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So, am I wrong?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it the case that we actually should respond to messages from 26 year old men if we have the statement below written on our profile? Turns out we’re really rude but I thought this was clear. Just checking. Feel free to abuse, troll etc..
‘If that all sounds good to you, feel free to get in touch. Please remember to check her age preferences, 40-50 only. We don’t want to seem rude by not reading messages from young men’ |
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By *ick111Man
over a year ago
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If you have been clear then it is the person who has ignored your profile information that is in the wrong.
There is never any cause for abuse, if someone does not answer then that is a no thank you and should be taken as such.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have your age range set I don't get how a 26 year old can contact you anyway.
I think it’s a look at poor old us thread !! Lol"
Ah, so it begins. I did say feel free, he he  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have found that it rarely makes any difference whatever you put on your profile.
As others have suggested lock down your preferences on your message settings and certainly don’t feel obliged to reply to those who clearly haven’t respected them x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have your age range set I don't get how a 26 year old can contact you anyway.
I think it’s a look at poor old us thread !! Lol"
We are happy to hear from younger couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have your age range set I don't get how a 26 year old can contact you anyway.
That's exactly what I don't understand x"
It’s really simple. If we change those settings then couples who are in a different age bracket would not be able to contact us. 40-50 is specifically for men. Couples are a totally different hing. |
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"If you have your age range set I don't get how a 26 year old can contact you anyway.
That's exactly what I don't understand x
It’s really simple. If we change those settings then couples who are in a different age bracket would not be able to contact us. 40-50 is specifically for men. Couples are a totally different hing. "
Can empathise with this. We are happy to hear from older couples but prefer younger men.
Unfortunately there’s not an option for this in preferences hence getting the unwanted messages.
We always send a polite reply. Although it isn’t always politely received!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just change your age settings and stop moaning..
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This is the nature of this site. This was a question about whether people think it’s rude to not reply. Changing settings stops couples outside the age range contacting us. Thanks for your input. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot depends onn how the message is phrased imho. There is nothing wrong with saying....'I know your profile says...,but I was wondering...'"
There's nothing wrong with that, and there's also nothing wrong with it if the recipient chooses not to answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just change your age settings and stop moaning..
This is the nature of this site. This was a question about whether people think it’s rude to not reply. Changing settings stops couples outside the age range contacting us. Thanks for your input. "
Is it the case that twice this week being called ‘Ignorant c***’ is just fine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just change your age settings and stop moaning..
This is the nature of this site. This was a question about whether people think it’s rude to not reply. Changing settings stops couples outside the age range contacting us. Thanks for your input.
Is it the case that twice this week being called ‘Ignorant c***’ is just fine"
Whoops ‘?’ Before anyone points out the irony |
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