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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
Says a lot about you as a person.... |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person.... "
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else"
Which says a lot about you... Which clearly you would not see or understand.... |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else
Which says a lot about you... Which clearly you would not see or understand.... "
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over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else"
Oh it says so much more ... & none of it good! |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else"
It also means you are willing to put your long term sexual partners sexual health at risk without their knowledge or consent.
Condoms don't prevent everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
Yeah it's thrilling when it happens in reality, you caught nacked with other women by your wife, and next day solicitor visiting to meet you, it would be thrilled isn't... This was good scenario.
Now you have been caught nacked by man with his wife and he is bad guy mafia kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
I suppose many people enjoy the added thrill of going where they shouldn't buy i wouldn't say you are in the minority the world as an evolving place social media platforms have altered the way many people live and engage sexually |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Yeah it's thrilling when it happens in reality, you caught nacked with other women by your wife, and next day solicitor visiting to meet you, it would be thrilled isn't... This was good scenario.
Now you have been caught nacked by man with his wife and he is bad guy mafia kind"
I think in his case the "nacked" woman is getting caught by her husband and the OP is getting a slap round the chops!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The risk is half the fun!!
I think monogamy is a recent human invention personally "
The thing is you are stuck between a rock and a hard place some will agree with you some won't. What works well for you might no work so well for others and this is what makes forums so much fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
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Omg this has made me laugh!  |
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"I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
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Strange fetish you have there I think I’ll decline on behalf of myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you you have been on fab over a year but have no verifications yet. Your status says "wives and girlfriends feeling naughty?" So your tactic for meets is to try and find people who are prepared cheat on their partners with you.
Personally I wouldn't really class you as a swinger tbh. For me a swinger is someone who's in it for the lifestyle, adventures, meet like minded folk, experiences beyond what's possible between 2 people etc etc... at the core of all of that is one word respect.
You will probably have more luck on Tinder or similar.
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So many willing to judge and it's literally between two words, Yes or No. "Huni, can I fuck a guy while out with the girls tonight if I get extremely d*unk?" Or Stripper Night, we all know how out of control some girls can get. Or ur guy gets the number of a sexy girl while out with the boys. Swingers do it with consent. "Yes, Cucky, I'm going to fuck him infront of you tonight!" Or their girl likes a bbc in a mmf, or the girl likes to watch her guy with another girl. What if it happens on a night out? Or in a hotel with a partner away with work? This guy may actually be providing a service. Depends on what the context is!!!! If you prey on someone else's partner purposely then you're a shithouse. That's called respect. IF you show none, you deserve all you get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of people "cheat", on fab and everywhere else.
Their reasons may be many and complex, just like life itself.
But threads like this, they are almost daily, seem to always split into two tribes, those for those against, with no shades of grey ever considered.
I'm not responsible for others actions, nor hear to judge the life of others, how can I, it's not my life so i have no idea of what others may live or endure.
Others live with their choices, perhaps we should be a little more understanding that not everything in life is black or white...
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"The risk is half the fun!!
I think monogamy is a recent human invention personally "
True, but that's not necessarily the same as cheating. In our relationship we allow sexual exploration beyond the two of us, but we do it together. That builds openness, trust and exciting shared experiences. It builds us up. Cheating would do the opposite. |
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I think I have not understood what this site was called, is it not fabswingers and am I wrong in thinking that the word swingers was used to describe a couple who have a open and free sex life with others that are sometimes involved (hopefully lots hehe) and not for people who just want to cheat. My bad thought there was other sites for people who want that.
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
Yeah, I can see you being popular here alright hahahahaha
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It might be a thrill and you might be caught up on thinking sex should be an instant fix for a desire with other similar people
But it really shows someone that is lacking on many fronts, cheating on a partner is heartless it shows you are a weak person that is putting your sexual satisfaction above being a stable partner, you are basically a loose cannon in a relationship, you will cause so much harm for your partner, you really don’t give a damm about what you are doing and you risk so much and this might even turn into a pattern you have your entire life, why be that person, speak to your partner to freshen up your relationship and treat her with respect that she should be given |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!! |
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"The risk is half the fun!!
I think monogamy is a recent human invention personally
Yup, about 4,500 years! Pretty recent. "
Some men are still at the evolutionary stage of still dragging arms along the ground |
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!! "
Maybe she's cheating because she's discovered you're on here? Or if she already knows maybe she's decided to try something new herself? I'd say communication is the key, but for some it isn't, hence it being considered cheating. |
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Maybe she's cheating because she's discovered you're on here? Or if she already knows maybe she's decided to try something new herself? I'd say communication is the key, but for some it isn't, hence it being considered cheating."
