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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?"
For us yes until they had got the all clear and could prove it. Male |
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If they currently had a std then no. If they had contractes something in the past but were now clean. Then yes I would and thank them at the same time for thier honesty. |
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Soo.... Is this that they have had a sexual disease and are now clear? What sexual disease are we talking about?
So if someone has the hsv virus type 2 I would decline. If someone has genital warts but not currently having a flare up again I would probably decline.
If someone has hiv but has a non detectable viral load which means I can't catch it then I would still probably decline because I wouldnt want to put myself at any risk at all if a condom split.
Someone that's had a treatable sti as long as they have been retested to make sure they are no longer infected I will happily meet them (if I was meeting) as means they have been tested. Infact I would rather meet someone like that than someone who never gets tested |
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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?"
Depends on the disease and whether they had been treated/given the all clear. I got chlamydia from my first ever boyfriend. Only found put cos I take my health seriously and got tested. Course of tablets and it was gone. That was nearly 28 yrs ago, so according to some on here they would never meet someone like me. It left me with a legacy that I value my health, play safer and always go for regular testing.
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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?
Depends on the disease and whether they had been treated/given the all clear. I got chlamydia from my first ever boyfriend. Only found put cos I take my health seriously and got tested. Course of tablets and it was gone. That was nearly 28 yrs ago, so according to some on here they would never meet someone like me. It left me with a legacy that I value my health, play safer and always go for regular testing.
Mrs R"
That's the funny thing on this thread. Most people here rarely get tested, and some havent been tested in a LONG time, but they would not sleep with someone who had a treatable STI long time ago. I bet there is a person or two on this thread, who has an STI, but dont have a clue yet  |
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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?
Depends on the disease and whether they had been treated/given the all clear. I got chlamydia from my first ever boyfriend. Only found put cos I take my health seriously and got tested. Course of tablets and it was gone. That was nearly 28 yrs ago, so according to some on here they would never meet someone like me. It left me with a legacy that I value my health, play safer and always go for regular testing.
Mrs R
That's the funny thing on this thread. Most people here rarely get tested, and some havent been tested in a LONG time, but they would not sleep with someone who had a treatable STI long time ago. I bet there is a person or two on this thread, who has an STI, but dont have a clue yet "
Exactly. It's the classic 'holier than tho' mentality playing out. |
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Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated. |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated. "
Yeah, he cheated |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated. "
Did you get tested?
Some STI's have no symptoms in men, not sure if that's one of them. Possible he had it for 10 years and didn't know. Bit weird how he suddenly found out he had it though. |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
It had apparently just became active. We hadn't been having sex at the time as I was really sick. I did get checked anyway just incase. He only told me when we were about to become active again
Did you get tested?
Some STI's have no symptoms in men, not sure if that's one of them. Possible he had it for 10 years and didn't know. Bit weird how he suddenly found out he had it though. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Damn right. I've been bloody lucky in never having caught a thing. If someone was to tell me they had something it sod be an instant block. Wtf.... Why knowingly/willingly pass it on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
It had apparently just became active. We hadn't been having sex at the time as I was really sick. I did get checked anyway just incase. He only told me when we were about to become active again
Did you get tested?
Some STI's have no symptoms in men, not sure if that's one of them. Possible he had it for 10 years and didn't know. Bit weird how he suddenly found out he had it though. "
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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?"
100000000% yes  |
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"If someone who you were going to meet here or anywhere else disclosed that they had a sexual disease would it prevent you from meeting them?
100000000% yes "
Even is it was a past disease and had been treated ? |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated. "
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
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The doctor said that if he had it for years then I should have caught it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
The doctor said that if he had it for years then I should have caught it. "
Not always. Someone can have a disease and someone else not contract it. It's rare but has been heard of |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
The doctor said that if he had it for years then I should have caught it.
Not always. Someone can have a disease and someone else not contract it. It's rare but has been heard of "
Ten years of bareback. I somehow doubt it  |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
The doctor said that if he had it for years then I should have caught it.
Not always. Someone can have a disease and someone else not contract it. It's rare but has been heard of
Ten years of bareback. I somehow doubt it "
I doubt it too, but some will go for treatment and stick to the i didn’t cheat mantra and the doc will say well it could be dormant because it’s always a possibility, even now we still are not exact in sexual diseases |
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"Was just a question that was on my mind. My now ex husband came home from the doctors one day to announce that he had chlamydia . He tried to tell me it must have been dormant from before he met me. We were together 10 years. To this day he still insists he never cheated.
Rare but can happen I’ve seen some nasty stuff with chlamydia, one teste basically so infected it has been the size of a child and other one was perfect
The doctor said that if he had it for years then I should have caught it.
Not always. Someone can have a disease and someone else not contract it. It's rare but has been heard of
Ten years of bareback. I somehow doubt it
I doubt it too, but some will go for treatment and stick to the i didn’t cheat mantra and the doc will say well it could be dormant because it’s always a possibility, even now we still are not exact in sexual diseases"
He said if had contacted years before he had no idea till the day he found out. He was adamant that he must have always had it or I had cheated and gave it to him. |
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Someone who’s been brutally honest and told you the unvarnished truth?
At least you know what you’re getting into with them. Most it’s an unknown quantity.
I’d admire their honesty, have a grown up conversation with them, weigh up the risks and make a decision based on that. They would also be someone I felt I could trust and it would certainly be a big step towards a friendship. |
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I’ve had another thought
Yes they are honest and that’s brilliant but why on earth would someone with a sex desease want to have sex in the first place when they know they are a risk to someone
I wouldn’t even consider it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone who’s been brutally honest and told you the unvarnished truth?
At least you know what you’re getting into with them. Most it’s an unknown quantity.
I’d admire their honesty, have a grown up conversation with them, weigh up the risks and make a decision based on that. They would also be someone I felt I could trust and it would certainly be a big step towards a friendship. "
That's an interesting way of looking at it I guess. |
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