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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dan here, me and Sarah went to a club Isis for our first time last night. We first walked in and was very nervous1 But we got a drink played some pool and we started to feel at ease. There was very few people in last night (sat) but think that helped probably.
I then built enough courage up to get naked and put a robe on. Sarah was feeling fine by the end of the night but still wanted to keep her clothes on, she says she will be stripping off the next time though 
I went through to the play room at the back to watch some girl on girl action. I was great.
I loved every moment of it, and Sarah enjoyed herself too. We're hoping to be there next fri night.. the train is expensive though 
I'd love to try more clubs and go to a club tonight.. you never know it could happen is there any other good club nearish to york?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can offer advice now when people post saying they are nervous about their first visit to a club!
Glad you enjoyed it.
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We sure can
we'd love to know of other clubs near by :D |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"You can offer advice now when people post saying they are nervous about their first visit to a club!
Glad you enjoyed it.
We sure can
we'd love to know of other clubs near by :D"
Have you had a look at the Clubs section on here?
I know Youtopia is in your part of the world. La Chambre at Sheffield. |
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la chambre is a friendly, well managed place. downstairs is like a sociable pub with a dancefloor, upstairs are the playrooms and theres also a dungeon.
i think you'd enjoy it, i frequently recommend it for firstimers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"la chambre is a friendly, well managed place. downstairs is like a sociable pub with a dancefloor, upstairs are the playrooms and theres also a dungeon.
i think you'd enjoy it, i frequently recommend it for firstimers."
yeah it looks excellent, its the travel that our problem :s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare. "
Ah yeah i think is worth the train fare too, adds up as we have to pay £20 entry fee. But is very good fun :D
Am hoping to go along most Fridays now.
Is there often anyone in similar to our age do you know? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare.
Ah yeah i think is worth the train fare too, adds up as we have to pay £20 entry fee. But is very good fun :D
Am hoping to go along most Fridays now.
Is there often anyone in similar to our age do you know? "
If you get there before 9pm its £10 to get in for a couple.
As for people's ages, I don't often see young couples, but I have seen them! Its mostly single guys who are the young 'uns. There were about 4 guys under 30 on Friday. Only managed to play with one though!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare. "
I presume you get the taxi from the station to Isis? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare.
Ah yeah i think is worth the train fare too, adds up as we have to pay £20 entry fee. But is very good fun :D
Am hoping to go along most Fridays now.
Is there often anyone in similar to our age do you know?
If you get there before 9pm its £10 to get in for a couple.
As for people's ages, I don't often see young couples, but I have seen them! Its mostly single guys who are the young 'uns. There were about 4 guys under 30 on Friday. Only managed to play with one though! "
Ahh excellent, there often many women in there? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare.
Ah yeah i think is worth the train fare too, adds up as we have to pay £20 entry fee. But is very good fun :D
Am hoping to go along most Fridays now.
Is there often anyone in similar to our age do you know?
If you get there before 9pm its £10 to get in for a couple.
As for people's ages, I don't often see young couples, but I have seen them! Its mostly single guys who are the young 'uns. There were about 4 guys under 30 on Friday. Only managed to play with one though!
Ahh excellent, there often many women in there?"
I'm afraid its an unknown quantity. If I said there were 10 single women on the night I went, sods law decrees that it would just be half a dozen dirty old men the evening you go. There's never a way to guess either. Friday night started very quiet. By midnight it was pretty full with a nice cross section, including a few TS's!
Best thing to do is go regularly, don't expect anything, and get to know us. We're quite nice really. Also, if you pop on the club website (google Isis Quest) they have their own forum and you can post things like 'We'll be there so and so night. Any young fit couples coming along?'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive... "
Ahh yeah, would love to try there but we cnt drive sadly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was at Isis Friday night. It was quiet at first but filled up by the end. I go most Fridays and reckon its worth the £12 return train fare.
Ah yeah i think is worth the train fare too, adds up as we have to pay £20 entry fee. But is very good fun :D
Am hoping to go along most Fridays now.
Is there often anyone in similar to our age do you know?
If you get there before 9pm its £10 to get in for a couple.
As for people's ages, I don't often see young couples, but I have seen them! Its mostly single guys who are the young 'uns. There were about 4 guys under 30 on Friday. Only managed to play with one though!
Ahh excellent, there often many women in there?
I'm afraid its an unknown quantity. If I said there were 10 single women on the night I went, sods law decrees that it would just be half a dozen dirty old men the evening you go. There's never a way to guess either. Friday night started very quiet. By midnight it was pretty full with a nice cross section, including a few TS's!
Best thing to do is go regularly, don't expect anything, and get to know us. We're quite nice really. Also, if you pop on the club website (google Isis Quest) they have their own forum and you can post things like 'We'll be there so and so night. Any young fit couples coming along?' "
Thanks loads, think you need to be a member to get into forum. Sadly when we arrived there were no membership forms to fill out left so we cdnt become a member but we still got in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive...
Ahh yeah, would love to try there but we cnt drive sadly"
Try get a lift, there are other couples from around here that go... Maybe worth a shot? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks loads, think you need to be a member to get into forum. Sadly when we arrived there were no membership forms to fill out left so we cdnt become a member but we still got in "
There is a members area on their forums (I'm a member but never worked out how to get on there) but non-members can post. Just a useful addition if you feel the need to let people know you're going. You can post on the meet request forum here too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive...
Ahh yeah, would love to try there but we cnt drive sadly
Try get a lift, there are other couples from around here that go... Maybe worth a shot?"
Yeah deffs, we just need to make some good friends around here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks loads, think you need to be a member to get into forum. Sadly when we arrived there were no membership forms to fill out left so we cdnt become a member but we still got in
There is a members area on their forums (I'm a member but never worked out how to get on there) but non-members can post. Just a useful addition if you feel the need to let people know you're going. You can post on the meet request forum here too. "
Ahh useful, thanks for the advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive...
