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over a year ago
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Well straight away you are shutting out the largest source of sex by not wanting to meet single guys (and I am the other end of the country so I aint fishing......). As a member of a gender banned from mailing many people it realy does amuse me when people who won't meet me without even getting to know me say that they are finding it dificult to meet.....
I am not looking to be offensive, but your profile is very cluttered too (I know you were told to put more info on it earlier). The pics you have on display, two are good, the third is a bit blury (although that's very nit picky).
Other than that, best of luck |
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"Well straight away you are shutting out the largest source of sex by not wanting to meet single guys (and I am the other end of the country so I aint fishing......). As a member of a gender banned from mailing many people it realy does amuse me when people who won't meet me without even getting to know me say that they are finding it dificult to meet.....
I am not looking to be offensive, but your profile is very cluttered too (I know you were told to put more info on it earlier). The pics you have on display, two are good, the third is a bit blury (although that's very nit picky).
Other than that, best of luck"
but if htey didnt block single blokes, they would STILL not be getting meets, just loads of messages from people they dont want to meet, so whats the point in that?
always gets me when people say they should be given a chance to be gotten to known (if thats even a phrase that means what i want it to mean) when the people have no interest in meeting them anyway |
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"Well straight away you are shutting out the largest source of sex by not wanting to meet single guys (and I am the other end of the country so I aint fishing......). As a member of a gender banned from mailing many people it realy does amuse me when people who won't meet me without even getting to know me say that they are finding it dificult to meet.....
I am not looking to be offensive, but your profile is very cluttered too (I know you were told to put more info on it earlier). The pics you have on display, two are good, the third is a bit blury (although that's very nit picky).
Other than that, best of luck
but if htey didnt block single blokes, they would STILL not be getting meets, just loads of messages from people they dont want to meet, so whats the point in that?
always gets me when people say they should be given a chance to be gotten to known (if thats even a phrase that means what i want it to mean) when the people have no interest in meeting them anyway"
If you read the post, you would see that I would not mail them in any case (if for no other reason that I would not travel 200 miles for a meet unless it were ffm......)
When I refered to banned, it's because I don't mail people who say they don't weant to meet single males. This does not mean blocked....
What I was saying is that if you want meets, don't ignore the largest section of people available to meet you.
If you will only meet single women then you have to accept that you are not going to get many meets, certainly less than if you will meet single women and couples. The second group, in turn, will meet fewer people than those who will meet single women, couples and single men......
I am not suggesting that OP are wrong to not want to meet single men, that's their choice and they are entitled to meet who they want, but if they are not getting many meets, they have to live with the fact that it's their criteria which is restricting their potential pool of partners...... |
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but again, the OP wants to know why people from their criteria do not want to meet, not why people outside of it dont.
your post is irrelavant, imo
its almost like saying 'im looking for a car, but cant find one for the £1000 i have available' and you saying you know where there are plenty, for £20k..... |
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"but again, the OP wants to know why people from their criteria do not want to meet, not why people outside of it dont.
your post is irrelavant, imo
its almost like saying 'im looking for a car, but cant find one for the £1000 i have available' and you saying you know where there are plenty, for £20k....."
on the contrary its saying that the 1000 will buy me dozens of cars but none that I like |
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"but again, the OP wants to know why people from their criteria do not want to meet, not why people outside of it dont.
your post is irrelavant, imo
its almost like saying 'im looking for a car, but cant find one for the £1000 i have available' and you saying you know where there are plenty, for £20k.....on the contrary its saying that the 1000 will buy me dozens of cars but none that I like"
it really isnt you know lol |
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Your profile doesn't actually seem too bad, you have pics of both of you which is a good thing (and a lot of couples don't do this)
I wouldn't refer to Mr as "curvy" though as the description is harder to imagine with a male, though to be fair this is nit-picking!
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"I think georgypeorgy has come up with a briliant idea! If all the single guys who carp about not getting meets met single guys then everyone's happy!!  "
Lol, I don't carp about not having anyone to meet, I carp about people not turning up!!! |
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"Well straight away you are shutting out the largest source of sex by not wanting to meet single guys (and I am the other end of the country so I aint fishing......). As a member of a gender banned from mailing many people it realy does amuse me when people who won't meet me without even getting to know me say that they are finding it dificult to meet.....
