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How long as it been for you?

By *hat The Cuck OP Couple over a year ago

South London

Today marks 17 months since we last had a meet.

Just curious how long has it been for others or how long in between meets and reasons for the lack of fun?

Ours is because we’ve been paying off a very expensive family holiday which is fast approaching so sacrifices had to be made as we still had to keep the children entertained.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 months for me I think

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By *uxinteriorMan over a year ago

south west , continental

Since my last verification, I have had socials since though.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

Not met anyone for play since November

Main reason as that meet turned out to be a complete psycho causing all sorts of problems. Not only was it upsetting it really knocked my confidence of my judging of character and brought on anxiety issues (crazy but true)

Was only last month I ventured to a party - only social but feel I’m ready to enjoy swinging again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couple of months

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By *uckslut and MCouple over a year ago

Poole

18 days, was last meet. Almost as long sinse I've last has sex. My fella is away, bot back till 10th June. My hole will of closed up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been 6mths maybe since I met anyone from fabs???

Work has been manic and although I’m in often I just haven’t had the time to arrange to meet

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By *andAukCouple over a year ago

leeds

7 months for us. Just so busy with other life commitments. Not for us wanting to though.

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By *illingVicMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Forever. Never had a non-social meet through fab - not that I’m complaining! That one person I met for coffee wasn’t even intended to be a precursor to shenanigans, just making a new friend - and we still see each other even though she left the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 3 months for us. Real life gets in the way but we always said we don't want this to take over our relationship and lives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would gladly change that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 months since I've last had some fun

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By *erts_darlings1Couple over a year ago

watford

Not popped our 2019 cherries yet, life and stuff get in the way but who knows what's round the corner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 hours or so

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"18 days, was last meet. Almost as long sinse I've last has sex. My fella is away, bot back till 10th June. My hole will of closed up

TMI lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not met anyone for play since November

Was only last month I ventured to a party - only social but feel I’m ready to enjoy swinging again

So sorry to hear that. One bad egg can do a lot of damage, glad you're getting back into it.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

"9 hours or so"

Ooooo look at you

February since our last party.

April since our last "find and fuck" session in Lisbon.

So April for us but we're really busy on the personal life stuff and don't have the time or resources to get out atm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 hours or so"

You're welcome dude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 9 hours or so,for me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"About 9 hours or so,for me too"

Oh if we could add a music on messages I would add careless Whisper to this one !

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By *eachPreacherMan over a year ago

Kent/London

Over a year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well over a year, met one girl in her mid 30s a couple of times, started saying love you, so I left. No meets since....

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

About 2 months and it's down to a few things...

Lack of effort on my behalf

Distance

Not much chemistry in the conversations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 months. Got a social tonight, really looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a meet last night in London while I was working there /)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't remember

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By *andm288Couple over a year ago

oxford

Too long plenty of socials but no play meets for over a year

As a couple we find it’s difficult to find another couple that we both want to play with

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have a couple of friends I see regularly so I don't class them as 'meets' anymore

Last social meet, 5wks ago.

Last new meet, August 2018.. Then he moved into the friend catorgary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not met anyone for play since November

Was only last month I ventured to a party - only social but feel I’m ready to enjoy swinging again

That's shit...glad to hear you're feeling yourself again, after what doesn't sound like a fun experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last party was 5 days ago (great party), social 2 weeks before that, previous party just over a month ago, goto regular socials every month.. Have a friend I see 3-4 times a week.

Out tonight in the car with friend hopefully and planning a MFM meet for next Friday with my friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 or 5 months lost track x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About a month I think but it's choice and life commitments tbf

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple over a year ago

bedford

About a year menopause causing havoc. But hope to be playing again soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 months ish since our (OH and I) last meet/club trip.

3 months since we saw each other and played at all.

Yes. I'm ready to spontaneously combust. But he's back in a couple of weeks

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

A little over a month for a new meet from Fab, but I do have reliable friends I see on a regular basis

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

A couple of weeks for a new meet, less for someone I know well. I don't tend to meet many new folk - a combination of time, lack of desire to or for others.

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

It’s been about 2 months I think. My schedule is tough and I only meet people who score 99% or higher on my test

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By *otnew16Man over a year ago

Dartford

It’s been 11 months since I met the most amazing couple, met the vixen 3/4 times alone and met as a threesome in a hotel locally once for the most incredible evening of fun and sexual pleasure!

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By *exysinnersCouple over a year ago

Somewhere in the South West

About 5 years, but we're ready to have fun in Portugal next week and we're both really looking forward to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a meet for some reason

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By *reddy96Man over a year ago

scunthorpe

Least 2yrs. Prob cos a trucker and my small frame

oh and been hairy

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By *inandRussianCouple over a year ago

lymm

Few months but want to get 1 arranged in next couple of weeks with a bit of luck xx

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By *wo4FemCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

We've not had a meet since March. Seem to have hit a brick wall. No doubt it'll turn around at some point.

