Mr B and I have said this sooooo many times  . Sex should never be a massive effort! And it shouldn’t be stuffy and super organised but we’ve come across loads of people on here that get downright bitchy when they’re not your type or if you can’t make a date straight away. |
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"We love the fun, the anticipation, the playfulness. Sometimes it feels a tad intense on here."
I wholeheartedly agree.
I enjoy parties and events/clubs.
I find myself sceptical of people though, when you've had nasty undercurrents, complete disrespect and a whole host of other ugliness land in your lap it has certainly made me think twice about who to let into our "inner circle" and as shitty as it may seem, who people are friends with as I'm well aware of the gossip, lies and backstabbing that goes on behind the scenes.
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One's craft should always be taken seriously 
Oh dear I sound like a Dom in a Leather Waistcoat.
Actually I agree totally - this is fun, it's playtime. Or should be.
And once you have gotten past the idea of sex-only-as-part-of-a-LTR, is it actually such a huge deal? |
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Sex is the last great bastion of fun when your an adult! Life is a serious matter these days so being able to make time for yourself or yourselves is important.
I don’t think sex should be taken as seriously but if your not somebody’s type that’s that and that should be respected.
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Think that's why we've decided on club meets. It just seems easier, less stress and hassle. We go when we are free and obviously others are the same. None of this trying to arrange dates, socials first, people cancelling or us having to cancel on them. |
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