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over a year ago
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Hi I'm really new to all this, but have been given the opportunity to try pegging. Any advice would be greatly received.whats the best strap-on to use for your first time? Harness? No harness? The best size? What are your experiences of this?? |
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Requirements;
Lube, thick gel water based will work well of anal.
Latex/rubber/pvc/plastic Gloves or very well kept very short nails.
Anal douche - gotta clean that sucker first!
Anal starter kit - Selection of anal toys of varying sizes.
Beginners strap on kit - Comes with harness and possibly a couple of sizes of harness dildos and securing rings.
Start small. Communicate lots. Relax, time and patience..
Happy strap-on fucking..
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"Requirements;
Lube, thick gel water based will work well of anal.
Latex/rubber/pvc/plastic Gloves or very well kept very short nails.
Anal douche - gotta clean that sucker first!
Anal starter kit - Selection of anal toys of varying sizes.
Beginners strap on kit - Comes with harness and possibly a couple of sizes of harness dildos and securing rings.
Start small. Communicate lots. Relax, time and patience..
Happy strap-on fucking..
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As above... But don't dive straight in with the strap on...lots of foreplay and take your time.. Rimming.. Then maybe a finger (with lots of lube) get him used to the sensation... Have you any anal beads with varying sizes again they help stretch and get used to the feeling... Then when he's ready start with a small dildo first and once used to that then move up sizes... Its all about fun so relax and enjoy and communicate  |
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Would suggest the following.
Don't go too big too soon. I have play mates who can take my arm past my elbow up their arses. Not a nice feeling for me, and I'm sure in later years they will have a prolapse.
So, not junk food for 12-24 hrs before the session. Eat Weetabix or bran for breakfast. go to the loo approximately an hour before. Follow this, and there's no need for douching.
Use a nice lube like super slik, if nothing else it tastes nice. Try a finger, but covered especially if you use contact lenses. Personally I hate a finger because I've been scratched.
Toys, only use butt plugs (dildos with large flat bases), it'll save a trip to A&E.
Try a number of toys, maybe one a bit longer, thicker than a finger to start. DON'T ram the thing in. Present to the anus, push slightly, then allow long, slow breathing, and the toy will slowly enter. I never, ever push. The angle determines how much pleasure is gained.
If you're doing full strapon, don't get a harness with elastic, as it dulls the reaction time. I had mine made bespoke for me. Very soft leather, well sown, therefore with 10 years of strapon, still looks good.
Position is up to you, but easier for me as a short person, I have the guys generally on their backs so I can see if they are struggling, I can lube them and wank them, they can spunk over my boobs.
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We use a harness bought from a specific ladies shop in London. The quality has been fantastic and it's still wonderfully comfortable right years on.
The advice in the post above is perfect.
Have fun, take your time and be patient x |
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