP. It's not nice when people don't want to fuck you, I understand that. It's difficult on here for men.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

From one Asian (south east asia) to another (i assume you are of south asian Indian subcontinent descent).

Your OP may represent the very reason why some don't prefer "asian" - in my opinion, it sounds pushy.

People like what they like and it's their profile.

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

"I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!"

whats that then?

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

Please miss the others don't want to have sex with me, why don't you grow up and stop moaning, there are many people on here struggling to get a met but luckily they don't make it a racial issue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No problem with Asian guys, or any guys to be fair, no problem withAsian girls either.

But I have a problem with people I don’t get in with, or entitled people.

Do t be one of those and you’ll be fine.

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By *DFL6828Man over a year ago

Leicester

I messaged someone the other day who on her profile was totally what I was looking for.. Only thing was she dosent like guys with beards. I messaged her anyway.. Got a nice message back saying that was just her preference and happy fabbing. I totally respected that and moved on... Dosent meant everyone dosent like beards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We see this quite often and it makes us smile.

So if you are asking others to adjust their preferences, are you prepared to do the same?

We note that you say you won't have sex with other men. Would you change your mind then??

Well what's your reasoning behind not being Bi or Gay? Adjust your preference please for all the guys on here that want a man.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think it’s frustration guys so please lighten up got plenty of feedback and all the nasty msgs I’ve just received off some has just proved my point...enjoy your weekend guys!!"

Report any nasty messages, that's not acceptable.

But preferences are sacrosanct and don't require justification.

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By *adeiteWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don't particularly find Asians or black attractive. BUT that doesn't mean I exclude everyone of that persuasion, I've got a friend from Saudi who is absolutely fucking gorgeous and I'd jump the bones off of him if I could. And Idris Elba seriously makes my knees weak.

People like all sorts of flavours of ice cream but that doesn't mean they want it daily or they pick their favourite flavour everytime.

You win some you lose some so focus on the ones who's boats you do float and don't worry about the ones who sink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

being multi cultural dsnt mean multi fancy. "

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By *hewifeandiCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Can't believe the race card is being pulled here,dear me if ppl don't like Asian men that's there choice,race has nothing to do with it we wouldnt meet asian men does that make us racists No,we'd meet an asian women tho.im sure many ppl would meet you it's about manners politeness respect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m all for diversity and doing my but

Can I watch that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horses for courses i have a preference for white and mixed race men,nothing to do with being rasist, would happily play with an Asian female. It really is each to there own.

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By *rs slut n himCouple over a year ago

dartford

Think fab should have a disclaimer in the small print saying if your Asian and a single male!! Jog on lol everyone’s got preferences which is understandable but come on ladies and gents it’s all about being multi cultural in this day and age..I’m just saying so please no long essays ppl!! Are you being serious? Because its becoming more multi cultural i must fancy single asian men!! Its v simple i dont fancy asian men and nothing would change my mind! "
exactly that.... jog on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem is not that you're of Asian origin or descent. It's that you're male and you don't have women queuing up to meet you.

Which puts you in the same position as 99% of all the men on Fab, irrespective of race. In fact, irrespective of everything. So some women state they don't fancy Asian men. So what? As many, if not more, state they are only interested in big black cock. Which rules out even more.

Have some dignity. I don't just mean you, I mean every male on here who never stops bloody snivelling that nobody is into them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't believe the race card is being pulled here,dear me if ppl don't like Asian men that's there choice,race has nothing to do with it we wouldnt meet asian men does that make us racists No,we'd meet an asian women tho.im sure many ppl would meet you it's about manners politeness respect "

We honestly can't believe the race card is being pulled here either.

The problem is that some guys feel that people HAVE to meet them and cannot accept people have a choice.

Just as the OP chooses not to meet other guys.

Preferences are choices, and for whatever reason they are, preferences should be accepted and respected.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man over a year ago

Manchester

Just because a select few aren't interested, doesn't mean the entire site is against you. Just need to crack on! I'm sure I'm not to everyone's tastes and that's fine, doesn't mean I'm wasting my time. Chin up lad

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Our bodies our preferences. We have turned down people from all cultures and backgrounds.

At the end of the day it gets dark and there are more important things to worry about that those that won't meet you.

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By *hewifeandiCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Just another fella whining about no one's interested but not because he's a man but his race idiotic thinking but the world's must be against him coz of his race ,this site would be alot better if ppl like you wasn't on it maybe just maybe you're the problem and you're not as good looking as you think

Sorry but don't like ppl using the race card it's a bullshit cop out and used far to much

Maybe if I wasn't ginger well that another story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just another fella whining about no one's interested but not because he's a man but his race idiotic thinking but the world's must be against him coz of his race ,this site would be alot better if ppl like you wasn't on it maybe just maybe you're the problem and you're not as good looking as you think

Sorry but don't like ppl using the race card it's a bullshit cop out and used far to much

Maybe if I wasn't ginger well that another story"

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here we go again.

Theres loads of successful asian males on here.... just because people have preferences doesnt make them bad or racist ect.

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By *ndecidedMan over a year ago

London

Think fab should have a disclaimer in the small print saying if your Asian and a single male!! Jog on lol everyone’s got preferences which is understandable but come on ladies and gents it’s all about being multi cultural in this day and age..I’m just saying so please no long essays ppl!! Are you being serious? Because its becoming more multi cultural i must fancy single asian men!! Its v simple i dont fancy asian men and nothing would change my mind! exactly that.... jog on"

Btw your pics are stunning, what an arse!!

But I'm not sliding into your DMs cos you are not into asians, and you only want 8" cocks. So I'm out on two counts!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem is not that you're of Asian origin or descent. It's that you're male and you don't have women queuing up to meet you.

Have some dignity. I don't just mean you, I mean every male on here who never stops bloody snivelling that nobody is into them.

This!

It's not your race that would put us off. It says you can't accommodate but nowhere does it say why which in many cases of fab single males means your married or in a relationship but aren't saying so upfront. Now that may not be the case you may be a single dad etc but as it doesn't say anything to the contrary as a couple we would just move onto to the next profile.

J K x

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By *rSuave88Man over a year ago

Mirfield

Just look at it from a positive angle, it makes it easier to sift out the stereotypers.

There's still plenty of decent folk on here.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

Whilst some posts have clearly overstepped the mark I think the OP was aware of how this post would go. He had commented on alot of posts about race that went the same way. I think this highlights that folk are getting a bit sick of people pulling the race card just cos they are not having meets. To call everyone who doesnt find you attractive a racist is bloody insulting. I don't want to meet asian men, I'm not a racist, I have friends who are from a variety of races. If people pull the race card that says more about them than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whilst some posts have clearly overstepped the mark I think the OP was aware of how this post would go. He had commented on alot of posts about race that went the same way. I think this highlights that folk are getting a bit sick of people pulling the race card just cos they are not having meets. To call everyone who doesnt find you attractive a racist is bloody insulting. I don't want to meet asian men, I'm not a racist, I have friends who are from a variety of races. If people pull the race card that says more about them than me. "

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