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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I have a half cast cousin who is really dark, he refers to himself as the chocolate polar bear. I wouldn't dare say that to any other black person ut can be offensive to them "
I think the term is mixed race  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can see you feel bad about that, you shouldn't btw. Totally clear no offence was intended, mixed race kid here and we know you meant nothing. "
No offense was intended at all but you'll always get someone trying to pick a fight over it. Thank you  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Can see you feel bad about that, you shouldn't btw. Totally clear no offence was intended, mixed race kid here and we know you meant nothing.
No offense was intended at all but you'll always get someone trying to pick a fight over it. Thank you "
Ain't that the truth!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 06/06/19 21:19:31]
Can see you feel bad about that, you shouldn't btw. Totally clear no offence was intended, mixed race kid here and we know you meant nothing.
No offense was intended at all but you'll always get someone trying to pick a fight over it. Thank you
Ain't that the truth!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Romesh Ranganathan isn't a black man, yet he doesn't seem to cause offence on his new show on the BBC, when referring to himslef as chocolate. So I'm guessing you prefer wipeboards to blackboards and let's not even mention sheep  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views "
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"Romesh Ranganathan isn't a black man, yet he doesn't seem to cause offence on his new show on the BBC, when referring to himslef as chocolate. So I'm guessing you prefer wipeboards to blackboards and let's not even mention sheep "
I think he gets away with it because of the context and the humour - but what someone says about themselves and what they like others to say can be two different things. I had a black buddy who used to say things about himself - although jokingly - that I couldn’t possibly say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views "
Why is this world so sensitive
You not heard the phrase chocolate brown skin?
When said, it's always in a sexual way.. Thats where this phrase came from
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
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Whisper it maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe "
Always whisper it during a good hard FUCK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe
Always whisper it during a good hard FUCK"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe
Always whisper it during a good hard FUCK
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Hahaha. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what is the swingers socially acceptable word to describe a black gentleman ???
Black is out
Bbc is definitely out
Chocolate is out
Brown skin just seems weird and ambiguous too many cultures fall under this one.
How do I convey in a non offensive way that I am naturally attracted towards West Indian heritage gentlemen who may or may not be British/English.
If I don't make it clear on my profile I only get messages from white men who to me I may as well be a lesbian as far as my attraction goes.
The I take offence to everything tribe are literally making it impossible not to offend someone somehow.
Call me milkyway slut.. I couldn't care less |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what is the swingers socially acceptable word to describe a black gentleman ???
Black is out
Bbc is definitely out
Chocolate is out
Brown skin just seems weird and ambiguous too many cultures fall under this one.
How do I convey in a non offensive way that I am naturally attracted towards West Indian heritage gentlemen who may or may not be British/English.
If I don't make it clear on my profile I only get messages from white men who to me I may as well be a lesbian as far as my attraction goes.
The I take offence to everything tribe are literally making it impossible not to offend someone somehow.
Call me milkyway slut.. I couldn't care less "
I just say Black only. Up to others how they deal with it. My man doesnt have a problem with being called black. So up to those who read. If they dnt like it dnt message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything "
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
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I think some black people make any excuse to call something racist or offensive. Some things are offensive but chocolate is amazing so anyone can call me chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live in a very multicultural part of the world and no-one I know is offended by the word 'black' although most of my friends come in a variety of flavours.
I've only heard chocolate used in a jokey way e.g. everyone knows Kas prefers white chocolate. Again, can't think of anyone I know that would be offended by that.
I think if anyone used the expression 'half caste' around here you would get eye-rolling from my mixed race friends and a whole load of abuse from white folk getting offended 'on behalf of' other people - something that really annoys me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live in a very multicultural part of the world and no-one I know is offended by the word 'black' although most of my friends come in a variety of flavours.
I've only heard chocolate used in a jokey way e.g. everyone knows Kas prefers white chocolate. Again, can't think of anyone I know that would be offended by that.
