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Are threesomes better than foursomes?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated! |
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over a year ago
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Foursomes a great as everyone’s involved however we wouldn’t say no to a threesome with the right person.
It’s meets we struggle with.. for example we’re looking for a hot couple to join us Saturday night and have zero interest.
It’s arranging the meet that we find awkward, not the meet itself lol. |
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I think it entirely depends on the people you’re with and the dynamic.
A couple playing with a third can be tricky if too much attention is paid to one person - depends on how secure everyone is.
I’ve had mmf threesomes (straight males) and they generally go off without a hitch - men falling over themselves to prove them self the ‘best’.
I’ve had mff threesones that have been absolutely incredible - but the ladies involved have confessed at different points that they felt slight jealous at certain times during - not massively and not enough to be an issue - but if I’d just made someone cum swapped to someone else and they wanted more...
I think it just depends on the dynamic, honest conversations about expectations and reassurance for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on who with, love HW getting all the attention in a MMF but with cpl last year we were introduced to restraints etc and it meant HW had 3 playing with her at the same time... it was awesome |
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"Much prefer a 4some to a 3some, dynamic works better in our experience xx
Everyone involved, yummy 
Exactly  xx"
Fun for all, MFM is indulgent yes and simple to arrange but dynamics, flirting etc is more one sided as hubby likes just as much fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Much prefer threesomes - somehow find the imbalance very sexy."
Exactly the same here. Concentrating on MissJ getting maximum pleasure and then maybe having some voyeurism etc works wonders for us. And a guilt-free spit-roast is a good thing. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated! "
Spot on this can 100% happen and agreed three is the magic number  |
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I think with a threesome (especially a single playing with a couple) you have to be very careful the no one gets left out or neglected. This may even harder to do with a MFF than MFM. So in that respect foursomes may be arguably easier. But to be regardless of the number of people things mainly rely on the individuals and couples involved. The number of people is not the issuse, the chemistry, communication, attitude, security and to a certain extent experiance of all involved is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both are really hot with the right people , had, some great threesomes and foursomes so both"
Agreed and the build up to it can make all the difference. |
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We prefer 2 couples to threesomes. For us, threesomes got old and we wanted more.
But try for yourself and see what is for you.
Regarding jealously, just avoid anyone like that. Drama takes the fun away. |
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I think it depends on all of the variables, but general for most people I suspect that threesomes work better.
The main reason being that unless all 4 parties are bi there is always going to be a barrier to a fully free flowing play session. In a typical MFMF even where both females are bi that's two participants who don't physically interact.
IMO that's why most MFMFs we have had have been more of a wife swap than a play meet. Which is fine but not exactly what we think of when we think of swinging.
We much prefer three ways, I think I'd even take a MMF over an MFMF. |
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"I think it depends on all of the variables, but general for most people I suspect that threesomes work better.
The main reason being that unless all 4 parties are bi there is always going to be a barrier to a fully free flowing play session. In a typical MFMF even where both females are bi that's two participants who don't physically interact.
IMO that's why most MFMFs we have had have been more of a wife swap than a play meet. Which is fine but not exactly what we think of when we think of swinging.
We much prefer three ways, I think I'd even take a MMF over an MFMF."
From a single woman’s perspective, I agree with this. Prefer odd numbers so it’s not a straight swap - 3 or 5, regardless of what the gender balance is. Haven’t tried 7, that I recall anyway. |
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We prefer MFMF but finding the right couple is a nightmare. (Prefer we’re F is bi so I can have fun with two men and the female!) I don’t want just a straight swap, I prefer us all to have fun! So we have gone with MFM & FFM but even that is almost as difficult as finding a couple. We put meets up and have no interest. |
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"Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated! "
Much prefer MMMF foursomes. |
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