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over a year ago
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"thay are being polite and honest, means they dont fancy you..,
but hey at least u get replies, more threads are started about how rude it is not to reply  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.
Lol
Say I'm really 6'5,
the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.
And willy 7" from the floor.
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.... and not curvy, curvy is never a good word for describing a male in my eyes. Sorry. xx |
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"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.
Lol
Say I'm really 6'5,
the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.
And willy 7" from the floor.
.... and not curvy, curvy is never a good word for
describing a male in my eyes. Sorry. xx"
l
Thanks hun.
The curvy has now been deleted.
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Seems polite and acceptable to me. Don't see the problem unless you just didnt expect people on a swinging site to be fussy. Maybe study profiles a little more to find people who are more likely to match with yours. Send nice friendly messages with a face pic and see what happens. Treat it as fun without expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so people complain when they dont get a reply and now complain when they do. "
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Hence I block rather than reply if I have no intention of knowing, let alone playing with that person.
Brutal, yes, however, it works! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone get this message
far too often." your just not our type"
What the fuck?
Ok is it I'm too fat.
Too short.
Ugly.
Only have a 7"er.
Maybe all of the above.
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Most of us have received the 'thanks but your not our type' emails.
Shrug if off and move on....there is someone for everyone on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think focussing on the why's and wherefores is not a good thing as there's so many more people out there that you might be the right person for.
Admittedly sometimes it's like the last straw to get such a thing from people, and you've really got to develop a slightly thicker skin. It's just the same out there in the real world y'know... it's only that there's the possibility of sex involved that makes it more poignant and ego bruising!
Just block as a bad job and move on, plenty more out there!
oh and like the rest said... daubing negatives all over your profile... it's not good. No advertising agency sells a product through negative selling
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If someone takes trouble over a message to us, we reply, even if it's a no thatks (politely). Common manners and we have had rejections. No hard feelings, move on, different tastes, happy swinging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope, i can honestly say i have never had a message from anyone on here saying im not there type
But then i dont mail people first so everyone who i mail have contacted me first so i assum i am their type or they wouldnt mail me lol
oh no saying that ive had a few tell me im a ugly bitch anyway when i have turned them down if that counts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you write to other people you should expect to receive some negetive responses as no one appeals to everyone.
We've been turned down plenty of times, but we never ask for their reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
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i cant see the point in asking why, knowing why they dont want to meet you isnt going to change their minds
I hate it when i say no thanks to people and i get a message back asking why, just seems so desparate, just accept they dont want to meet you and move into someone else instead of wasting your time keep mailing them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i cant see the point in asking why, knowing why they dont want to meet you isnt going to change their minds
I hate it when i say no thanks to people and i get a message back asking why, just seems so desparate, just accept they dont want to meet you and move into someone else instead of wasting your time keep mailing them "
I agree with this one, plus if they were to tell you there reason it might just end up with you getting a complex about it and most people wouldn't want to do that or knock your confidence, but.. at least you are getting replies, so thats a good thing in my thoughts |
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"If someone takes trouble over a message to us, we reply, even if it's a no thatks (politely). Common manners and we have had rejections. No hard feelings, move on, different tastes, happy swinging!"
We got threatened with legal action for basically saying "no thanks" this morning  
(and no, we aren't kidding!).
....back to blocking and deleting messages from people that don't interest us we think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.
Lol
Say I'm really 6'5,
the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.
And willy 7" from the floor.
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It'll take a lot of money to put that face right
Only joking  |
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