I am not looking to be offensive, but your profile is very cluttered too (I know you were told to put more info on it earlier). The pics you have on display, two are good, the third is a bit blury (although that's very nit picky).
Other than that, best of luck"
well i think all has been said really about the no single men thing we did used to have single men unblocked as we know a few have fems can bring occationally etc but it seems not so many are like you and ignore the fact we say no single men and message anyway just wasting our time because im nice and like to answer all messages i was spending over 30 mins a day answering them but thanks for your opinion anyway |
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"We find it hard to find other that want to meet and play
Can anyone tell us why ?
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If I was looking at your profile as per your request, I wouls say it needs grammar and spell checking, to make it read a little easier, but I am being picky!
Also, its good that Mr has a clear face pic, but would be nice if Mrs did too?
I would say less about your kids, just that you choose not to accomodate, as you have them, but again, just being picky....
If you are struggling, I would suggest getting to a social if possible, then you can meet new people to play with, good luck. |
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"Your profile doesn't actually seem too bad, you have pics of both of you which is a good thing (and a lot of couples don't do this)
I wouldn't refer to Mr as "curvy" though as the description is harder to imagine with a male, though to be fair this is nit-picking!
Chin up, everything will work out "
thanks for your message i take your point on curvy not being something a man is usually described as but he picked it himself lol |
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"We find it hard to find other that want to meet and play
Can anyone tell us why ?
If I was looking at your profile as per your request, I wouls say it needs grammar and spell checking, to make it read a little easier, but I am being picky!
Also, its good that Mr has a clear face pic, but would be nice if Mrs did too?
I would say less about your kids, just that you choose not to accomodate, as you have them, but again, just being picky....
If you are struggling, I would suggest getting to a social if possible, then you can meet new people to play with, good luck."
hi and thanks for the message if spelling and grammar matter to people then thats all good they can choose not to meet us lol.I dont really get what you mean about the kids thing i dont think i say anything offensive.theres not a face pic of Angie mostly because i didnt think about it because i spend most of my nights and some daytime on cam in chat rooms so people see what i look like and only put one of tom on because he never really is.we are working on going to socials but they always seem to be too far away and as yet have not arranged one for local area x |
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"Well straight away you are shutting out the largest source of sex by not wanting to meet single guys (and I am the other end of the country so I aint fishing......). As a member of a gender banned from mailing many people it realy does amuse me when people who won't meet me without even getting to know me say that they are finding it dificult to meet.....
I am not looking to be offensive, but your profile is very cluttered too (I know you were told to put more info on it earlier). The pics you have on display, two are good, the third is a bit blury (although that's very nit picky).
Other than that, best of luckwell i think all has been said really about the no single men thing we did used to have single men unblocked as we know a few have fems can bring occationally etc but it seems not so many are like you and ignore the fact we say no single men and message anyway just wasting our time because im nice and like to answer all messages i was spending over 30 mins a day answering them but thanks for your opinion anyway "
You are very welcome, I'm glad you took it in the fasion it was intended good luck xx |
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"We find it hard to find other that want to meet and play
Can anyone tell us why ?
If I was looking at your profile as per your request, I wouls say it needs grammar and spell checking, to make it read a little easier, but I am being picky!
Also, its good that Mr has a clear face pic, but would be nice if Mrs did too?
I would say less about your kids, just that you choose not to accomodate, as you have them, but again, just being picky....
If you are struggling, I would suggest getting to a social if possible, then you can meet new people to play with, good luck.hi and thanks for the message if spelling and grammar matter to people then thats all good they can choose not to meet us lol.I dont really get what you mean about the kids thing i dont think i say anything offensive.theres not a face pic of Angie mostly because i didnt think about it because i spend most of my nights and some daytime on cam in chat rooms so people see what i look like and only put one of tom on because he never really is.we are working on going to socials but they always seem to be too far away and as yet have not arranged one for local area x "
I meant that I think you have given too much info about your kids, but its just my opinion. Not in any offensive way merely in a way that I wouldn't explain quite so much, if it was me.
As for the pics.... if you want more meets then surely you need to widen your audience, so putting a clear face pic up would be for the casual browsing couple who like what they read, and then can see if you are their cup of tea! |
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