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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx |
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I understand it, and certainly would be an issue with some meets I've had.
With a couple I'm not too bothered, as there are other delights with the encounter. But for bi meets it would be a no from me if kissing wasn't included. The build up to sex for me is a big thing and that's part of my ideal scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx"
With a chat?
I wouldn't know though as I've never met anyone that refused to kiss on a meet..although i can understand why certain people don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx"
I love foreplay and if they state no kissing move on to the ones that do, kissing is a prerequisite of great sex
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In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought.."
wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.
On a more serious note I guess kissing makes sex a lot more sensual, some couples don't want that with a stranger, they just want sex, I've even seen some profiles on here where they just want guys to come in, fuck the wife from behind and unload, no touching, no oral, just basically stick it in, cum and go. |
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In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought..
wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.
On a more serious note I guess kissing makes sex a lot more sensual, some couples don't want that with a stranger, they just want sex, I've even seen some profiles on here where they just want guys to come in, fuck the wife from behind and unload, no touching, no oral, just basically stick it in, cum and go."
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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I love kissing. If the other person doesn't want to (and I do understand that many don't like it with casual meets, or people other than their partner) that's fine. But good kissing definitely makes the sex better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is essential for me. I’ve seen a few couples on here who don’t and I totally get that. I think the whole fab thing is totally different for couples. |
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By *ightLeeCouple
over a year ago
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In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought..
wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.
On a more serious note I guess kissing makes sex a lot more sensual, some couples don't want that with a stranger, they just want sex, I've even seen some profiles on here where they just want guys to come in, fuck the wife from behind and unload, no touching, no oral, just basically stick it in, cum and go."
As we're looking for friends as well as people to have fun with, we need a connection. Not kissing and this scenario would be far to cold and detached. To each their own of course.  |
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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago
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Chatted to one bi couple and she stated straight away that she wouldn’t kiss but her husband would needless to say it didn’t go any further
Don’t get it kissing is a big part of the foreplay for me |
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I seen profiles like this, but never come across a no kisser in a club. I don't get it, its like going in dry. Kissing is all part of the lubricant that makes everything so hot and flow nicely. Things would feel so cold and impersonal without, like we are mere inanimate sex toys. No kissing would be a no from me (bar a legitimate reason like a cold sore). |
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It's each to their own and it's important for people to play within the boundries of what their comfortable with. Persoanlly I don't like the feeling of objectification and usery that sometimes comes across when people are happy to let someone fuck them or do something to them but they are not happy with kissing them or showing intimacy towards them. Yes you can argue its a mutral exchange of needs but for me it feels exploitative and wouldn't be for me. I'm not a sex toy to be used and discarded, neither is anyone else I play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is intimacy no getting around it never understood the any holes a goal mentality really but I suppose the club experience is one of sexual arousal by watching others perform and then joining in because of it and in many cases not knowing names or knowing personality or even nationality, in them circumstances you may not even get around to kissing lol |
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To answer your question op. There are many ways to start a meet without kissing on the mouth it takes a little imagination and some discussion of scenarios that's all. I suspect our penchant for role play helps. Both of us are very warm and not clinical at all but we understand and respect those for who kissing is essential although we would never meet them |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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I like kissing but it's not a deal breaker. In fact I prefer to kiss ladies if I'm honest about it.
But for me I guess it depends how we're playing. If it's a swinging meet then probably some kissing. If it's a BDSM meet then probably not... In that situation I just want to be used and abused so to speak. But afterwards a hug or some appreciation goes a long way |
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I can understand why some don't: preserving that intimacy for each other. But kissing is one of Mrs A's favourite things, so for us sex would be unthinkable without it. Watching her snog another guy gets me hard as a rock!
(To be honest, no kissing sounds like a rule you'd set at the start and drop pretty quickly!) |
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"I can understand why some don't: preserving that intimacy for each other. But kissing is one of Mrs A's favourite things, so for us sex would be unthinkable without it. Watching her snog another guy gets me hard as a rock!
(To be honest, no kissing sounds like a rule you'd set at the start and drop pretty quickly!) "
Nope, we've had that boundary from the start. About 8 or more years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience.... |
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"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience...."
Yeah lots of people think that.
I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience....
Yeah lots of people think that.
I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah. "
Only from our personal experience, others may have different experiences.... |
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"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience....
Yeah lots of people think that.
I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah.
Only from our personal experience, others may have different experiences...."
Yep. |
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When I was part of a couple we had the conversation about kissing others and initially. Oth thought it would be hard to accept. Having watched her kiss other females and males it turned out to be such a turn on.
Personally, I adore kissing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing on a meet. With a couple I meet up with, I started out the first couple of meets I never kissed her, I've know the male half along time and my wife and him never kissed when we had 3sums. The last few meets his gf started to kiss and the meets have been so much better.
