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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Essentially for me it is the traditional car keys in a bowl type thing. I prefer the couples nights and arranged party nights in clubs. I feel comfortable, I like the atmosphere and social side of the scene.
Over time I have realised I'm not a fan of the simple "want a fuck?" type emails from randoms. That type of swinging stresses me out more than getting any pleasure.
What's your definition of swinging? There's no right or wrong answers here, just answers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recreational, non-monogamous sex with an element of socialising with like minded people. So not just casual fuckery and definitely not limited to couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recreational, non-monogamous sex with an element of socialising with like minded people. So not just casual fuckery and definitely not limited to couples."
I love that phrase "casual fuckery" ... sums it up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure that a single who is not in a committed relationship can be called a swinger as they are not bringing a partner to the party. Isn't it defined as partner swapping? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure that a single who is not in a committed relationship can be called a swinger as they are not bringing a partner to the party. Isn't it defined as partner swapping?"
Yep...bring your own bottle, if you want to drink at a swingers party. |
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For us, it's finding the right people and playing together. As OP says, we are also not fans of the "meet us now, before we even see your faces " brigade...it's an extension of our kinky side with like minded people x |
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Recreational sex without any emotional attachments. We prefer to swap partners with other like-minded couples and enjoy the social side too, but we do enjoy sex with total strangers in clubs, the anonymity has a certain basic appeal. The combinations vary depending on the opportunities and our moods, anything from swapped one-on-ones to large group play, particularly when she's in GG mode. We think monogamy isn't natural and are glad to see so many others agree. |
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swinger
/'sw???/
plural noun: swingers
1.
INFORMAL
a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.
"one of the oldest swingers in town"
2.
INFORMAL
a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping"
For me being social and exploring your and if you have a partners sexuality and boundaries and being open minded about all sort of sexual activities  |
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"Recreational, non-monogamous sex with an element of socialising with like minded people. So not just casual fuckery and definitely not limited to couples.
That sum's it up for us as well.
Mr.S"
Yep. Pretty accurate for us too |
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