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what got you into: full swaps / seeing your partner with someone else?
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Hey all
so sat at work and my mind has started to wander as usual.
This is aimed more at couples / married couples (not specifically cuck as that's a whole different fetish I think ??)
I am allways up for learning about other types of relationship.
so my question is as the title says.
a) If you do full swaps: what got you into it, did you start off with just one side of couple watching the other with someone else and it evolved or did you go straight into full swaps.
b) What is the appeal / get off of watching your partner with someone else
c) Do you get jelose if so how do you cope with that. |
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I’m really interested to hear the results as while we have both slept with other people in front of one another or without the other person being there we’ve never done a swap
I know my husband would be up for it and I’d have no problem watching him with a couple but I just can’t get my head around the whole swap idea, in my head I feel like it would be a competition between the two new couples as to who had the best time
I know it’s likely to happen eventually most likely in a club when maybe my husband is already with a couple with me watching & I start feeling horny so ask if I can join in rather than through an arranged meet
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I was totally new to the scene before I met Mr B and he had a little experience as a single bloke. I wasn’t sure I wanted to share him but once we met a really nice couple it just flowed from there. I love watching him with other women! It’s such a turn on to see her enjoying his body and he loves to see me have a good time to.
That said, don’t be pressured! Soft swap is e sully amazing! I’m a watcher lol i get super horny watching other couples 
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"I’m really interested to hear the results as while we have both slept with other people in front of one another or without the other person being there we’ve never done a swap
I know my husband would be up for it and I’d have no problem watching him with a couple but I just can’t get my head around the whole swap idea, in my head I feel like it would be a competition between the two new couples as to who had the best time
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over a year ago
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Met a married lady in a local pub said wasnt happy at home and asked me if id go swingers clubs with her; had a great couple yrs together untill life got in the way x |
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A mixture of things I think, I'd always held back alot sexually until I met D....I loved hearing about what he had done in the past (which I thought made me strange  )...I'd always really wanted to explore my bi side and D was supportive of that....I'm not really sure how we ended up on here lol but we kinda mixed it all together and found we love it....the jealousy side was a worry for me, and I do sometimes get a little twinge of it when I think about it but its such a tune on watching D enjoying himself and he says the same about me. Don't think we could ever do the separate room swap though as this is something we want to share completely
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It just kind of happened, he’d always said he wanted to watch me with someone else & while I was happy to have the freedom to be with someone else I didn’t like the idea of putting on a show for him
We spoke about being with other people for about 2yrs before anything actually happened (well one of my friends gave him a BJ in front of me during a d*unk game of truth or dare once) as we wanted to be sure it wouldn’t effect our relationship
Once we decided to go for it I met a guy solo & my husband was happy for me to just tell him the details but once I’d had that first new cock I kind of got insatiable and met about 5 within 2 weeks some of which we’d arranged he’d be there to take photos etc
Other than the BJ the times I’ve seen him with other women have been in clubs
I’m the opposite to him, he definitely likes to watch, I don’t mind watching him, I don’t feel jealous but I do feel like I’m intruding like he could let go more if I wasn’t there, I’ll see him look over at me to make sure I’m ok and I don’t want him to have that concern I just want him to enjoy himself & show the women he’s with s good time, but I do like to hear all the details after  |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
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mine was seeing my then G/F giving a guy a blow job at vanilla party. she'd gone outside with him and didn't know i'd seen them. should have been angry but found it a turn on. On the way home told her what i'd seen and how it made me feel. Had the best sex ever right there in the car on a side street.
We got into it and went to several parties and club together. Enjoyed watching her flirt and we enjoyed watching each other. she liked to see me getting a blow job and cuming on the ladies face or tits, I liked to watch her take cock.
That was many years ago
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We were discussing fantasies etc and we had one of those moments where we both knew what the other was thinking so i suggested why don't we explore..
it still took us nigh on 18 months before we took the plunge so to speak..
probably like most blokes the inner voyeur wanted to experience seeing the oh having sex, giving and receiving pleasure etc so we tried that initially..
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
We met on here so knew that we both had that kind of mind, decided to carry on as a couple.
Can never explain why it’s so horny to see your partner with someone else, maybe cos you know how awesome they are and that they can give pleasure to someone else but always come back to you? That doesn’t seem a good enough explanation but haven’t got anything better!
Nope never been even a teeny bit jealous in any scenario, even with a woman I felt was hotter. Guess we’re just very secure in our relationship that it’s never been an issue.
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