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By *D04 OP Couple
over a year ago
Leigh |
Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing... |
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This is the swipe generation so I suppose people think the direct approach is fine, personally I can’t ever see it working with the majority but catch a desperately horny or lonely person at the right time it could be possibly
Not my thing |
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By *D04 OP Couple
over a year ago
Leigh |
"Lots of people who go to clubs meet without even one message or getting to know each other."
Clubs are a little different. You wouldnt just walk up to someone and start getting down to it without any interaction. So why should an online approach be any different |
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By *D04 OP Couple
over a year ago
Leigh |
"This is the swipe generation so I suppose people think the direct approach is fine, personally I can’t ever see it working with the majority but catch a desperately horny or lonely person at the right time it could be possibly
Glad we're not the only ones then!
Not my thing "
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I've had people who have sent a million messages and then proved to be no shows or fantasists.
I've had people I've exchanged a handful of messages with ,arranged to meet and had an explosive time.
Horses for courses and if that doesn't work for you that's fine.
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"Lots of people who go to clubs meet without even one message or getting to know each other.
Clubs are a little different. You wouldnt just walk up to someone and start getting down to it without any interaction. So why should an online approach be any different "
For me it wouldn't be any different but I guess for some people it is. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Lots of people who go to clubs meet without even one message or getting to know each other.
Clubs are a little different. You wouldnt just walk up to someone and start getting down to it without any interaction. So why should an online approach be any different "
I've actually seen it happen in club a where exactly that took place - for example a couple playing on a bed next to another couple - one reaches out a hand and before you know it they're a foursome.
As someone else said it *is* horses for courses though - some people relish the immediacy and excitement of meeting off a couple of messages, others prefer getting to know each other.
Neither way is wrong, the only right way is the way we each as individuals choose to do it  |
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"On here no. In clubs. Yes .. attraction and feeling relaxed enough to play with whoever makes you feel at ease makes the difference.
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Your profile is wow in a very good way... off topic but thought I’d share my thoughts hahha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few meets from only exchanging a couple of messages, nsa fun is what it says on the tin."
There is a safety aspect to NSA especially for lone females x
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My last meet was effectively after 'one' message - it was direct invitation from a husband to visit that night to play with his wife...
....the subsequent couple of messages were simply arranging a time and directions to their house...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing... "
It’s not rare at all we get around 10-15 a day like this, there slowly getting less though as we block the people who send them. Our profile states we can’t do short notice meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing... "
It has worked for me, why does it make your ‘skin crawl’ are you over sensitive?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing... "
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing...
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !!"
Fair enough, it does work for some people though, if you are getting these messages then maybe you should change your profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing...
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !!
Fair enough, it does work for some people though, if you are getting these messages then maybe you should change your profile "
Or maybe people should read it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing...
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !!
Fair enough, it does work for some people though, if you are getting these messages then maybe you should change your profile
Or maybe people should read it?"
Some do, some don’t but if you want people to make an effort with a message you need to make an effort with your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not.
And no, I'm not changing my profile because people are lazy, stupid, chancers, or all of the above. "
Do as you please, just as the people sending you ‘fancy a fuck’ messages are doing as they please  |
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"Absolutely not.
And no, I'm not changing my profile because people are lazy, stupid, chancers, or all of the above.
Do as you please, just as the people sending you ‘fancy a fuck’ messages are doing as they please "
And they'll get precisely nowhere. Consequences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing...
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !!
Fair enough, it does work for some people though, if you are getting these messages then maybe you should change your profile
Or maybe people should read it?
Some do, some don’t but if you want people to make an effort with a message you need to make an effort with your profile "
Pretty sure we have? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely not.
And no, I'm not changing my profile because people are lazy, stupid, chancers, or all of the above.
Do as you please, just as the people sending you ‘fancy a fuck’ messages are doing as they please
And they'll get precisely nowhere. Consequences. "
They don’t care, no consequences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually meet after one message?
It's rare these day to get a a message that isn't words to the effect of 'Wanna meet tonight?'
The idea of meeting someone that thinks that's appropriate makes my skin crawl...
The pure lack of effort to get to know us is disappointing...
Couldn't agree more with you. We grow tired of them. Shows a complete lack of effort. Does nothing for us especially when its obvious they have not read the profile. Do these guys really think they will arouse interest from a one liner. No it doesn't get us going at all. we just delete them !!
Fair enough, it does work for some people though, if you are getting these messages then maybe you should change your profile
Or maybe people should read it?
Some do, some don’t but if you want people to make an effort with a message you need to make an effort with your profile
Pretty sure we have?"
I am sure you have, but you can’t please everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here no. In clubs. Yes .. attraction and feeling relaxed enough to play with whoever makes you feel at ease makes the difference.
Your profile is wow in a very good way... off topic but thought I’d share my thoughts hahha"
Thank you |
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