I (Luke) have become a bit bi-curious over the last year, to my surprise, having always previously considered myself completely straight. It's very mild and I wouldn't go very far but it's definitely there.
Where is a good place to find somebody to experiment a little with who would respect my boundaries? I tried a couple of apps specifically aimed at gay men and I find that often men are outraged I'm not ready to just bend over and receive. I don't want to try a sauna because I would rather be able to read and filter profiles and spend time finding the right person.
Any suggestions? Craigslist would have been great but their personals section is no more. Is this site any good? |
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"I (Luke) have become a bit bi-curious over the last year, to my surprise, having always previously considered myself completely straight. It's very mild and I wouldn't go very far but it's definitely there.
Where is a good place to find somebody to experiment a little with who would respect my boundaries? I tried a couple of apps specifically aimed at gay men and I find that often men are outraged I'm not ready to just bend over and receive. I don't want to try a sauna because I would rather be able to read and filter profiles and spend time finding the right person.
Any suggestions? Craigslist would have been great but their personals section is no more. Is this site any good? "
Get chatting to other couples here, I'm sure they're are lots of men who are in a similar position or would understand and "be happy to help"....We find that by chatting to people on here, we can all get a good idea of wether we are likely to be compatible or not...for various reasons , alot of people don't want to label their sexuality so never assume someone is 100% straight etc ...anyone worth chatting to will let you know I guess  |
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I agree, chatting on here is good.
Getting to know someone.
I certainly wouldn't meet someone bi curious as a couple, only single until I knew them
Purely in case they think that by saying that they can back out of that bit and get in her pants
Call me cinical |
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There are lots of men here who are bi, gay and curious, so you've got a wide selection of people to find a good match with. There are also swingers clubs that have bi events, so you'd be able to go partnered, then get to know others and potentially move into some action, if you get to meet the right people. |
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i was imn a similar position .never considered the bi side until we started going to clubs seeing mrs with other girls and enjoying it.and playing with cples
in close proximity to other guys gave me feelings urges i hadnt experienced before
so we went to a bi night at a club
(chams) its ace .got speeking to a guy and hey presto .so i would agree with above a bi club night would be best |
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Damn beat me to it, you seriously need to go to a Bi Night as that’s is perfect for what you’re looking for. I know Club Sx, are checking people’s profiles to ensure they are bi, before adding them to the guest list. So you’re almost certain to be with the right crowd.
Anal is not always part of guy on guy fun either, so don’t feel pressured into doing anything you’re not comfortable with  |
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I think I did it the wrong way around: sauna a few times, then a club, then couples in my bed.
However it did give me a space without a woman watching (which may have freaked me a bit initially), and now I know a woman's enhances the whole thing for me. |
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