Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified  |
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"Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified "
were they verified women then? |
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I’ve been fortunate to avoid this, albeit I often meet at couples own homes etc. What were you on for, a social or a full meet?
It can happen that life gets in the way of your plans but it’s basic courtesy to let the other party know  |
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Never had a no show during my time on here. Have however had two occasions where the ladies bore zero resemblance to their pics and another when I knocked on the door to find a rather obese guy who thought that since I was bi I wouldn’t mind that he’d used a fake woman’s profile and pics to arrange the meet. |
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"Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified "
Why is it so important to be verified?  |
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"Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified
Why is it so important to be verified? "
I agree it's not but some won't meet unless you are but plenty of fish in the sea |
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We would say 3 quarters of our arranged meets end up in no shows or same day cancellations, we mostly stick to clubs now to arrange meets then if they don't show you have the rest of the sweetie shop  |
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Aw sorry that's happened. I can be flaky sometimes in getting around to arranging a meet or social, but would never stand someone up. That's not good so make sure you report them. |
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"Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified "
Maybe change your method of arranging meets? Were they definitely women? Were they verified women? Did you speak on the phone? Did it all sound too good to be true?
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"Why do people do this?? So infuriating.
I have an extremely unwanted record of arranging 3 meets and being stood up on every one.
No explanation, no further communication, nothing! If you can’t make it, just a polite apology would suffice.
Third time has happened right now.
I think I’m destined to forever be unverified
Maybe change your method of arranging meets? Were they definitely women? Were they verified women? Did you speak on the phone? Did it all sound too good to be true?
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Sorry to hear that OP, but ‘ordinary’ life does get in the way at times! In the 8 years I’ve been using Fab, I’ve only had 2 cancellations, so I guess I’ve been lucky. My advice would be to just keep your wits about you when arranging a meet, and feel confident that the person you’re chatting with, matches their profile. All the best fella  |
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It happens op, I’ve never personally had it happen to me but I don’t meet often (once every 4 months on average). I’ve been ghosted loads. All I can say is what I’d do is speak on mobile an hour before and check things are ok, if no reply I’d not meet. |
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