Pretty sure she not Know I'm on here, she was a virgin wen met her I think she's curious about what she's missed out on |
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"The risk is half the fun!!
I think monogamy is a recent human invention personally
Yup, about 4,500 years! Pretty recent.
Some men are still at the evolutionary stage of still dragging arms along the ground "
What do you mean "some" men! Surely you mean all! ?? |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!! "
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..? |
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over a year ago
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..? "
No money to get from me |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
Would you be ok if your wife/partner was doing the cheating?
Or are you a complete hypocrite? |
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..?
No money to get from me "
No pension? No property? No assets of any kind whatsoever? |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person.... "
Agreed |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
solihull |
"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..?
No money to get from me "
Wow you sound like a real catch..... No wonder she's off with someone else.... |
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over a year ago
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..?
No money to get from me
Wow you sound like a real catch..... No wonder she's off with someone else.... "
She has her own money and a job so why would she get money from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else
It also means you are willing to put your long term sexual partners sexual health at risk without their knowledge or consent.
Condoms don't prevent everything. "
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Loads if judgemental folks in tonight!
Have I ever considered it, even briefly whilst settled down. Yep, we all have. I even had a mental list of those I'd break the rules for. Right at the top of the list was Monica Belucci. The ex had a list too. Many on my list were also on hers
Would I actually do it in real life. Nah, no shag is worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..?
No money to get from me "
I hope there are no children involved? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person.... "
That's what I thought. Just the type to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else"
Shot yourself in the foot there mate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Says a lot about you as a person....
Not really, it says I like the excitement from cheating, not much else
Which says a lot about you... Which clearly you would not see or understand....
Narcissism is often denied by the persons who portray it "
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"The risk is half the fun!!
I think monogamy is a recent human invention personally "
Cheating is still the same no matter how you try and dress it up  . Even on a swinger site some can cheat if you meeting without your partner's knolage.
As for your monogamy crap ..you know this is a swinger site and lots cum here to have fun and maybe sex too with others
Mr dirty
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Yeah it's thrilling when it happens in reality, you caught nacked with other women by your wife, and next day solicitor visiting to meet you, it would be thrilled isn't... This was good scenario.
Now you have been caught nacked by man with his wife and he is bad guy mafia kind"
I once had sex with this girl on a pub car park only to find out that her boyfriend was being sent down 4 attempted murder however in my defence I had no idea she was taken great fuck though |
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"I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
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Oh fuck!
Just when you think you seen it all in the cheating threads jokes aside this ain't no laughing matter for those that have been hurt/destroyed by their partners. I am going to take this one step further... there is an active group among cheaters that are trying to make it "normal" as if it is perfectly okay to do it... they will tell the rest of us we are just "judgy" nah!
They have the right to be on here just like the rest of us because Fab allows it. It's an equal platform for all however as soon cheaters come on saying "you're missing out on all the fun" "it will be okay... just sex" leave it out we ain't missing nothing! Do what you want/need to do because that is your choice, but don't expect the rest of us to accept it as normal because that is one of the worst/negative/harmful things anyone can do to another person.
I have never cheated on anyone and to my knowledge never been betrayed to that extreme level of deception. I know people that have though... my god! If that ever happens to me I know I would be heart broken.
This whole cheating topic does not come under "judging others" for me. Or being superior/high morals. Big brother or whatever else they want to brush it off with... the basics of this is own it like some of the cheaters do. They accept/admit what they are doing is wrong/risky because that is normal. Standard. They go about looking for others that don't mind cheaters and want to have sex regardless of anything else. As soon as you try to convince the rest of us it is normal that is when the counter/backlash happens.
Was not thinking I would be covering one of my topics from the backlog today, but Phew! It's done and I could do with a nice cuppa now. It's Rich Tea time  #Dunked |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
Oh fuck!
Just when you think you seen it all in the cheating threads jokes aside this ain't no laughing matter for those that have been hurt/destroyed by their partners. I am going to take this one step further... there is an active group among cheaters that are trying to make it "normal" as if it is perfectly okay to do it... they will tell the rest of us we are just "judgy" nah!
They have the right to be on here just like the rest of us because Fab allows it. It's an equal platform for all however as soon cheaters come on saying "you're missing out on all the fun" "it will be okay... just sex" leave it out we ain't missing nothing! Do what you want/need to do because that is your choice, but don't expect the rest of us to accept it as normal because that is one of the worst/negative/harmful things anyone can do to another person.
I have never cheated on anyone and to my knowledge never been betrayed to that extreme level of deception. I know people that have though... my god! If that ever happens to me I know I would be heart broken.