I think if anyone used the expression 'half caste' around here you would get eye-rolling from my mixed race friends and a whole load of abuse from white folk getting offended 'on behalf of' other people - something that really annoys me!! "
But half cast is offensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
I think some black people make any excuse to call something racist or offensive. Some things are offensive but chocolate is amazing so anyone can call me chocolate "
I have to disagree. Most i know arent racist. Its white guys who get pissed at the fact white women meet black. Simple as ....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
I think some black people make any excuse to call something racist or offensive. Some things are offensive but chocolate is amazing so anyone can call me chocolate
I have to disagree. Most i know arent racist. Its white guys who get pissed at the fact white women meet black. Simple as ......."
Yes I agree hear a lot of white guys hate white women who prefer black or mixed race men |
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind some people get offended by their own shadow. Chocolate is sweet tasty and moreish complement if anything
That's what I though.
I love chocolate... Darker the better and I mean actual chocolate... How can something so amazing being referred to a person be seen as offensive ?
I think some black people make any excuse to call something racist or offensive. Some things are offensive but chocolate is amazing so anyone can call me chocolate
I have to disagree. Most i know arent racist. Its white guys who get pissed at the fact white women meet black. Simple as .......
Yes I agree hear a lot of white guys hate white women who prefer black or mixed race men "
White men to me the same as women are to gay guys ... I've always been that way and can't help it. Speaking as a white Icelandic woman who had only one black kid in my school growing up and yes he was my first kiss at the age of 13. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views "
Let me throw my hat in the ring...
I identify as a Black Man. If someone was to describe me by using my colour as the descriptive word, then I'd prefer them to use Black.
There are some words that can be offensive and many have a historical racial origin. I personally dislike when I hear the word "Coloured" or "Ethic Minority"... I don't turn purple when I bruise, red when I'm hot, and Globally Black/Brown people are in actual fact the Majority.
It's so crazy now though as it's so easy to draw the "Race" card or claim someone is racist because you feel offended, but yet every top 10 pop song has the "N" word littered throughout the lyrics (which everyone sings along to let's be honest), can't win either way.
Everyone is so easily offended nowadays, which makes everyone else walk on egg shells because you're scared to offend someone.
I don't take myself too serious so you can call me Chocolate and talk about my BBC as much as you want, you can say you like your men like coffee and all those "endearing" terms of affection.
Rant Over...
P.s Shout to all the Women that Love all them Chocolate Men out there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Let me throw my hat in the ring...
I identify as a Black Man. If someone was to describe me by using my colour as the descriptive word, then I'd prefer them to use Black.
There are some words that can be offensive and many have a historical racial origin. I personally dislike when I hear the word "Coloured" or "Ethic Minority"... I don't turn purple when I bruise, red when I'm hot, and Globally Black/Brown people are in actual fact the Majority.
It's so crazy now though as it's so easy to draw the "Race" card or claim someone is racist because you feel offended, but yet every top 10 pop song has the "N" word littered throughout the lyrics (which everyone sings along to let's be honest), can't win either way.
Everyone is so easily offended nowadays, which makes everyone else walk on egg shells because you're scared to offend someone.
I don't take myself too serious so you can call me Chocolate and talk about my BBC as much as you want, you can say you like your men like coffee and all those "endearing" terms of affection.
Rant Over...
P.s Shout to all the Women that Love all them Chocolate Men out there
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Definitely in an era of sensitive attitudes in the west for sure. Especially the under 25s I find always seem to like a good rant online about something . My industry is rife with it currently.
Some is valid some is just ridiculous and you wonder how they will function in high pressure industries / areas going forward . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Let me throw my hat in the ring...
I identify as a Black Man. If someone was to describe me by using my colour as the descriptive word, then I'd prefer them to use Black.
There are some words that can be offensive and many have a historical racial origin. I personally dislike when I hear the word "Coloured" or "Ethic Minority"... I don't turn purple when I bruise, red when I'm hot, and Globally Black/Brown people are in actual fact the Majority.
It's so crazy now though as it's so easy to draw the "Race" card or claim someone is racist because you feel offended, but yet every top 10 pop song has the "N" word littered throughout the lyrics (which everyone sings along to let's be honest), can't win either way.
