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By *oneymitch OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield

Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You know how to make friends, lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No not at all.

If anything my standards have risen since ive been on fab, ive realised not every hole is a goal and im very picky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You have zero chance of any single male answering this question (honestly)

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

nope.... thats you!!!

my standards are my standards... i would want to be on the end of someones pity as much as i wouldn't do that to someone else....

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

Let's hope none of the women you message ever read the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

True story

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some men are like this. It's transparent and unattractive.

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By *iking-RaiderMan  over a year ago

suffolk


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

Let's hope none of the women you message ever read the forums..."

Yep thats gonna be awkward.

And no, why would you lower your standards? So you can set up a meet with someone you're not even interested in and have a really crap time? Think I'd rather not waste my time or someone elses

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I'm sure most women would say that about us men too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You likes what you likes. Just don't try and speak for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a long. Drawn out explanation. But gave up.

Basically most men are just asshats.

And for the most part don't deserve any of the ladies on here, with their shit attitudes.

Women aren't that stupid to think the majority of them aren't trying to just drain their bollocks.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

Wow! I literally have no words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a long. Drawn out explanation. But gave up.

Basically most men are just asshats.

And for the most part don't deserve any of the ladies on here, with their shit attitudes.

Women aren't that stupid to think the majority of them aren't trying to just drain their bollocks.

"

That's not to say "all" men by any means.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *YC SausageMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

Wow! I’m the opposite! I find myself messaging women wwwwaaaayyyy out of my league and then feeling sad when the message is unopened or deleted

Maybe that’s why I don’t meet often lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

Wow! I literally have no words."

At least he is honest. I respect that

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By *inkynudeMan  over a year ago

London

When I first joined Fab, I also did message pretty much anyone. But after a couple of meets where I had no idea why I went there, became a lot more picky :P

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think you've answered your own question OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know a lot of men that message me wouldnt look once let alone twice if they saw me out.....

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By *arlomaleMan  over a year ago

darlington

I love the I’m very picky profiles and you look at the verifications

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

I don’t think anyone should batter the OP for being honest about what happens on this site. He’s just the brave one to voice what most guys do. I have seen guys who have stunning women at home but come on here and verified by bag heads they’ve shagged just for the craic. Me personally would never meet anyone I don’t find attractive as I don’t do regrets and if it’s a quick nut I want I’ll just use what god gave me (hand).

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

Wow! I’m the opposite! I find myself messaging women wwwwaaaayyyy out of my league and then feeling sad when the message is unopened or deleted

Maybe that’s why I don’t meet often lol"

You miss every shot you don't take

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By *heeseandWineCouple  over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

Let's hope none of the women you message ever read the forums..."

Yes but maybe he has done other women who read the forums on fabs a favour by making his appalling attitude public so it's easier for them to avoid him

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

Let's hope none of the women you message ever read the forums...Yes but maybe he has done other women who read the forums on fabs a favour by making his appalling attitude public so it's easier for them to avoid him "

Oh definitely.. I imagine he's now a block list regular

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

what are these "standards" things of which you speak?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've standards.... And not dropping them ....

Maybe it's why I've not met anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know a lot of men that message me wouldnt look once let alone twice if they saw me out....."

True....

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By *lixir of lifeMan  over a year ago

knob Creek

Omg !!!

Never cut your own throat by pointing out the obvious..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*Are there any. It's a countable subject therefore "is" should be "are". Sorry just a pet hate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"*Are there any. It's a countable subject therefore "is" should be "are". Sorry just a pet hate. "

I bet you're not content that you've used the toilet unless you've weighed yourself afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just you OP. I'm only interested in ladies with a bit of personality and who I get on with. I can't work that out by walking past ladies in the street.

Equally, it doesn't follow that ladies who look like supermodels are going to be fun and great at sex.

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By *YC SausageMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"*Are there any. It's a countable subject therefore "is" should be "are". Sorry just a pet hate.

I bet you're not content that you've used the toilet unless you've weighed yourself afterwards "

Wow! Some people can be real personal at times! Please don’t judge all is men the same

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

Some have standards lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I definitely have standards and don't drop them. Over the years I've learned what I like and what I don't - so if I message someone now its because I know they are my type (via pics, veri's and profile) or because I think they might be...