This whole cheating topic does not come under "judging others" for me. Or being superior/high morals. Big brother or whatever else they want to brush it off with... the basics of this is own it like some of the cheaters do. They accept/admit what they are doing is wrong/risky because that is normal. Standard. They go about looking for others that don't mind cheaters and want to have sex regardless of anything else. As soon as you try to convince the rest of us it is normal that is when the counter/backlash happens.
Was not thinking I would be covering one of my topics from the backlog today, but Phew! It's done and I could do with a nice cuppa now. It's Rich Tea time #Dunked"
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I cheated in the past. When I was about 17. . .
And then I grew up and realised how much pain you can cause another human when you treat them so badly.
I’m not saying I will be a saint forever more, but now the thought of cheating (if I had a partner) just fills me with fear and dread.
Not sexual excitement.
It’s much more exciting if everyone concerned is in the room. Naked and having fun. I think it’s called swinging. . . .?
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"I'm sure there are plenty of people here, that like the thrill.
That's their prerogative.
But hand in hand with that is, you fully deserve whatever consequences come your way.
You deserve to lose your relationship, and have your testicles removed with a rusty spoon.
I'd volunteer to do that part, on behalf of your wife/gf.
Oh fuck!
Just when you think you seen it all in the cheating threads jokes aside this ain't no laughing matter for those that have been hurt/destroyed by their partners. I am going to take this one step further... there is an active group among cheaters that are trying to make it "normal" as if it is perfectly okay to do it... they will tell the rest of us we are just "judgy" nah!
They have the right to be on here just like the rest of us because Fab allows it. It's an equal platform for all however as soon cheaters come on saying "you're missing out on all the fun" "it will be okay... just sex" leave it out we ain't missing nothing! Do what you want/need to do because that is your choice, but don't expect the rest of us to accept it as normal because that is one of the worst/negative/harmful things anyone can do to another person.
I have never cheated on anyone and to my knowledge never been betrayed to that extreme level of deception. I know people that have though... my god! If that ever happens to me I know I would be heart broken.
This whole cheating topic does not come under "judging others" for me. Or being superior/high morals. Big brother or whatever else they want to brush it off with... the basics of this is own it like some of the cheaters do. They accept/admit what they are doing is wrong/risky because that is normal. Standard. They go about looking for others that don't mind cheaters and want to have sex regardless of anything else. As soon as you try to convince the rest of us it is normal that is when the counter/backlash happens.
Was not thinking I would be covering one of my topics from the backlog today, but Phew! It's done and I could do with a nice cuppa now. It's Rich Tea time #Dunked"
Nice to see a decent man here
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"My wife's cheating on me at moment. I've seen her text messages, I've not brought it up with her yet, it's made me annoyed but also turned on, I can't say much with me being on this site!!
Will you be so turned on if she decides to leave you for this other guy and sets up home with him using at least half your money etc..?
No money to get from me
Wow you sound like a real catch..... No wonder she's off with someone else....
She has her own money and a job so why would she get money from me"
Oh dear! A long lecture about divorce law required here! lol! |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to
Yeah it's thrilling when it happens in reality, you caught nacked with other women by your wife, and next day solicitor visiting to meet you, it would be thrilled isn't... This was good scenario.
Now you have been caught nacked by man with his wife and he is bad guy mafia kind
I once had sex with this girl on a pub car park only to find out that her boyfriend was being sent down 4 attempted murder however in my defence I had no idea she was taken great fuck though"
Respect - you’re actually still alive to tell the tale! lol! |
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"Anyone else really turned on by cheating. I think I’m in the minority as I see a lot of people saying they have permission to play. I’m the opposite I like playing when I’m not supposed to "
I know what you were saying, I was so much more turned on when I didn't have to gauge his reaction on if it was ok for me to meet  |
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Cheating can be for tons of reasons. I’ve known so many ppl cheat I now think it’s more unusual not to to cheat than to cheat. Really, most ppl I know have cheated. In some cases it’s led to divorce and remarriage, some cases a happier, freer marriage, even an open marriage in a few cases.
Often it’s because one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other. Sometimes it’s about simply having harmless fun with a FWB in which no intention of hurt is ever intended to anyone. Of course if it’s done out of disrespect that’s a big problem. That’s not nice. But I also know cheaters who do it out of desperation when they have a sexually-deprived marriage where they don’t want to hurt or leave their spouse but need a but of fun.
Everyone’s different and reasons can vary wildly. I wouldn’t throw too many stones incase some bounce back!
Sure, much cheating is terrible and cruel but some is not always as harmful as some of the ‘holier-than-thou’ brigade would have you believe! |
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