Everyone is so easily offended nowadays, which makes everyone else walk on egg shells because you're scared to offend someone.
I don't take myself too serious so you can call me Chocolate and talk about my BBC as much as you want, you can say you like your men like coffee and all those "endearing" terms of affection.
Rant Over...
P.s Shout to all the Women that Love all them Chocolate Men out there
Definitely in an era of sensitive attitudes in the west for sure. Especially the under 25s I find always seem to like a good rant online about something . My industry is rife with it currently.
Some is valid some is just ridiculous and you wonder how they will function in high pressure industries / areas going forward . "
Don't worry they have safe spaces nowadays |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Let me throw my hat in the ring...
I identify as a Black Man. If someone was to describe me by using my colour as the descriptive word, then I'd prefer them to use Black.
There are some words that can be offensive and many have a historical racial origin. I personally dislike when I hear the word "Coloured" or "Ethic Minority"... I don't turn purple when I bruise, red when I'm hot, and Globally Black/Brown people are in actual fact the Majority.
It's so crazy now though as it's so easy to draw the "Race" card or claim someone is racist because you feel offended, but yet every top 10 pop song has the "N" word littered throughout the lyrics (which everyone sings along to let's be honest), can't win either way.
Everyone is so easily offended nowadays, which makes everyone else walk on egg shells because you're scared to offend someone.
I don't take myself too serious so you can call me Chocolate and talk about my BBC as much as you want, you can say you like your men like coffee and all those "endearing" terms of affection.
Rant Over...
P.s Shout to all the Women that Love all them Chocolate Men out there
Definitely in an era of sensitive attitudes in the west for sure. Especially the under 25s I find always seem to like a good rant online about something . My industry is rife with it currently.
Some is valid some is just ridiculous and you wonder how they will function in high pressure industries / areas going forward .
Don't worry they have safe spaces nowadays "
Ha my twitter gets filled with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What I find funny is that most people get "Racism' confused with "Prejudice"
Racism is Institutional. Some of most powerful institutions are still very much Racist which sometimes trickles down into everyday society.
However, Everyone single one of have Prejudice towards other people. I think it's a natural human instinct to prejudge someone based on there physical traits, i.e race, height, gender etc
I don't think it's offensive to do so either. It's ok to feel offended or hurt by someone else's views of you, that's fine. People just gotta find a better way of dealing with it because not everything is supposed to be taken in that manner (grow a pair).
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if anyone used the expression 'half caste' around here you would get eye-rolling from my mixed race friends and a whole load of abuse from white folk getting offended 'on behalf of' other people - something that really annoys me!!
But half cast is offensive "
I agree. It's offensive to someone of mixed race but I'm not.
I will always educate the ignorant when I hear it, but I'm not going to act like it is offensive to me personally. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe "
You mean
Wispa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"every day a new thread on what offends a black person zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz"
Some things are offensive but if you read through the thread you would see most don’t care |
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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago
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Plenty of ‘gents with dark skin’ fabbers on here that have the word ‘Black’ or ‘Chocolate’ in their Fab name.
Do those offended by others using ‘black’ and ‘chocolate’ Send them PMs to tell them that their names offend them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm Balls deeps call me what you want "
Couldn’t possibly complain about being called chocolate or coffee- 2 delights and temptations of modern day life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe
You mean
Wispa "
No whisper in ones ear. We know what we mean dnt we Trim |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 06/06/19 21:19:31]
Can see you feel bad about that, you shouldn't btw. Totally clear no offence was intended, mixed race kid here and we know you meant nothing.
No offense was intended at all but you'll always get someone trying to pick a fight over it. Thank you "
The fight is because I’m not confectionary I’m a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 06/06/19 21:19:31]
Can see you feel bad about that, you shouldn't btw. Totally clear no offence was intended, mixed race kid here and we know you meant nothing.
No offense was intended at all but you'll always get someone trying to pick a fight over it. Thank you
The fight is because I’m not confectionary I’m a person"
Yes and a beautiful one. I know I’m a person too but I’m a galaxy bar too . And when I get that stupid question in interviews- what fruit are you, I’m an apple because I get on with everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coffee!!!
