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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a guy who wants to be my slave. This is all new to both of us as I'm not naturally a domme but he, he says, is naturally submissive. He lives in London and I'm in Liverpool so any tasks I give him cannot involve doing anything in person. So far I have told him to wear pink knickers for the day and to send me photographs throughout the day to prove it to me. I would welcome any suggestions of tasks I can give him to prove his obedience? |
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Everything he does has to be self inflicted. But it's about your control.
So he should only orgasm with your permission. But to increase the tension he should feel turned on.
So how about making him wear a butt plug or cock-ring to work.
Love the previous suggestion about the web cam as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of things spring to mind but search for a CB3000 and have him in chastity; you can then send him a key as and when you believe he has earnt release.
A webcam is always a good investment for you both; it is all about control.
Cumming into a glass is always a good one, not too many like that although the cucks may disagree lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of things spring to mind but search for a CB3000 and have him in chastity; you can then send him a key as and when you believe he has earnt release.
A webcam is always a good investment for you both; it is all about control.
Cumming into a glass is always a good one, not too many like that although the cucks may disagree lol." its not for him to like now is it , lol i would also tell him to get a blow up sex doll ... can on ebay for not alot .. and have him have sex on cam in lots of ways with doll ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am a slave that is often managed over distance.. I get tasks.. sometimes photo ones.. sometimes written ones..
Its all about making them feel that even when your not there that you are in control.. this I never doubt.
To help with the control aspect I have things that I have to do.. Like my Master will pick my clothes for play meets... I have emails that have to be sent by certain times etc.. with certain details in..and I keep a journal.. My journal is a big tool to my Master watching for any issues.
My tasks can be many things.. for instance.. this week.. its to get photos with the theme.. Upskirt shots... I have to write a report on how I do it... and will often write a report on how I plan to do it..and keep my Master updated on my progress..
It isnt easy to keep this type of relationship working over distance but it is certainly possible..
I to add to the complications in our life am not naturally submissive.. So we gave up the idea a long time ago of getting someone to come and Dominate me.. as my natural inclination with other men and women is to dominate them.
good luck
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you all so much, so far, for your suggestions. I love the thought of making him drink his own cum (he has told me he's never tasted it) and of him writing reports for me.
I have discovered the 'you are allowed to be turned on but you can't cum until I say' and it's working nicely. He is an obedient slave so far. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
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I have made my sub play with himself to nearing coming 3 times a day for 4 days before he saw me but not come at any point, until I would then take him there at my leisure when we did meet. He also had to message me before and after and think of me.
He also had to go and buy a strap on from a sex shop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Given he lives in London, there is a large gay-orientated sex shop in Oldgate and I was once given the task to go in there and buy a inflatable butt plug but I had to ask one of the assistants to show them to me. I wanted to die but did it and earned my reward; the killer but was to leave my phone one while I did it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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wee play ... have the pint glass ready. In the day get him drinking pints of drink and weeing in glass ... in front of you on cam .. Also send him some of your dirty pants .. you can make him have them on to go to work in .... i like croch out one for men too ... look lovely when hard ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i had to buy ladies personal stuff ,
tampons , bra knickers then when at the cashier ask if they would fit me , my mistress would watch from a few rows away |
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