Ahh yeah, would love to try there but we cnt drive sadly
Try get a lift, there are other couples from around here that go... Maybe worth a shot?
Yeah deffs, we just need to make some good friends around here "
We'll be there next sat night if you can get there and want a helping hand for your first time... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're in York also - over the years we have tried most of the clubs within reasonable distance from here and out of them all la Chambre is our one of choice - a really good mix of people and the we have noticed the number of young couples steadily grow over the years... prices are also good - £25 on a sat couple / single female only night, it's well worth the 1 hour drive...
Ahh yeah, would love to try there but we cnt drive sadly
Try get a lift, there are other couples from around here that go... Maybe worth a shot?
Yeah deffs, we just need to make some good friends around here
We'll be there next sat night if you can get there and want a helping hand for your first time..."
aww thanks! I will talk to Sarah and see if she is up to it. We are very shy couple at the moment so forgive us if we are frigid and don't talk much. Also just so you no bit bout us sadly Sarah isn't bi but I think she may play if another lass starts off with subtle moves. Also she is a larger lass which I know puts some others off. Thank you for the kind offer :D xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'd like some help on rules too, for example if a lady grabs my penis and begins run it while she's been pleasured do I need to stop her before I cum... would it be very rude if I cum and it shot all over her and others around?
How do I know if I'm aloud to cum or not?
Also how do I know if I'm aloud to touch others? Or how do I let a couple or someone else know that I would like to play? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like some help on rules too, for example if a lady grabs my penis and begins run it while she's been pleasured do I need to stop her before I cum... would it be very rude if I cum and it shot all over her and others around?
How do I know if I'm aloud to cum or not?
Also how do I know if I'm aloud to touch others? Or how do I let a couple or someone else know that I would like to play?"
You could always try talking asking, we find that helps
There are no 'rules' as such, everyone is different so just talk to people! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd like some help on rules too, for example if a lady grabs my penis and begins run it while she's been pleasured do I need to stop her before I cum... would it be very rude if I cum and it shot all over her and others around?
How do I know if I'm aloud to cum or not?
Also how do I know if I'm aloud to touch others? Or how do I let a couple or someone else know that I would like to play?
You could always try talking asking, we find that helps
There are no 'rules' as such, everyone is different so just talk to people! "
Ahh thanks, I didn't want to because no one else spoke when plying while I was there, so I thought it's not the right thing to talk about. But I'm guessing thats because they must already know each other. I'm here to learn though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like some help on rules too, for example if a lady grabs my penis and begins run it while she's been pleasured do I need to stop her before I cum... would it be very rude if I cum and it shot all over her and others around?
How do I know if I'm aloud to cum or not?
Also how do I know if I'm aloud to touch others? Or how do I let a couple or someone else know that I would like to play?"
As with most situations in life "communication" is the key.
Try to hide your shyness by putting on a brave front, It'll get easier the more times you do it until it becomes the norm.......It worked for me.
Also, try asking on the forums if anyone else is driving to Sheffield then offer to go halves with the fuel, these days they may be grateful for the it.
When we used to go we often ended up taking other local swingers with us.
Life's too short for procrastination and its worth a try. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd like some help on rules too, for example if a lady grabs my penis and begins run it while she's been pleasured do I need to stop her before I cum... would it be very rude if I cum and it shot all over her and others around?
How do I know if I'm aloud to cum or not?
Also how do I know if I'm aloud to touch others? Or how do I let a couple or someone else know that I would like to play?
As with most situations in life "communication" is the key.
Try to hide your shyness by putting on a brave front, It'll get easier the more times you do it until it becomes the norm.......It worked for me.
Also, try asking on the forums if anyone else is driving to Sheffield then offer to go halves with the fuel, these days they may be grateful for the it.
When we used to go we often ended up taking other local swingers with us.
Life's too short for procrastination and its worth a try.
XXXX"
Thank you for the help |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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that other option to going south would be to come up to lovely durham/newcastle... and club f... and they have overnight hotel rooms on site for those who want to stay over....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"that other option to going south would be to come up to lovely durham/newcastle... and club f... and they have overnight hotel rooms on site for those who want to stay over......."
ahh is clubF popular? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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same bum.. two different accounts... two different ages on them... very un-nerving...!!!
anyway have a look at the reviews in the clubs section.... and because 3 different train companies do york to durham/newcastle you can find cheap train tickets......
there is my pitch for club f... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"same bum.. two different accounts... two different ages on them... very un-nerving...!!!
anyway have a look at the reviews in the clubs section.... and because 3 different train companies do york to durham/newcastle you can find cheap train tickets......
there is my pitch for club f... lol"
The age should be the same, unless 1 is 22 while the other is 23 as I don't put my actual DOB just incase someone decides to use it for bad reasons, was advice I was given.
Same bum yes, I am the male half and like to have my own profile so I can speak as a single male rather than as a couple.. hope that makes sense.
I am verified.
Thanks for letting me know about clubF |
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You can just use your couples profile and say its you in your post. Having two profiles is only really needed if your going to play alone.
Lots of good advice above.
ClubF, great club. (We should be there in April)
La Chambre, Youtopia, both great clubs.
Isis is very friendly, it hasn't got the faclilties of those above, but it is very laid back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you plan your club visits for say once a month and then you can budget for them. I do I start with accomodation tick that off entrance etc and travel. I would say travelling and going to a swinger club is excellent value for money it is still cheaper than a night in town or a good meal for two plus so much more fun. Chameleons is central based in Darleston, Birmingham I travel from Peterborough. |
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