"I struggling for meets got 3/4 to meet tonight and she cancels what can I do to get myself more meets and stop ppl
Cancelling "
You got three quarters of what, a woman?
Perhaps ask her to bring her legs next time then she'll turn up |
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"No 3/4 of way to meet before and cancelled and blocked me for no reason  "
I think the ultimate action of the other person proves you were never 3/4s of the way to a meet other then in your own head sorry.. |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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If you were on the site before then you would know what to do. The same as you did last time to get meets. If you were a woman posting this then all it would do is make me think you are prepared to fuck anyone just to get a meet. That would make me run a mile straight away. You are but just another needle in the haystack like the rest of us. Be yourself and the right people will come your way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's really unfair cancelling when you were almost there  . Unfortunately it happens on here and you need to do your due diligence before arranging to meet someone, I should think pretty much everyone has had a no show at some point on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah had a few last time I was on xx how can make my profile better x "
Personally, unless you sent me some photos of yourself, even body or clothed ones, with a first message I probably wouldn't reply unless it really caught my attention. I know some people really value their discretion but there's enough other men on here that I probably wouldn't persevere talking to a silhouette. Your profile is a bit generic too, it doesn't really tell me much about you, I like a bit of sense of humour - there's some really good profiles of men who use the forum regularly if you need a bit of inspiration.
That's just me though, everyone seems to use the site differently  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Couple of questions for you OP - how long between starting chatting to this person and agreeing to meet, and how long between starting chatting and the meet itself?
What steps did you take to check this person was genuine and as invested in meeting you as you thought they were?
Do you actually know this person was a woman?
Reason for asking is from what I have seen in similar situations, all too often the problem is guys get a sniff of a meet and lose all sense of rationale and checking that the person at the other end of the message string is both who they say they are, and genuine ab9ut meeting - so be honest with yourself and if you fall into that category, there's your answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you were on the site before then you would know what to do. The same as you did last time to get meets. If you were a woman posting this then all it would do is make me think you are prepared to fuck anyone just to get a meet. That would make me run a mile straight away. You are but just another needle in the haystack like the rest of us. Be yourself and the right people will come your way. "
your last sentence is so true
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