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over a year ago
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So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine. |
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"3 verirs for me to show your real, more, your a true player - yuk!"
That’s incredibly judgemental. What’s your time period on that? A month? All time? How about social vs play? You do know where you are, right? |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine. "
I suspect the main point is they have changed their mind - the justification could just as well be post hoc |
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"3 verirs for me to show your real, more, your a true player - yuk!
That’s incredibly judgemental. What’s your time period on that? A month? All time? How about social vs play? You do know where you are, right? "
An excellent point well made Crimson.
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"So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine. "
I don’t list my veris ,I’m verified by a meet should be good enough |
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"So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine.
I don’t list my veris ,I’m verified by a meet should be good enough "
That's exactly what I though. For me, people are either verified or they aren't. That's it. |
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"3 verirs for me to show your real, more, your a true player - yuk!
That’s incredibly judgemental. What’s your time period on that? A month? All time? How about social vs play? You do know where you are, right? "
I think you will find that the lady is making a joke.... |
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"So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine.
I suspect the main point is they have changed their mind - the justification could just as well be post hoc"
Agreed. They've changed their mind & maybe using your veris as the excuse is the best they could come up with.
For us, veris are there to indicate a person's who they say they are & genuine. As long as someone has one then that's all that's needed for that purpose. If they have more, fair enough! |
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"So a couple I have just been chatting too then changed their mind as I 'only' have two certifications?!
Surely the point of verification is to show I'm genuine. It's not a cv of experience. 2 or 20 - surely it shows I am genuine.
I suspect the main point is they have changed their mind - the justification could just as well be post hoc
Agreed. They've changed their mind & maybe using your veris as the excuse is the best they could come up with.
For us, veris are there to indicate a person's who they say they are & genuine. As long as someone has one then that's all that's needed for that purpose. If they have more, fair enough!"
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"3 verirs for me to show your real, more, your a true player - yuk!
That’s incredibly judgemental. What’s your time period on that? A month? All time? How about social vs play? You do know where you are, right?
I think you will find that the lady is making a joke...."
I’m not sure, going off previous posts where she’s called someone desperate for having several meet events listed. She may be of course. |
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"3 verirs for me to show your real, more, your a true player - yuk!
That’s incredibly judgemental. What’s your time period on that? A month? All time? How about social vs play? You do know where you are, right?
I think you will find that the lady is making a joke....
I’m not sure, going off previous posts where she’s called someone desperate for having several meet events listed. She may be of course. "
Perhaps a site where people meet others for sex isn't the right place for her... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I refuse to do verifications either way or take any notice of them. I’ll leave a review if I buy something off eBay but not if I see someone.
I get that it’s important to some women though because of the amount of time wasters on here but I’d rather meet someone based on our conversation than a points system. |
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