(I don't like chocolate)
(Well, I am very picky when it comes to chocolate)
(And coffee, come to think of it)
(And men)
I do prefer to refer to people by their names."
. Good woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Why is this world so sensitive
You not heard the phrase chocolate brown skin?
When said, it's always in a sexual way.. Thats where this phrase came from.
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You’ll be complaining about political correctness next.
We’re not an amorphous mass.
Each individual is different, yeah really we are.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Why is this world so sensitive
You not heard the phrase chocolate brown skin?
When said, it's always in a sexual way.. Thats where this phrase came from.
You’ll be complaining about political correctness next.
We’re not an amorphous mass.
Each individual is different, yeah really we are.
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I stand by what I said. Whether you agree with me or not. My opinion is different to the next and no offence is taken.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"every day a new thread on what offends a black person zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
And so called white people being offended on behalf of that person
EXACTLY, like they are more offended"
The statement above.
Where do I start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree"
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake). "
Mmm here have a bit of chocolate brandy
*Spills it on the sofa as he pours* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake).
Mmm here have a bit of chocolate brandy
*Spills it on the sofa as he pours*"
Oh dear and cleans it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake).
Mmm here have a bit of chocolate brandy
*Spills it on the sofa as he pours*
Oh dear and cleans it up "
*Spills some more*
Whoops
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake).
Mmm here have a bit of chocolate brandy
*Spills it on the sofa as he pours*
Oh dear and cleans it up
*Spills some more*
Whoops
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What a waste of good chocolate.. but lucky for you I’m a nice person and will share my cake with you as we sit back and read the comments on this thread... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads always turn kinda narky
*sips on chocolate brandy*
Don't you agree
Yaas but hey that’s life.. (takes huge bite of dark chocolate, scrumptious cake).
Mmm here have a bit of chocolate brandy
*Spills it on the sofa as he pours*
Oh dear and cleans it up
*Spills some more*
Whoops
What a waste of good chocolate.. but lucky for you I’m a nice person and will share my cake with you as we sit back and read the comments on this thread... "
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe
You mean
Wispa
No whisper in ones ear. We know what we mean dnt we Trim"
It was humour
Wispa
Chocolate
Linked to the thread
Oh never mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about how you use the terms that's important, for example Black is fine, but messaging us saying "oh sexy, never been with a black before" is off putting and just comes across as fetishing skin colour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
I call all my friends CHOCOLATE.
DARK CHOCOLATE
LIQUID CHOCOLATE
RICH MILK CHOCOLATE
NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN.
Whisper it maybe
You mean
Wispa
No whisper in ones ear. We know what we mean dnt we Trim
It was humour
Wispa
Chocolate
Linked to the thread
Oh never mind "
Lol I know what you meant I wish these post had an edit feature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind being called black of intentions is not wrong. It is strongest colour in the universe, mix any colour with black and see which colour loose the contrast. |
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"Fab is going abit 'fairy'
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Please don't refer to me as a fairy.
I find it highly offensive. Well, not me but if I was a fairy and you called me a fairy then I would be. So dont do it. Racist.
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"Fab is going abit 'fairy'
Please don't refer to me as a fairy.
I find it highly offensive. Well, not me but if I was a fairy and you called me a fairy then I would be. So dont do it. Racist.
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Fuck ... What about the elves ??? Are we allowed to call them elves ?
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Threads like this just reinforce my view that the colonial mindset still exists.
Label everyone put them in boxes and control accordingly.
Of course now I'll be accused of being overly sensitive.
I don t want to be anyones dairy milk or Rolo thank you very much.
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"Chocolate
A term to describe a black person
I’d find this offensive
Be interested to hear views
Let me throw my hat in the ring...
I identify as a Black Man. If someone was to describe me by using my colour as the descriptive word, then I'd prefer them to use Black.
There are some words that can be offensive and many have a historical racial origin. I personally dislike when I hear the word "Coloured" or "Ethic Minority"... I don't turn purple when I bruise, red when I'm hot, and Globally Black/Brown people are in actual fact the Majority.
