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When you first joined FAB
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance  can you remember when you joined ?
We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m really conscious of that. Was on a year ago and got very but now they have left and the very can’t be seen. Just want someone to give me that chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm... Not really, there are plenty of ways of getting verified.
It's no ones duty to meet anyone that they don't want to, especially not if it's just so that it makes it easier for them to get other meets.
Get to a social or a club and get chatting. I waited 7 months the first time around for a verification.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even look for that green tick anymore, it's all about the chat and the profile if I meet them or not. In fact I like being the introduction to fab ... hopefully a good one lol. I'm sure I'm not the only one  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We were lucky as it was a friend from the scene already on here that got us to join verified us when we signed up.
Never met anyone not verified I’m afraid don’t want to take the chance as we don’t get much time for meets as it is so don’t want the trouble of arranging one for it not to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many moons ago it was easier to get verified (thankfully that's long since changed) I won mine in a competition, Kelloggs ran at the time.
If you come with expectations of meeting anyone, often. Then it may be a long wait, enjoy it for what it is, otherwise you'll be disappointed and that's not the sites fault. There are many ways to socially meet people, if you apply the same skills you use off this site, to socialise with people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd several social nights before first full proper meet. Depends on local scene whether that's an option. Central belt in Scotland used to have loads on, and lets you know some of the regular faces. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined (10 years ago now) I was verified within the first two weeks. Got bored and deleted though and all those woemn/couples have left the scene. Stick at it will come. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the comments and advice, it’s reassuring to read that some look past the fact people are new and will take the time to still chat, get to know and meet.  |
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I joined years ago but already had friends in the scene, so my first veris were from existing partners, swinging friends etc.
It's not difficult. Get cam verified in the chat rooms. Go to a social. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been made aware of a Leeds social that’s taking place so I’m going to do my best to attend that, I wasn’t really looking for that but thinking about it I’m sure it’ll be a great laugh and great way to get to know new people |
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We met a couple in a club who told us about Fabs. We joined, found them and said hi. They sent us a verification before we knew what they were.
We have met guys at socials and clubs who we have verified, a couple of them, we have been there first verification.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience and perseverance works be respectful and earn each other's trust and people are happy to meet you my first meet gave me a verification a year later lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I have never found it difficult to get verified the first time and I have left and joined. I think sometimes people would rather blame the lack of verification rather than their ability to engage and attract somone |
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"Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance can you remember when you joined ?
We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ? "
Years later i still need couples and women to give me a chance |
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"Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance can you remember when you joined ?
We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ? "
Oh, they do. We all got our first verification from someone. IMO I don't think verifications are that important. |
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