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"Out of interest, do the guys who give to ladies ask first? Being that some ladies don’t like it.
Or are you already “down there” so to speak and just do it? "
I gauge a ladies reaction. Sometimes the element of surprise is great.
Same time, if a woman is sat on my face or a 69 I may let her dictate where she wants my tongue x |
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"Out of interest, do the guys who give to ladies ask first? Being that some ladies don’t like it.
Or are you already “down there” so to speak and just do it?
I gauge a ladies reaction. Sometimes the element of surprise is great.
Same time, if a woman is sat on my face or a 69 I may let her dictate where she wants my tongue x"
The element of surprise is great, if the lady likes it!
I found that I’ve had to stop a few guys and say “don’t do that, I don’t like it” and it kinda killed the vibe. Whereas if I’m asked if I like it before hand, there’s no “situation” if you know what I mean. |
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"Out of interest, do the guys who give to ladies ask first? Being that some ladies don’t like it.
Or are you already “down there” so to speak and just do it?
I gauge a ladies reaction. Sometimes the element of surprise is great.
Same time, if a woman is sat on my face or a 69 I may let her dictate where she wants my tongue x
The element of surprise is great, if the lady likes it!
I found that I’ve had to stop a few guys and say “don’t do that, I don’t like it” and it kinda killed the vibe. Whereas if I’m asked if I like it before hand, there’s no “situation” if you know what I mean."
Very true. although on the flip side when women are asked what they're into and for their likes dislikes boundaries etc they don't tend to want to talk about that |
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"Out of interest, do the guys who give to ladies ask first? Being that some ladies don’t like it.
Or are you already “down there” so to speak and just do it?
I gauge a ladies reaction. Sometimes the element of surprise is great.
Same time, if a woman is sat on my face or a 69 I may let her dictate where she wants my tongue x
The element of surprise is great, if the lady likes it!
I found that I’ve had to stop a few guys and say “don’t do that, I don’t like it” and it kinda killed the vibe. Whereas if I’m asked if I like it before hand, there’s no “situation” if you know what I mean.
Very true. although on the flip side when women are asked what they're into and for their likes dislikes boundaries etc they don't tend to want to talk about that"
Hmm maybe some women don’t feel comfortable with it but I’d rather be asked. Not what do I like or dislike as such more “would you like me to x,y or z?” Then I can easily say, I don’t like they or I do like that etc |
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Yes love it! Giving and receiving. Does not have to be all the time, but if both are into it then it is such a pleasurable feeling.
It was a surprise for me years back! First time felt a tongue... I was instantly
She just went for it. |
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