The latter is more rare as its awkward when finally see them and realise they aren't... I blame Instagram as people are able to take very convincing photos when it comes to angles and lighting

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Feeling a bit sorry for the ladies who have left you veris right now!!

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By *adtothecoreMan  over a year ago

Dartmouth

Everything but pass

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By *oneymitch OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Feeling a bit sorry for the ladies who have left you veris right now!!"

So many good replies wish i could reply to them all sadly I am unable to but this one stuck out to me so thought I would reply to this

Just wanted to state the women I have seen previously I do find attractive as my preference is bbw/curves and they all are within this demographic

I am more talking the entertaining of certain women. I was once close to meeting a 60 year old who just wanted me to give them a creampie luckily I found myself and made up a last minute excuse but this is the point am tryin to make. I would never even dream about fucking a 60 year old outside of fab but on here I was close to doing just that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

everyone should have standards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We’ve also seen women say they’ve had sex with guys they absolutely could not have sex with in real life.

Some guys have standards some don’t but on Fab women can raise their standards and still easily get a meet. Many men have to lower their standards to get any meets. In a secret world of Fab where no one will know who you’ve shagged some men will go for any meet. We as a couple have only ever be rejected once by a guy in 10 years on and off here. Been rejected by plenty of couples. Think that says something

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Feeling a bit sorry for the ladies who have left you veris right now!!

So many good replies wish i could reply to them all sadly I am unable to but this one stuck out to me so thought I would reply to this

Just wanted to state the women I have seen previously I do find attractive as my preference is bbw/curves and they all are within this demographic

I am more talking the entertaining of certain women. I was once close to meeting a 60 year old who just wanted me to give them a creampie luckily I found myself and made up a last minute excuse but this is the point am tryin to make. I would never even dream about fucking a 60 year old outside of fab but on here I was close to doing just that. "

However nice it is to see the honesty, stop digging - the hole is deep enough already.

Some 60 year olds could easily beat some 30 year olds.

Mrs

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

Wow........ us 60yr olds perhaps should pack up and go right now

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

Surely every woman you have already messaged is reaching for her block button now.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London

Also, a question. Are the looks the be-all and end-all?

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By *oneymitch OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield


"We’ve also seen women say they’ve had sex with guys they absolutely could not have sex with in real life.

Some guys have standards some don’t but on Fab women can raise their standards and still easily get a meet. Many men have to lower their standards to get any meets. In a secret world of Fab where no one will know who you’ve shagged some men will go for any meet. We as a couple have only ever be rejected once by a guy in 10 years on and off here. Been rejected by plenty of couples. Think that says something "

Good reply, at last some honesty

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By *oneymitch OP   Man  over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Feeling a bit sorry for the ladies who have left you veris right now!!

So many good replies wish i could reply to them all sadly I am unable to but this one stuck out to me so thought I would reply to this

Just wanted to state the women I have seen previously I do find attractive as my preference is bbw/curves and they all are within this demographic

I am more talking the entertaining of certain women. I was once close to meeting a 60 year old who just wanted me to give them a creampie luckily I found myself and made up a last minute excuse but this is the point am tryin to make. I would never even dream about fucking a 60 year old outside of fab but on here I was close to doing just that.

However nice it is to see the honesty, stop digging - the hole is deep enough already.

Some 60 year olds could easily beat some 30 year olds.

Mrs "

I imagine women on here can shag any guy regardless of age etc thats kind of the point am making, ask a 30 year old if they was in a bar would they try pull someone who looked over 60?! But on here i expect guys have to lower there standards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd like to think that some guys have standards... To be fair I can easily tell from the messages they send that some really don't.

I've had guys literally say to me that my preference shouldn't count as to them a hole is a hole... Response was a block.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For some they probably do just seek sex with anyone, not everyone does though. Can’t tar everyone with the same brush.

It’s not just on here, it’s on dating sites too.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Some men don't have from the outside what are seen as standards - they want to fuck and it's more about the experience rather than the person. It doesn't mean any hole is a goal though, just they place less importance on the physical and more on the sexual.