I am careful with kissing on the neck, one meet a mouthful of nice perfume left a unpleasant taste so bad I couldn't carry one till I'd washed my mouth out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly can't get my head around people who won't kiss claiming it's too intimate and yet willing to have penis in various orifices or mouth on genitals? |
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"I honestly can't get my head around people who won't kiss claiming it's too intimate and yet willing to have penis in various orifices or mouth on genitals? "
Agreed I don't understand that either...can't beat a good snog. |
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"Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx"
It's interesting that nobody apart from me has actually answered the question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing. Long kisses, lots of tongue play. It is very intimate, and I can understand that for some people they would rather save it for their partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree here, a kiss is a building block of passion, a jumping board to further pleasure in my eyes!"
although I wouldn't start a meet with kissing, there is far too much to discuss before hand, if your meeting for sex whats the scene if your role playing, if its a social start then hella no maybe a cheek kiss thing if your feeling bold and cheeky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll kiss with the right person as it turns me on.
I've had fab friends in the past I avoid kissing and just get down to business with as they r amazing fucks but their kisses are slimey, or it's like having yr teeth washed, or yr face sucked off or digging down yr throat for leftovers |
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"I love kissing. Long kisses, lots of tongue play. It is very intimate, and I can understand that for some people they would rather save it for their partners."
I think so, I’d rather save it for someone I was in a relationship with. |
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"Long, deep, wet kisses...
Tongues dancing together frenetically...
Lips devouring each other...
Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss..."
Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet? |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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"Long, deep, wet kisses...
Tongues dancing together frenetically...
Lips devouring each other...
Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...
Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?"
The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.
Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.
Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons. |
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"Long, deep, wet kisses...
Tongues dancing together frenetically...
Lips devouring each other...
Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...
Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?
The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.
Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.
Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons."
I agree that it will be interpreted differently by every person but it does give the impression of very deep and intense intimacy. I wouldn't want that with someone I didn't know extremely well, even if I did kiss my casual partners |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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"Long, deep, wet kisses...
Tongues dancing together frenetically...
Lips devouring each other...
Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...
Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?
The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.
Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.
Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons.
I agree that it will be interpreted differently by every person but it does give the impression of very deep and intense intimacy. I wouldn't want that with someone I didn't know extremely well, even if I did kiss my casual partners"
Actually, you make explicit in your profile that you don't kiss passonately. It's your point, which is totally respectable.
When I am with the appropriate partner(s), passionate kissing is as enjoyable as other sexual intercourses, if not more  |
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"Long, deep, wet kisses...
Tongues dancing together frenetically...
Lips devouring each other...
Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...
Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?
The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.
Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.
Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons.
I agree that it will be interpreted differently by every person but it does give the impression of very deep and intense intimacy. I wouldn't want that with someone I didn't know extremely well, even if I did kiss my casual partners
Actually, you make explicit in your profile that you don't kiss passonately. It's your point, which is totally respectable.
When I am with the appropriate partner(s), passionate kissing is as enjoyable as other sexual intercourses, if not more "
Appropriate partner(s) being the most important phrase in my opinion. |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!"
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus... |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus..."
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t "
To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them "
That’s a fair way to look at it.
If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread. |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them
That’s a fair way to look at it.
If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread."
These threads always go the same way, it doesn't matter how the original question is phrased. The vast majority say they would never meet anyone who doesn't kiss, a substantial minority are rude and judgemental about non kissers, a smaller minority say they wouldn't meet but accept the boundary... Then there's the people like us who don't kiss and try to actually answer the question |
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We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman
This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us
If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx |
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By *edLad44Man
over a year ago
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"Chatted to one bi couple and she stated straight away that she wouldn’t kiss but her husband would needless to say it didn’t go any further
Don’t get it kissing is a big part of the foreplay for me"
But maybe not everyone else ???? |
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"We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman
This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us
If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx "
The way you choose to play is up to you entirely |
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"We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman
This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us
If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t "
I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male "
Is that because you have a lady to kiss at home though? If you were a single guy, looking for sex and a hot girl said yeah, I’d love to fuck you, they’d turn that down? I doubt it.
Maybe guys with a partner can say it’s kidding or no play more easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male
Is that because you have a lady to kiss at home though? If you were a single guy, looking for sex and a hot girl said yeah, I’d love to fuck you, they’d turn that down? I doubt it.
Maybe guys with a partner can say it’s kidding or no play more easily."
Sorry but even when I was a single guy and swinging it was the same for me, maybe I'm wierd lol |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them
That’s a fair way to look at it.
If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread."
I've been on here a long time.. for most of my time on fab.. as a single girl.. I've refused to kiss. I still do it very rarely.. and only when I feel the need... in all that time I can count on one hand the times it's cost me a meet.. in fact mostly it is not a problem.
As to the op... I start by touching and kissing their neck.. or them mine.. and then I quickly get my mouth around their cock.. |
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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!
Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.
But passionate kisses are a bonus...
Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t
To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them
That’s a fair way to look at it.
If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread. I've been on here a long time.. for most of my time on fab.. as a single girl.. I've refused to kiss. I still do it very rarely.. and only when I feel the need... in all that time I can count on one hand the times it's cost me a meet.. in fact mostly it is not a problem.
As to the op... I start by touching and kissing their neck.. or them mine.. and then I quickly get my mouth around their cock.. "
I knew it!! Who’s going to turn down the offer of sex (as a single guy) for the sake of a snog!! |
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