Mr2

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By * Town CoupleCouple over a year ago

walsall

Too long ... real life always seems to get in the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 months for us. But we have meet up with a good friend a few times since then. No sex though

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By *randnew23sumsCouple over a year ago

Lancashire

Way too long for a play meet. Had a few socials but then they seem to vanish off fab!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over a month. Gonna change it tomorrow

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By *reddy96Man over a year ago

scunthorpe

"Too long ... real life always seems to get in the way "
always the problem that it'll sort it's self in the end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well over a year. Partially down to injury, partially because not being on here that much and partially because even arranging a social proves difficult atm.

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

Over a year, for many vanilla reasons but hoping to change this on Friday night at Hellfire

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Not met anyone for play since November

Was only last month I ventured to a party - only social but feel I’m ready to enjoy swinging again

That's shit...glad to hear you're feeling yourself again, after what doesn't sound like a fun experience. "

No it wasn’t , 7 years I’ve been on here and met my fair share of crazies as well as fantastic people but he took the biscuit

Shared a private video of our meet with people I know just to show off

Also was in a relationship with another fab member , met me behind their back and without my knowledge and left me to pick up the pieces

Def a ‘c u next Tuesday’ kinda guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 weeks for me. The morning after my last meet I broke several ribs (nothing to do with the meet, 'twas cycling)

I'm fully fit and ready to play again now though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably not a good sign that I can't remember, so I'm going to say a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My last veri. My free time since then has been taken up by my fucking period.

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By *averockrockMan over a year ago

swindon

Too long on Fab but the other day outside fab!

like my meetings!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost a year for me. But looking to get back into the swing of things now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time I played was Friday last week in abfabs .. before that it was the week before... And the week before ... Lol

I go through phases of fun and phrases of being completely vanilla for months on end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two weeks! Two whole blinking weeks until last night. Hoping my next arrangement doesn’t fall apart, otherwise it will be three blinking weeks.

There will be a lot of ‘blinking’.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On Fab, around 3 weeks. In ‘real’ life, Saturday and hopefully tomorrow with a FwB....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think it's about a year and a half

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By *ina teaspoonWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire

About 2 and a half years... Fell into a very vanilla relationship!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 18 months but we plan on changing that when we get back from holidays.

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

My last meet was through another site, and was two years, 11 weeks and five days ago...

....not that I'm counting!

It's not for want of trying - circumstances make things difficult...

....the 'interest' that I have had for potential meets either came to nothing, or turned out to be fakes/timewasters...

....and even during a week when I was free evenings/nights and able to travel, I still couldn't find a playmate...

I live in hope, as always, however!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beginning of January, before that it was 5 years since the previous one.

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By *arkhorse66Man over a year ago

bristol

Had a fantastic week, social with a lovely couple last Saturday, meet with my regular playmate on Monday and a great second meet with a fantastic couple on Tuesday.

Can’t say that’s typical though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not met anyone for play since November

Was only last month I ventured to a party - only social but feel I’m ready to enjoy swinging again

That's shit...glad to hear you're feeling yourself again, after what doesn't sound like a fun experience.

No it wasn’t , 7 years I’ve been on here and met my fair share of crazies as well as fantastic people but he took the biscuit

Shared a private video of our meet with people I know just to show off

Also was in a relationship with another fab member , met me behind their back and without my knowledge and left me to pick up the pieces

Def a ‘c u next Tuesday’ kinda guy

I couldn't wait until next Tuesday tbh. In all seriousness, he sounds a knob though.

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By *hynotAndyJohnsMan over a year ago

Harlesden

5 days ago, met a lovely lady who's not on Fab, from an advert on another website , Twice now.

As for fab i guess it's been a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A week and a half

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Month or so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since last meet around 5 months. Reason is that I just have shit luck on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last Monday, he was lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yesterday it was lunch with desert

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By *Stoke171285Man over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just over 2 weeks ago for me

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

Over a year since i met a fab lady for sex. Too busy with my wives and friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I'm still a bit in shock at my last one I was so convinced it was a catfish situation that when the actual gorgeous lady in the picture turned up I was thinking praise the church of Fab, I shall never doubt you again old friend x

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By *eorge JetsonMan over a year ago

Middlesbrough

As a couple

Over a year.

JJ has regular meets a couple of times a week by herself at clubs but as a couple, people aren't interested.

And my attitude with this is just because people don't want to meet us as a couple because they aren't "into" me why should I deny her any fun and company.

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By *ickey40Man over a year ago

Leicester

For me three years. It ain't easy for guys. Send lots of messages though.

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By *alking HeadMan over a year ago

Bolton

3 weeks since a meet with my regular guy and some other lads.

Over two years since a meet with a woman or mf couple. But I very rarely message anyone anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Roughly six months ish, I think.