Some men probably do see it as such; it's a bit obvious through messages who they are. I've only met men who've had "standards" and yes, I've been turned down once.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some men don't have from the outside what are seen as standards - they want to fuck and it's more about the experience rather than the person. It doesn't mean any hole is a goal though, just they place less importance on the physical and more on the sexual.

Some men probably do see it as such; it's a bit obvious through messages who they are. I've only met men who've had "standards" and yes, I've been turned down once. "

has that itchy thing cleared up now? If so I'll happily reverse my decision.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It goes both ways for men and women OP.

Some men aren't the sharpest tools in the shed - but but are hot - so some women use them for sex.

Outside of Fab it's highly unlikely they'd have anything to do with them.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"Some men don't have from the outside what are seen as standards - they want to fuck and it's more about the experience rather than the person. It doesn't mean any hole is a goal though, just they place less importance on the physical and more on the sexual.

Some men probably do see it as such; it's a bit obvious through messages who they are. I've only met men who've had "standards" and yes, I've been turned down once. has that itchy thing cleared up now? If so I'll happily reverse my decision. "

Oh you will? Brilliant. Give it a couple of weeks and it'll be gone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some men don't have from the outside what are seen as standards - they want to fuck and it's more about the experience rather than the person. It doesn't mean any hole is a goal though, just they place less importance on the physical and more on the sexual.

Some men probably do see it as such; it's a bit obvious through messages who they are. I've only met men who've had "standards" and yes, I've been turned down once. has that itchy thing cleared up now? If so I'll happily reverse my decision.

Oh you will? Brilliant. Give it a couple of weeks and it'll be gone."

Nice one. Glad you finally decided to get it sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some will fuck any wet hole. I'm very grateful.

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By *isser36Man  over a year ago

fylde Coast

I did a post very similar to this OP, will men fuck... Erm.. Anything. Hit my green arrow you'll find it. It was met with similar indignation.

But I agree whole heartedly, most men, not all, would fuck a woman from fab that they wouldn't try to fuck from the "real" world, whether they would admit it on here or not.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS  over a year ago

doncaster


"Wow........ us 60yr olds perhaps should pack up and go right now "
why should you ? It's only his preference , one guy out of how many ??

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By *ndrew CareyMan  over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?"

So if you won't look twice at them in a supermarket, why are you messaging them?

Sounds like you don't have any standards.

Lord, give me strength

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

So if you won't look twice at them in a supermarket, why are you messaging them?

Sounds like you don't have any standards.

Lord, give me strength "

To be fair, I look like shit when I go shopping. Grey pyjamas with baked beans stains and muddy crocs don't turn many men on. Supermarkets aren't great for catching a shag.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS  over a year ago

doncaster


"*Are there any. It's a countable subject therefore "is" should be "are". Sorry just a pet hate.

I bet you're not content that you've used the toilet unless you've weighed yourself afterwards "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find that I'm picky about attitude more than looks. You can usually tell after a few, even one message that its going to work out or not.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman  over a year ago

London


"Some men don't have from the outside what are seen as standards - they want to fuck and it's more about the experience rather than the person. It doesn't mean any hole is a goal though, just they place less importance on the physical and more on the sexual.

Some men probably do see it as such; it's a bit obvious through messages who they are. I've only met men who've had "standards" and yes, I've been turned down once. "

In how long? Me, 17 times on the site and once in person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

So if you won't look twice at them in a supermarket, why are you messaging them?

Sounds like you don't have any standards.

Lord, give me strength "

Yo Andrew, you love a forum don't you dude.

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By *ollydoesWoman  over a year ago

Shangri-La

Be prepared to never get a message back now lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Be prepared to never get a message back now lol "

I'm use to it treacle

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By *ndrew CareyMan  over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Not sure if am the only one but I find myself messaging women that I dont think I would look at twice at if I walked past them in the supermarket

As singles males do we have zero standards on fab? and literally is every hole a goal ?

So if you won't look twice at them in a supermarket, why are you messaging them?

Sounds like you don't have any standards.

Lord, give me strength

Yo Andrew, you love a forum don't you dude. "

Who doesn't?

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