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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It's a common phenomenon on here OP - some guys don't like to display their true sexuality - sometimes because they are still coming to terms with it, sometimes because of the stigma associated with it by some, but most of the time they are doing it because they think it will get round the "filters" of those that don't meet bisexual guys, without realising that by doing so they are potentially missing out on a far bigger pool of people that will meet them, or even actively seek them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met quite a few straight lads over the years who just want to get their cock sucked.
But a lot of them are game to return the favour. They just want to experience the feeling of a big cock in their mouth |
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I think a lot of guys put straight on their profile because they think putting bi would lessen their chances with females, I had a meet with a couple MMF on another site, the guy had Straight on the profile but was far from straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hell of a lot of closet cases on here, judging by messages I receive and following verifications on profiles.
I have no problem if they are closeted they may have reasons, although I hate it if they are ranting and raving about bi and gay men yet secretly indulge. That really annoys me, an insult to men who have the balls to face what they are |
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"I've met quite a few straight lads over the years who just want to get their cock sucked.
But a lot of them are game to return the favour. They just want to experience the feeling of a big cock in their mouth"
Good pont, guys do love their cock being sucked, it's a fab feeling. I love the contact of a woman as they are so so sexy in every way, but when it comes to getting your cock sucked, then step up whoever if you are good at sucking cock and let's give it a go.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences "
I find it intriguing to what ‘bi’ actually means to ppl. I wouldn’t consider myself bi but I will happily suck or fuck another women. My partner is the same (well is open to there idea, he hasn’t yet). Does that make me bi?
My best friend is bi and said to her the definition is someone who would have a relationship with the same gender (or person who identifies as that gender).
I don’t like labels particularly but for the sake of fab I am more straight than bi.
Would love to know others’ views.  |
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences "
My experience absolutely not I think you might like to think so but it's not the case.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences
I find it intriguing to what ‘bi’ actually means to ppl. I wouldn’t consider myself bi but I will happily suck or fuck another women. My partner is the same (well is open to there idea, he hasn’t yet). Does that make me bi?
My best friend is bi and said to her the definition is someone who would have a relationship with the same gender (or person who identifies as that gender).
I don’t like labels particularly but for the sake of fab I am more straight than bi.
Would love to know others’ views. "
I know straight females who wretch at the thought of sucking or fucking another women, plus have no inclination to emotionally date one. They are true straight females.
You must be bisexual or at least bicurious, you do not sound straight to me. You can be bi through sexual acts or emotional attraction or both ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's still a big deal to be openly bi, So can understand why men have straight on their profile. Some it is to be discrete, some it's privacy, done it's to increase chances with women and some identifying as bi is a massive step. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"Yes, I've found that quite often. It doesn't bother me at all as long as they're nice people.....it's quite flattering and ego-boosting to know that I can tempt them.
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that is a generous and also very sweet thing to post ... we should all remember that we are all dealing with our sexuality in our own way and in our time ... xx fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!"
All they have to do is look at TV & CD verifications and you soon unearth them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!"
Dont buy into that. By same thinking, all gay female profiles are worth messaging cos they might actually want willy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences
I find it intriguing to what ‘bi’ actually means to ppl. I wouldn’t consider myself bi but I will happily suck or fuck another women. My partner is the same (well is open to there idea, he hasn’t yet). Does that make me bi?
My best friend is bi and said to her the definition is someone who would have a relationship with the same gender (or person who identifies as that gender).
I don’t like labels particularly but for the sake of fab I am more straight than bi.
Would love to know others’ views.
I know straight females who wretch at the thought of sucking or fucking another women, plus have no inclination to emotionally date one. They are true straight females.
You must be bisexual or at least bicurious, you do not sound straight to me. You can be bi through sexual acts or emotional attraction or both ??"
**shrugs shoulders**
Yeah, I see what you mean. As the word suggests it is bi ‘sexual’ not bi ‘relationship’ but that could be semantics.
I guess it’s not something I have ever really considered doing until in a relationship with Lee. I mean I had experimented in my teens but a lot do. I wouldn’t have fucked a girl out of a relationship.
Some food for thought, thanks for ur input.