It's so crazy now though as it's so easy to draw the "Race" card or claim someone is racist because you feel offended, but yet every top 10 pop song has the "N" word littered throughout the lyrics (which everyone sings along to let's be honest), can't win either way.
Everyone is so easily offended nowadays, which makes everyone else walk on egg shells because you're scared to offend someone.
I don't take myself too serious so you can call me Chocolate and talk about my BBC as much as you want, you can say you like your men like coffee and all those "endearing" terms of affection.
Rant Over...
P.s Shout to all the Women that Love all them Chocolate Men out there
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I don’t know, ‘chocolate’ and ‘coffee’ just feel a bit weird and creepy and euphemistic to me. The kind of thing said by people who know that ‘coloured’ is offensive but are uncomfortable with ‘black’.
But I’m white, so what do I know? |
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"Threads like this just reinforce my view that the colonial mindset still exists.
Label everyone put them in boxes and control accordingly.
Of course now I'll be accused of being overly sensitive.
I don t want to be anyones dairy milk or Rolo thank you very much.
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Curious about this. So you’re saying that by pointing out your colour, people are putting you in a box and displaying a colonial mindset?
I personally hate it when people say ‘oh I didn’t even notice your colour’. Wtf? Are you even looking at me? How can you not notice? It’s how they point it out in an acceptable way to each of us that is both key and deeply individualistic. Most racism I’ve experienced here on fab? Easily from people with a similar skin colouring to mine.... As always personal preference reigns supreme as I wouldn’t mind a sexy, attractive hunk of a male calling me Rollo. Shall we now debate the definition of sexy or attractive or hunk or even male? Nah... |
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"I don't even know why we're called black coz most of us are brown  "
I remember asking a guy at primary school "why do we call you black when your brown? He just said "why donwe call you white ymwhen your pink" lol |
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Also at WWE when Mark Henry comes out he has everyone up on their feet chanting "sexual chocolate " clap clap clap clap clap sexual chocolate.. Out of the entire audience only one person made a fuss..that was my dad..and that was mainly due to "sexual " not chocolate lmao |
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"Also at WWE when Mark Henry comes out he has everyone up on their feet chanting "sexual chocolate " clap clap clap clap clap sexual chocolate.. Out of the entire audience only one person made a fuss..that was my dad..and that was mainly due to "sexual " not chocolate lmao "
. I suppose each of us has our own idea of what is acceptable or not.. |
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"I've had a couple of black guys refer to me as milky white...place..best was something like " hey milky bar, your on me" lmao
Did you mind?"
Not at all... I didn't see it as a racist at all I thought it was funny.. |
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"What does pee me off tho is a message that goes like " would you ever consider a black man" I've had a couple like that. "
I don’t like the ones that go along the lines ‘brown belongs to brown, bitch’. What a catchy seduction phrase |
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"It's about how you use the terms that's important, for example Black is fine, but messaging us saying "oh sexy, never been with a black before" is off putting and just comes across as fetishing skin colour."
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Here here |
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"Threads like this just reinforce my view that the colonial mindset still exists.
Label everyone put them in boxes and control accordingly.
Of course now I'll be accused of being overly sensitive.
I don t want to be anyones dairy milk or Rolo thank you very much.
I agree
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Well Errol Brown was a pretty cool dude and it didn't do him any harm. Are we all becoming far too sensitive and PC. Would Errol brown call his band Hot chocolate now ???. Probably not tbh. |
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"I don’t know, ‘chocolate’ and ‘coffee’ just feel a bit weird and creepy and euphemistic to me. The kind of thing said by people who know that ‘coloured’ is offensive but are uncomfortable with ‘black’.
But I’m white, so what do I know?"
I am pale and will only refer to people as food for comparisons like "I like my coffee/chocolate like my men". |
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"My coloured friends all call me coconut as they all say I'm white but want to be black "
Coloured 
Do your Black friends know you refer to them as "coloured"???
This word is very dated an inaccurate. On closer inspection, it's white people who should actually be referred to as coloured due to the various colours you turn if hot, cold or bruised??? |
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