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Telling wife you're a CD
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So many CDs can't tell their wives that they cross dress so I thought I'd tell how I told my wife. I'm a lifelong CD and I wore my older sisters clothes until I married thinking with all the sex marriage would bring, those trannie feelings would disappear. Silly me!!! We werent long married and were making love and she was only wearing a pink half slip,during the foreplay, I told her how nice it felt rubbing my erection, against her slip and she took it off and rubbed my cock, balls thighs and bum with it. It drove me wild and we were both very aroused andI asked if i could wear it while we fucked. We had the most passionate sex nearly all night and fell asleep exhausted and happy. From then on when she was horny she used to get as slip out for me, then it progressed to bra and pants and stockings. The rest is history |
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"How do you tell somebody that your a compact disc. I have tried to define as one as much as I can but I find it hard fitting into CD players and DVD players. Any help "
Check on your box if there’s warranty on defective product! You may be able to return you |
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I would hope that if I had a husband, he would have told me this before we committed to get married.
I can believe how May married guys there are out there who cross dress and their wives don’t have a clue. |
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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I would hope that if I had a husband, he would have told me this before we committed to get married.
I can believe how May married guys there are out there who cross dress and their wives don’t have a clue. "
That's OK if you were already dressing. when you've been with someone for 30 years before starting to dress its a bit harder |
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"I would hope that if I had a husband, he would have told me this before we committed to get married.
I can believe how May married guys there are out there who cross dress and their wives don’t have a clue. "
Most women have no idea their husbands are fancying going with a tv either, 99.9% of hits Katie gets are from “straight married guys looking for women” with nothing on their profile about liking TV’s, when I chat with them the main reasons are that their wives won’t wear stockings, lingerie, high heels, suck and swallow or do anal, the married guys don’t see fuckin a tv as being gay as they are fucking a “woman”........ so in my experience if you have a husband and your not giving home what he wants he will either find a real woman or a transvestite to get it, women might be annoyed by this but I’m just saying in Katie’s experience as a tv for over 40 years |
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My Wife caught me out by seeing pics of my legs in stockings on my phone. She confronted me and I had to confess, she didn't believe me and so I went to dress up and show her. Turns out she was a big fan of Rocky Horror so loved a guy in stockings etc.  |
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My wife knows about Clare,she has given and bought me clothes but has never ever seen as much as a photo.She has an open offer to meet anytime but prefers to ignore the whole thing 
I hope one day her curiousity will get the better of her and she'll see that I don't dress like a drag queen, which I'm sure is what she imagines |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My finance does know that I enjoy dressing up but she doesn't know I'm attracted to other Cd or Tv's.
I'm lucky enough to be able to dress up during sex and shes even had a play with a strapon for me. However, as fun and exciting it was I can really tell shes not into it and it completely ruins the mood. I really appriecate her having a go for me though but shes more vanilla where I have very little limits sexually. |
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"My finance does know that I enjoy dressing up but she doesn't know I'm attracted to other Cd or Tv's.
I'm lucky enough to be able to dress up during sex and shes even had a play with a strapon for me. However, as fun and exciting it was I can really tell shes not into it and it completely ruins the mood. I really appriecate her having a go for me though but shes more vanilla where I have very little limits sexually. "
Nothing worse than someone doing something that they’re not in to, to please another person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sense sarcasm, but I didnt mean for that to sound ungrateful because I'm far from it.
I consider myseld very luck to have someone will to try these things to please me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My finance does know that I enjoy dressing up but she doesn't know I'm attracted to other Cd or Tv's.
I'm lucky enough to be able to dress up during sex and shes even had a play with a strapon for me. However, as fun and exciting it was I can really tell shes not into it and it completely ruins the mood. I really appriecate her having a go for me though but shes more vanilla where I have very little limits sexually.
Nothing worse than someone doing something that they’re not in to, to please another person."
Do you mean sexually or generally? |
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You're at a crossroads..if you tell her you're a transformer you could be on the highway to hell...she might say achtung baby..you come out in a frock .. ta-dah .. with a morning glory..she sighs..no more..or offers you a bridge over troubled water and it will be alright now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a really good way to have done things. Jenny-TV took a different approach. She initially told me, before we were married, that her previous girlfriend liked her to do it, not that she enjoyed it. So silly me said "Oh don't worry, I don't like that so I won't make you do it". So it was done in secret and private for a few years. When the truth came out it was a disaster, and was a messy, awkward marriage busting problem for a lot of years. She kept promising not to do it again and didn't like talking about it. It's taken us 25 years to get to where we are, recently he told the kids too. I'm glad that tale had a really good ending from the outset. |
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Every woman I've had a relationship with,has known. Obviously with different reactions and participation. The easiest way is when you really feel the relationship is getting to a permanent stage, regular dates etc.. mention that they're will come a time you'll have to discuss some secret or personal matter however you'd like to phrase it.
Three times I've done it, in each the general answer was ' I thought you'd murdered someone, been in prison etc..'more of a relief than outright, walking out on me or making a massive fuss. In all cases I was asked 'why ?' and it gave me a chance to discuss in detail. I find if you're on a long walk together is better than over the dinner table.
Communication is the key and timing, too early in the relationship and there's maybe no real connection so a lot easier to say goodbye, too late and they can feel lied to and you're not the person they thought you are.
From experience in three relationships all happy for me to either carry on with minimum involvement to actually going out partying with my Wife (now ex wife but that had nothing to do with the crossdressing) we just had to agree on time for my 'thing' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My finance does know that I enjoy dressing up but she doesn't know I'm attracted to other Cd or Tv's.
I'm lucky enough to be able to dress up during sex and shes even had a play with a strapon for me. However, as fun and exciting it was I can really tell shes not into it and it completely ruins the mood. I really appriecate her having a go for me though but shes more vanilla where I have very little limits sexually.
Nothing worse than someone doing something that they’re not in to, to please another person.
Do you mean sexually or generally? "
Probably a mixture of both  |
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I told my partner that I was a bisexual transvestite before we embarked on a relationship.
It was probably different for us in that we'd known each other when younger & had a previous relationship.
I told her via text message (we'd been communicating that way all day) and I was extremely nervous about pressing 'send'.
When I did, the wait for the return message was agonising, until she messaged back.
She's perfectly happy about it, in fact it's simply part of our sexual lives now.
She even chooses lovers for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you tell somebody that your a compact disc. I have tried to define as one as much as I can but I find it hard fitting into CD players and DVD players. Any help "
I think a TV would be fine for you. |
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