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Human personality and tastes naturally lie on continua, including sexual readiness to experimentation. Most people who have a fleeting curiosity and actually try something with the dame gender, are likely better thought of as straight, if you're the sort of person that expects yo cram near infinite flavours of human personality into 3 or 4 rigid categories.
Much research shows us that sexual orientations are not fixed, static entities either. It's reasonable to expect that some people will not know with certainty just what their full potential interests are. If you are someone who's within the in unchanging camp of the possible. majority straight people, your life doesn't have the same parallel with others - your choices and understanding are different.
A site like fab potentially let's someone express and explore something that they could find tougher amongst people that they know, for example. This same opportunity to investigate and explore other different to our own norm experiences is something that many of us are doing here too - just with different things than same sex stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always amused by the guys that drop into these threads to affirm their straightness
It's OK, we believe you
Even as a bi guy whose scale now tips towards the gay rather than the straight end, I totally get that some guys wouldn't want near another guys bits n pieces, ever
Unless you contact me to tell me otherwise, I will assume that the straight on your profile doesn't and will never include me
I'll just move on, without troubling you further |
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That don't suprise me. It's almost assumed on FAB that all men are Bi in the same way people assume women in clubs are all Bi. It must be, because despite my profile I get offers daily from men (many apparently straight). There's clearly enough fab streight guys on here to make worth a stab, unfortunately they are barking up the wrong tree. But it is nice to see more and more men being openly bi on here. I suspect far more men are Bi than advertised. I can only imagine the amount of closset bi or gay is evidence that are society is more harmful to men in this way than it is women. Hopefully one day with have a society that all feel free, empowered and proud to openly be who they are. I think we're probably a couple of generations away from that still. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"if i sucked another bloke off that would be sex, if i then fell in love and married him that would be gay or homosexual "
I think it’s more complicated than that There are bi guys married to men too - perhaps not quite so usual but I’ve chatted to a few. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"It’s bloody rediculous the amount of men who lie and are in denial about their sexuality."
I think it’s tactical with some guys - they don’t want to put off those who won’t meet bi curious or bisexual guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a common phenomenon on here OP - some guys don't like to display their true sexuality - sometimes because they are still coming to terms with it, sometimes because of the stigma associated with it by some, but most of the time they are doing it because they think it will get round the "filters" of those that don't meet bisexual guys, without realising that by doing so they are potentially missing out on a far bigger pool of people that will meet them, or even actively seek them. "
How do you know that the pool would be far bigger? Are you talking from personal experience or you see the results of the other people in the forum/in the clubs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!"
I think a lot of couples forget that bi men can also play straight! |
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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences "
If a guy wants sucking of a guy then he is obviously not straight as you indicated in your post title!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience on fab I'd say it's partly because there's plenty of women who put 'do not message me if you are bi or meet tgirls' where as lots of gay men or tgirls don't seem to care that the guys are closeted.
It's a numbers game where if you put bi on your profile you exclude yourself from more people than you open yourself up to so overall what's the benefit?
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"From my experience on fab I'd say it's partly because there's plenty of women who put 'do not message me if you are bi or meet tgirls' where as lots of gay men or tgirls don't seem to care that the guys are closeted.
It's a numbers game where if you put bi on your profile you exclude yourself from more people than you open yourself up to so overall what's the benefit?
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Actually it's the opposite bi guys have far more fun and probably get more interest. Personally I don't care what sexuality they are as long as everyone has fun.
It's 2019 not 1919 and swingers are supposed to be liberated people so I thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my experience on fab I'd say it's partly because there's plenty of women who put 'do not message me if you are bi or meet tgirls' where as lots of gay men or tgirls don't seem to care that the guys are closeted.
It's a numbers game where if you put bi on your profile you exclude yourself from more people than you open yourself up to so overall what's the benefit?
Actually it's the opposite bi guys have far more fun and probably get more interest. Personally I don't care what sexuality they are as long as everyone has fun.
It's 2019 not 1919 and swingers are supposed to be liberated people so I thought."
Well that's your experience, unfortunately mine differs although I'm not saying either is more accurate but there's definitely still some closed minded swingers knocking about, hence the amount of closeted guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had messages and winks from a few women and MF couples and it clear on my profile I am bicurious for women, I am not straight. It does not seem to have put many off that I am not straight, although I am sure some it has but who cares? Rather be honest about myself, you have to be when it comes to sex |
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We'll happily meet bi guys. Bi guys have less hang ups when it comes to dp or dvp whereas some straight guys CAN quite uptight about another cock in close proximity.
We attended an orgy in South London in March that billed itself as bi friendly and where the invite specifically stated that any straight people had to respect any bi dynamic that might occur. It turns out most straight guys just aren't, especially when a pretty ts is offering to suck dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's still a big deal to be openly bi, So can understand why men have straight on their profile. Some it is to be discrete, some it's privacy, done it's to increase chances with women and some identifying as bi is a massive step. "
A lot on here who have straight on profile clearly lie for their benefit with regard to getting women. They don't seem to have an issue when meeting men on fab guys!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences
Any port in a storm. "
The sea has been quite choppy lately! |
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"We'll happily meet bi guys. Bi guys have less hang ups when it comes to dp or dvp whereas some straight guys CAN quite uptight about another cock in close proximity.
We attended an orgy in South London in March that billed itself as bi friendly and where the invite specifically stated that any straight people had to respect any bi dynamic that might occur. It turns out most straight guys just aren't, especially when a pretty ts is offering to suck dick. "
Completely agree , bi men make for a much more relaxed meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'll happily meet bi guys. Bi guys have less hang ups when it comes to dp or dvp whereas some straight guys CAN quite uptight about another cock in close proximity.
We attended an orgy in South London in March that billed itself as bi friendly and where the invite specifically stated that any straight people had to respect any bi dynamic that might occur. It turns out most straight guys just aren't, especially when a pretty ts is offering to suck dick. "
I think this is something worth giving a try. |
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"Do straight women ever get the urge to meet women to get them off? No strings attached "
No never, as I am straight I have no interest in women sexually, otherwise I would have at least bi curious on my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences "
You mean biguys calling themselves straight.
No straight guy would be interested by definition.
Silly notion imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!I think a lot of couples forget that bi men can also play straight!"
Straight guys do seem to think that just because they have a cock bi men will want to fuck them, it’s hilarious. |
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"A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!I think a lot of couples forget that bi men can also play straight!
Straight guys do seem to think that just because they have a cock bi men will want to fuck them, it’s hilarious."
That’s brilliant lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve found a lot of straight guys want sucking. Anyone else, apart from women lol, who have had similar experiences
I find it intriguing to what ‘bi’ actually means to ppl. I wouldn’t consider myself bi but I will happily suck or fuck another women. My partner is the same (well is open to there idea, he hasn’t yet). Does that make me bi?
My best friend is bi and said to her the definition is someone who would have a relationship with the same gender (or person who identifies as that gender).
I don’t like labels particularly but for the sake of fab I am more straight than bi.
Would love to know others’ views. "
What's the word relationship got to do with it? It's about same sex activity which define being bi.
Most here have a relationship with an animal, their son or daughter, their parents, none of these relationships have a bearing as to any particular kink.
Those who express their lack of understanding what bi means just don't want to fess up and own it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of 'straight' men we have talked to on here say they do it to improve their chances with women and couples, lots of whom have that they won't meet bi men on their profile.
Any woman or couple who think just because it says straight on a man's profile means they definitely are is delusional!I think a lot of couples forget that bi men can also play straight!
Straight guys do seem to think that just because they have a cock bi men will want to fuck them, it’s hilarious.
That’s brilliant lol"
What's brilliant about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on on fabs before listed as a straight male yet I knew I was behaving in a “fab straight” kinda way, there is a lot that comes with being honest....it’s been said already as soon as you have bi anywhere near your profile men just think they can flood you.
I decided that I’d rather be open on here as I have no hang ups...if there is a room full of bi people I promise you that’s a party yet if it’s a room with a mixture that room will have an awkward atmosphere for sure.
The stigma that comes with male on male is what breaks my hart...as a society we encourage females to go bi or lesbian yet men are still considering death rather than admit they suck a bit of dick...
Nothing but facts. |
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